"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BillyPilgrim

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how many text exchanges would you do roughly ( on average ) to do all of the above . Like total texts both sides..

hard to buffer against instant smv issues in person tho hey…
(Just sayin..)
Or as women call it “ that chemistry” or “romantic connection” lol

I’ve started implementing my new screening game and just sent out a bunch of sexy voice memos today , to try speed up their selection, I shall see what happens and report here.
My process is a little longer but it's also somewhat templated so it's not that much work. Maybe around 15 or so exchanges in the app or site and then twice that via phone text but there needs to be consistent high interest, including sexual high interest, that grows throughout the interaction. A lot of the same lines and moves are used with different women at similar points in the interaction, but the flow must be organic feeling. Not that big of a deal assuming one isn't a hardcore autist lol.

The point is to establish a modicum of "chemistry" and "romantic connection" before the in-person meet to give yourself leeway. It can be done, because I do it all the time lol.

Ideally you want the chick masturbating to you before meeting and thinking of you as a hot boyfriend/lover prospect before she even sees you in the flesh. This won't work with jaded/hurt women and the more notorious of the serial daters and hopeless romantics, so you do have to screen.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My process is a little longer but it's also somewhat templated so it's not that much work. Maybe around 15 or so exchanges in the app or site and then twice that via phone text but there needs to be consistent high interest, including sexual high interest, that grows throughout the interaction. A lot of the same lines and moves are used with different women at similar points in the interaction, but the flow must be organic feeling. Not that big of a deal assuming one isn't a hardcore autist lol.

The point is to establish a modicum of "chemistry" and "romantic connection" before the in-person meet to give yourself leeway. It can be done, because I do it all the time lol.

Ideally you want the chick masturbating to you before meeting and thinking of you as a hot boyfriend/lover prospect before she even sees you in the flesh. This won't work with jaded/hurt women and the more notorious of the serial daters and hopeless romantics, so you do have to screen.
ok do you have an examples or receipts I could use for reference pls thanks.
 
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