Hypergamy stuffs…

[BillyPilgrim]

how many text exchanges would you do roughly ( on average ) to do all of the above . Like total texts both sides..

hard to buffer against instant smv issues in person tho hey…
(Just sayin..)
Or as women call it “ that chemistry” or “romantic connection” lol

I’ve started implementing my new screening game and just sent out a bunch of sexy voice memos today , to try speed up their selection, I shall see what happens and report here.

My process is a little longer but it's also somewhat templated so it's not that much work. Maybe around 15 or so exchanges in the app or site and then twice that via phone text but there needs to be consistent high interest, including sexual high interest, that grows throughout the interaction. A lot of the same lines and moves are used with different women at similar points in the interaction, but the flow must be organic feeling. Not that big of a deal assuming one isn't a hardcore autist lol.

The point is to establish a modicum of "chemistry" and "romantic connection" before the in-person meet to give yourself leeway. It can be done, because I do it all the time lol.

Ideally you want the chick masturbating to you before meeting and thinking of you as a hot boyfriend/lover prospect before she even sees you in the flesh. This won't work with jaded/hurt women and the more notorious of the serial daters and hopeless romantics, so you do have to screen.

 

[Cheeky_James]

My process is a little longer but it's also somewhat templated so it's not that much work. Maybe around 15 or so exchanges in the app or site and then twice that via phone text but there needs to be consistent high interest, including sexual high interest, that grows throughout the interaction. A lot of the same lines and moves are used with different women at similar points in the interaction, but the flow must be organic feeling. Not that big of a deal assuming one isn't a hardcore autist lol.

The point is to establish a modicum of "chemistry" and "romantic connection" before the in-person meet to give yourself leeway. It can be done, because I do it all the time lol.

Ideally you want the chick masturbating to you before meeting and thinking of you as a hot boyfriend/lover prospect before she even sees you in the flesh. This won't work with jaded/hurt women and the more notorious of the serial daters and hopeless romantics, so you do have to screen.

ok do you have an examples or receipts I could use for reference pls thanks.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

ok do you have an examples or receipts I could use for reference pls thanks.

Needy!

 

[Cheeky_James]

Needy!

I was expecting that Billy.
VATS DA MATTER BILLY? CIA GOT U PUSHING TOO MANY PENCILS?

 

[Bingo-Player]

Too much nonsense on app's the juice is not worth the squeeze

Go to the gym same time every day for a couple months become a familiar face scope out the regular baddies that go same time as you and then make small talk

Once you've done the icebreaker it becomes very easy to chat to them then you can slow burn them.

Women generally much prefer the mysterious interactions trying to find out bits of information about you thats how real attraction builds and if you do it right she starts to look forward to seeing you.

You can do this in any IRL location where you see the same people frequently I've even done it in public libraries

Not this bullsh1t on the apps where its like

" hey your hot -do you like my photo - yea / no- lets go on a date " - recipe for disappointment lol

 

[Cheeky_James]

Too much nonsense on app's the juice is not worth the squeeze

Go to the gym same time every day for a couple months become a familiar face scope out the regular baddies that go same time as you and then make small talk

Once you've done the icebreaker it becomes very easy to chat to them then you can slow burn them.

Women generally much prefer the mysterious interactions trying to find out bits of information about you thats how real attraction builds and if you do it right she starts to look forward to seeing you.

You can do this in any IRL location where you see the same people frequently I've even done it in public libraries

Not this bullsh1t on the apps where its like

" hey your hot -do you like my photo - yea / no- lets go on a date " - recipe for disappointment lol

mmm yeah. The social circle /gym is a strong strategy.

but re the last part .. apps bullsh1t etc;

I got 15 or so lays Jan-April this year off apps.
App game is a bit different as the comms are firstly and crucially the written word.
so it’s gonna rely a lot on a guys banter and what he can do with the written word. Plus voicememos. Or onto phonecalls. His voice tonalities also.

That’s given he gets attraction off his pics that is.

 

[UK manc]

Too much nonsense on app's the juice is not worth the squeeze

Go to the gym same time every day for a couple months become a familiar face scope out the regular baddies that go same time as you and then make small talk

Once you've done the icebreaker it becomes very easy to chat to them then you can slow burn them.

Women generally much prefer the mysterious interactions trying to find out bits of information about you thats how real attraction builds and if you do it right she starts to look forward to seeing you.

You can do this in any IRL location where you see the same people frequently I've even done it in public libraries

Not this bullsh1t on the apps where its like

" hey your hot -do you like my photo - yea / no- lets go on a date " - recipe for disappointment lol

Good call, I sort of have this at my gym now. Going at the same time is key. Everyone becomes a familiar face. The 6am weekday crowd also become the 8am weekend crowd, and you can filter for the weekend warriors that drop out.

Any other places that are similar? I don't drink so propping up bars at midnight isn't my thing...

 

[Bingo-Player]

mmm yeah. The social circle /gym is a strong strategy.

but re the last part and apps bullsh1t.
I got 15 or so lays Jan-April this year off apps.
App game is a bit different as the comms are firstly and crucially the written word.
so it’s gonna rely a lot on a guys banter and what he can do with the written word. Plus voicememos. Given he gets attraction off his pics that is.

But the women on them are generally awful Bottom of barrel quality

If you're just dating to fvck on an app you might as well cut out the middle man and get an escort

 

[Bingo-Player]

Good call, I sort of have this at my gym now. Going at the same time is key. Everyone becomes a familiar face. The 6am weekday crowd also become the 8am weekend crowd, and you can filter for the weekend warriors that drop out.

Any other places that are similar? I don't drink so propping up bars at midnight isn't my thing...

Not my scene but I have friends who are religious that pick women up in churches

I'm told theres a lot of nutcases but depends what you're into

 

[Cheeky_James]

But the women on them are generally awful Bottom of barrel quality

If you're just dating to fvck on an app you might as well cut out the middle man and get an escort

lol. No I get these ch1cks for FREE baby.
(When I do)
And have had a few quite decent /sexy ones too.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Good call, I sort of have this at my gym now. Going at the same time is key. Everyone becomes a familiar face. The 6am weekday crowd also become the 8am weekend crowd, and you can filter for the weekend warriors that drop out.

Any other places that are similar? I don't drink so propping up bars at midnight isn't my thing...

yeah dude…
But how many are you actually pulling?
Or have pulled in the past w this strategy?
Otherwise this is just theorising and wishful thinking.
Just sayin.

also in addition - had you spoken to other guys who pull from the gym circle strategy?

like. Is there good evidence it’s actually a thing..

 

[Bingo-Player]

lol. No I get these ch1cks for FREE baby.
(When I do)
And have had a few quite decent /sexy ones too.

I'm sure I read that you said in another post you've spent something like 1-2K taking these out on dates ?

thats without the time spent talking about stuff you couldn't give a sh1t about lol

 

[UK manc]

yeah dude…
But how many are you actually pulling?
Or have pulled in the past w this strategy?
Otherwise this is just theorising and wishful thinking.
Just sayin.

also in addition - had you spoken to other guys who pull from the gym circle strategy?

like. Is there good evidence it’s actually a thing..

It's long game strategy bro and I've only got back in to looking recently.

 

[Cheeky_James]

It's long game strategy bro and I've only got back in to looking recently.

yep. We’ll make sure and ask around other dudes IRL and see if there’s any evidence this is a viable strategy would be my advice.

And be mindful that there’s a lot of stuff women perceive as pvssy begging. seriously.

Including Day game cold approaching under any cover of “I just had to come over and tell you you’re cute “ and also “ I want to try connect with you over xyz. “ connect with commonalities first etc.

women see this as an obvious, weak play.
The guy with the bowl out , asking “please miss , can I have some pvss?”

my 2c.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Well well well..

guess who forgot about the Hinge Police…
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol.

 

[Cheeky_James]

All that hard work… and pvssy connections ..gone!

 

[Bingo-Player]

Well well well..

guess who forgot about the Hinge Police?
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol. View attachment 15916

what did you do lol

 

[Cheeky_James]

what did you do lol

methinks my latest round of voice memos had slightly too sleazy tonality,
Some receiver did not have a GSOH.