Life advice for a person in their very early 20s

[revannt]

im someone in my very early 20s and im sort of lost in life what i want to acheive. I know i want to be successful and I want to gain a variety of skills that help me build there, but Im sort of lost on whether I want to sort of "live out my 20s" or grind it out and make it so that my 30s are better. Everyone around me is sort of living out their 20s, and in all honesty I fee as though i am missing out. Regardless, it's just a struggle to keep my head down sometimes and instead i should be going out and meeting people. Don't know.

I guess im asking for life advice, things i should be doing to set up my life right, stuff like that etc...

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Revannt,
Get your foundation firmly in place,Qualifications and Capital are so important,the rest will come.

 

[eli77]

I love the book think and grow rich plus don't sweat the small stuff.Been very helpful in my journey.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Don’t waste your youth, essence - ( semen), time on chasing pvssy….learn to grown and invest that time into your future, finance, and connections. Look into starting a business, research some places where you want to reside and learn.

 

[revannt]

Don’t waste your youth, essence - ( semen), time on chasing pvssy….learn to grown and invest that time into your future, finance, and connections. Look into starting a business, research some places where you want to reside and learn.

anything else one shoudld know? or should look out for?

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Im sort of lost on whether I want to sort of "live out my 20s" or grind it out and make it so that my 30s are better. Everyone around me is sort of living out their 20s, and in all honesty I fee as though i am missing out.

It doesnt have to be either or, sometimes Life Is about balance. One of my favorite Youtubers is Howtobeast go watch him.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

anything else one shoudld know? or should look out for?

Focus also on raising your vibration and taking the high road whenever you can.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I guess im asking for life advice, things i should be doing to set up my life right, stuff like that etc...

-Purchase this book https://www.artofmanliness.com/character/behavior/podcast-204-how-to-be-miserable/ , do everything Patterson instructs

-Write down Mr. Chase's sage observation
52:56-53:03

Frame it, hang it to wall, and re-read it regularly.

 

[revannt]

Focus also on raising your vibration and taking the high road whenever you can.

solid. ill keep this in mind!

 

[tesla8520]

-Write down Mr. Chase's sage observation
52:56-53:03

My smartphone doesn't have audio speaker working, plus I don't have a pc right now.
Could you guys write what he say?

Purchase this book

Just to be sure are you talking about
How to Be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use
?

 

[revannt]

My smartphone doesn't have audio speaker working, plus I don't have a pc right now.
Could you guys write what he say?

Just to be sure are you talking about
How to Be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use
?

sorry i was a little confused on this too. is there a particular reason i should be reading how to be misreable? feel like thats counter intuitive? or maybe i am wrong. just clarifying!

 

[Pumax]

It's hard, but every man should forge his own narrative in his life.

 

[BaronOfHair]

My smartphone doesn't have audio speaker working, plus I don't have a pc right now.
Could you guys write what he say?

Quote: "It can be really hard to know how to be a man... Practically every man I know is still working on it"



"Just to be sure are you talking about
How to Be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use?"

Yep. Listen to the interview I linked, and you'll understand my motives for recommending it

 

[BadBoy89]

I‘d say chase hot girls and commit to ONE before 27. Get married. Alot of men think “when I get established and make money, then the hot girls will come around and beg me to have sex and get pregnant“.

Doesn't work that way.

 

[revannt]

I‘d say chase hot girls and commit to ONE before 27. Get married. Alot of men think “when I get established and make money, then the hot girls will come around and beg me to have sex and get pregnant“.

Doesn't work that way.

how else does it work then? im confused.

 

[tesla8520]

@BadBoy89

I can see that you're reccomending to have an emotional impact and get experienced with women, and your career will come.
Your narrative is pretty different from what I actually saw working IRL, and what I'd actually reccomend or pursue

 

[revannt]

@BadBoy89

I can see that you're reccomending to have an emotional impact and get experienced with women, and your career will come.
Your narrative is pretty different from what I actually saw working IRL, and what I'd actually reccomend or pursue

what do u reccomend?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Consistency over time beats single "huge" outputs virtually always.

 

[jhonny9546]

Consistency over time

My cousin thought the same thing...
That's not what worked in his relationship though...
I'm sure it works for you as a man.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

My cousin thought the same thing...
That's not what worked in his relationship though...
I'm sure it works for you as a man.

I'm not talking about relationships. I am talking about things like investing money.