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Recent content by kintsugi

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    Losing Friends As I Get Older

    I've found the same thing as the OP. Friends and also siblings just go off the social map. I really think it's a time thing, I notice this most with siblings who are married with kids - they are fire fighting the whole time and really don't have time for anyone outside of their family. Maybe...
  2. K

    Pinging vs Radio Silence

    Oh... pinging daily... I think the frequency is too high. If you are seeing a plate then just ping to meet up but def don't ping too often = needy = beta = turn-off.
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    Pinging vs Radio Silence

    Ping girls that have fallen off the list. You haven't seen them for a few months - just ping them, if they are receptive you will know. Radio silence is effectively dread. I use this to get space from girls who start trying to claim boyfriend/girlfriend status.
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    NoFap 90 days

    I find that after 3 weeks of no fap/ no sex you hit this sweet spot where basal desire goes down quite alot and you get a sense of clarity and focus. This leads to more confidence and you are more likely to approach new women and be positive - sure you still want to get them in to bed but that...
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    A few dates ... 'how about kids?!'

    As I said - I know what she's doing and where she wants this to go - I guess I let it run for a few weeks too long just out of curiosity. It was more to bring attention to the dangers of women like this. I've made a sprint for the door now. Exit.
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    A few dates ... 'how about kids?!'

    I met a girl recently - friends of friends - 39 yrs old and good fun. She's older than the girls I normally date and it's interesting to see how she behaves. So far we've had a handful of dates over a month. She's quite physical but I'm the one ending up naked while she keeps her clothes on -...
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    Walk away or stay and play?

    Update - it's a small community here and obviously I keep bumping into her. First few weeks she made a point of looking through me - I found it amusing to be honest - very childish behaviour. Now she smiles and nods to me. Bumped into her this week - she was directly ahead of me in a queue...
  8. K

    So I have some free time.

    Learn a language - duolingo.com - it's free.
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    A loser's chronicle

    Hi Super, Good to workout and also good to exercise the mind. Find something good each day to consider and let that into your life. It'll help with your outlook and you will start to become more positive. Watch out what you say to friends - if you are discussing your issues then consider that...
  10. K

    childhood friend

    Go for a drink in her bar.
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    Girls who snore

    I had a quick search here but most posts are about guys snoring. I recently had a little trip away to see friends in a foreign country and ended up hooking up with a friend of the girl I was staying with. She snores like crazy. It immediately brought back something I had forgotten : my...
  12. K

    What would you do if money wasn't a concern?

    I'd think of the future generations and set up some inter-generational wealth. A friend has this situation - since the 1920's no one in his family has had to work. The extended family meets once a year to pay respect to their ancestor who set this up. Delayed gratification rather than instant...
  13. K

    Walk away or stay and play?

    Should have listened! Run away screaming is the right response - in hindsight. As I mentioned, I texted her a time and place for a morning meeting - she again didn't commit but texted back saying was I free any other time. I replied that I was free in the evening and would love to make her a...
  14. K

    Walk away or stay and play?

    I guess I am after advice on how to get past all the guilt/shame she is feeling and get back to easy going fun. Haven't had that response before. I told her when I saw her that it was nothing to be ashamed of but I guess I have been hanging around with slightly younger girls who haven't seen...
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    Walk away or stay and play?

    Basically I'm trying to play by newly learned rules and want to make sure I keep on track.
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