"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You’re so delusional and detached from reality. Gimme a minute to quote everyone else who also thought you were weird. It wasn’t just BPH and I.
Reality is not identified by consensus. If you're in a room full of people who think the world is flat, does it mean it's flat?

Just because a thought or idea looks weird to you doesn't mean it's detached from reality.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I got the sense that she was too mature for me.

Only desperate guys are willing bang a woman that will give them five minutes of pleasure and a week of low self-esteem.

Right now I just matched with a cute but, we'll say 'curvy' 19yo, who is more bangable for me. I'm getting better with my cold approaches. And lately I've been getting hit on by 30 something year old women from time to time.
But you were fine going to some 20 years old house when her parents were there and getting 10 seconds.

SMFH.

Beyond hopeless cause.

Making no sense talking yourself in circles trying to sound smart but having Swiss cheese size holes in your logic.
 

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But you were fine going to some 20 years old house when her parents were there and getting 10 seconds.

SMFH.

Beyond hopeless cause.

Making no sense talking yourself in circles trying to sound smart but having Swiss cheese size holes in your logic.
If that 30yo woman wasn't good enough for me then she's not good enough for me.

What I did with the 20yo woman was stupid, I'd put her way above the 30yo.

If you guys don't like that then fine, put me on ignore and let me carry about my business.

I rejected a 30yo woman and I shouldn't have to defend my actions to this extent.

This thread needs to be locked.
 
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If she's not good enough for me then she's not good enough for me.

This thread has become nonconstructive
Because you are continuing it for no reason.

You have shown us that you don't want to succeed, don't listen to those who want to help you, but revel in constantly updating it and engaging in arguments.

This thread is 13 pages. Your cold approach journal is 18 pages. Your "cracked the code" thread is 3 pages. Funny enough, your shortest thread in recent history was the one where you had sex for 10 seconds instead of inviting the girl to your place...

I think you enjoy whatever THIS is more than you enjoy being successful with women.
 

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Because you are continuing it for no reason.

You have shown us that you don't want to succeed, don't listen to those who want to help you, but revel in constantly updating it and engaging in arguments.

This thread is 13 pages. Your cold approach journal is 18 pages. Your "cracked the code" thread is 3 pages. Funny enough, your shortest thread in recent history was the one where you had sex for 10 seconds instead of inviting the girl to your place...

I think you enjoy whatever THIS is more than you enjoy being successful with women.
No, I have to defend my reputation. If you don't like this thread going on then please stop replying.


What started out as a demonstration of my improvement with texting ended up with some people who lost their minds because I rejected a woman
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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