"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

At a desired height difference of 10", a 5'5" man would have to pursue a 4'7" woman

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

BaronOfHair

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2024
Messages
5,490
Reaction score
2,973
Age
37
Average female height ranges from 5'6-5'7, thus a man of similar stature can easily accentuate his height via footwear and the like, so as to be significantly taller than MOST women on this planet

Really though, @MatureDJ , when even Peter Dinklage has been able to snag a non-dwarf, I'm baffled as to what you're fixation on this subject is
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,704
Reaction score
5,131
Average female height ranges from 5'6-5'7, thus a man of similar stature can easily accentuate his height via footwear and the like, so as to be significantly taller than MOST women on this planet

Really though, @MatureDJ , when even Peter Dinklage has been able to snag a non-dwarf, I'm baffled as to what you're fixation on this subject is
As an actor, he mogs me.
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
16,898
Reaction score
19,180
I've dated plenty of women the same height or an inch or two shorter than me.

Focus on other things you are lacking. It's not height trust me. That's just the excuse you keep hanging your hat on.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,758
Reaction score
9,962
A lot of guys say that to get around women's height bias, you just date shorter women.
I've always thought the woman's height is irrelevant. No matter how short they are, they still want that six foot guy.
Because they want the guy who stands out among other men.
It's not about their own height, it's hypergamy. There's nothing special about dominating a woman physically.
They want the big guy who can protect them from other men.
 

BaronOfHair

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2024
Messages
5,490
Reaction score
2,973
Age
37
As an actor, he mogs me.
Forgive my impertinence, nonetheless I believe the following analogy can benefit many fellas, yourself included:

Dinklage did what was required to gain what many describe as "high status", DESPITE his possible disadvantages, same way gents like Michael Liebowitz here
spend their 25 years+ in state pen educating themselves both formally and informally, rather than passing the time as most convicted felons do: Snorting dope, playing dice, watching sh-t tons of TV, and fantasizing about how much better things would've turned out, if they'd been born into different environments

The conscious decisions Dinklage made are what allowed him to "mog" other men, surely as the choices Liebowitz made led to him becoming a published author and celebrity commentator, while he was STILL locked up

So, are you going to go to work on yourself ala. Liebowitz, or are you going to be the dating and mating equivalent of a convicted felon who laments his circumstances, as opposed to finally investing in himself/altering the thoughts and behaviors which are sabotaging his prospects for securing The Good Life?
 

plumber

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 1, 2022
Messages
1,006
Reaction score
848
A lot of guys say that to get around women's height bias, you just date shorter women.
I've always thought the woman's height is irrelevant. No matter how short they are, they still want that six foot guy.
Because they want the guy who stands out among other men.
It's not about their own height, it's hypergamy. There's nothing special about dominating a woman physically.
They want the big guy who can protect them from other men.
100%. its not about the height of the woman vs you, its you vs other men around you that she can see. and it does make a difference. the workaround is if and when the taller men give you respect and defer to you.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,704
Reaction score
5,131
So, are you going to go to work on yourself ala. Liebowitz, or are you going to be the dating and mating equivalent of a convicted felon who laments his circumstances, as opposed to finally investing in himself/altering the thoughts and behaviors which are sabotaging his prospects for securing The Good Life?
I have worked on myself by becoming a very astute and successful equity investor - and the financial gains have allowed me to consider spinning WealthGame, although that obviously is fraught with traps.
 
Top