Recent content by jnallen

Yup...

You guys are "both" right... But again...He wrote four short lines... Ya know

There is a lot of "anger" in your post young man... Maybe you should read some of my posts when I first came here... As far as the rest...I am funny in "public" real funny... I'm not concerned "bout" that... The good "genes" thing is just in your head... Remember this...

I agree dude... Given the "situation"... Have not heard any of his story though which is what we need... I'm like you though... Unless there is a good reason for the BS

You don't say/ask it that way... You have to be "tactful"... Friends that long goes a long way You don't say lets have sex... You just subtly start flirting...and go from there... It works...I've done it...

That all depends on how long she has been "using" you... It could "equate" to a good thing if not that long... But know when to "cut and run" or when to pop the question If it is a short time then your "efforts" may pay off for you...

Yes we all know that "humor" is key in getting any woman... It is brought up here from time to time... The reason that it is so "serious" here is in response to serious posts... There are a lot of humorous people here I am sure... But when humor is not a topic...

No problem... Just keep the latter piece of "advice" for later on down the line...

I can see you have not read the DJ Bible or any of the links on the opening page of this site... Sorry about your luck...You might want to check them out... First of all...if she is "fickle" you "next" her...If not it is just more problems down the road. Trust me on that one as I am 36 and...

OK... Two things here... 1) I think you answered your own question...make the move and cut the BS... "Your Move" 2) Don't ever ask "women" advice about "women"....Want to f!@# yourself reall good then that is a true blue way to do it. I surely hope also that she is not mutual...

It means she is "confident" in herself... Also depends on how long she has been per se "checking you out" To keep this type you will have to become more confident in yourself. She may also be waiting for you to make the move...

Ditto... BTDT and have the "shirt" to show I was their... Not to mention the time wasted in pursuing like that... Keep in mind (and this is not directed towards you) that if a chick is on a dating site there is a reason for it... Whether that be she a "psycho"...."desperate" or...

Right now "you" can't do anything but withdrawal from the whole situation... Then when dealing with any of these "mixed signals" always keep in mind the words of the "Great Pook"... A small list of his and I few I have added for good measure... I'm not looking for a relationship right...

Hey 1utfan1 Thanks buddie... Yes A LOT of weeding out I have learned. This one has just been so hurt is all. Time and someone to not hit her will do wonders. She has never done anything nasty like the ex...OMG remember that. She has never caused problems. I just need to be more...

Exactly. I know she is sincere though so that helps quite a bit. Her abuse was rather recent. I also agree with Caveman about the need to allow her time to trust again.