"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Infinitely harder to lose weight

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True. Light jog + weight lifting + rope skipping + calisthenics(light) were my go to since my work forces me to be seated 8-10 hours per day.
You'd probably find walking to be better. Jogging has a negative effect on cortisol/anabolic hormones, walking does not.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You'd probably find walking to be better. Jogging has a negative effect on cortisol/anabolic hormones, walking does not.
True, read so. Walking burns more fat, than running does because body hates burning fat but not carbs.
 

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True, read so. Walking burns more fat, than running does because body hates burning fat but not carbs.
Alternatively, do HIIT sprints at 100% effort, ideally with a mile or two walk as a warmup. I don't think jogging has a place personally, sprints+walks are way better in every way.
 

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Alternatively, do HIIT sprints at 100% effort, ideally with a mile or two walk as a warmup. I don't think jogging has a place personally, sprints+walks are way better in every way.
To a point. It's very easy to put your body in a place where it's hard to recover properly if you try and do this too often tho.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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To a point. It's very easy to put your body in a place where it's hard to recover properly if you try and do this too often tho.
I would only do sprints of that intensity like once a week or twice a week at most. But you can go on long walks almost every day.
 

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My list:
1.No PUFA.
2. Healthy sugar + salt.
3. Eggs + lots of dairy
4. Exercising
5. Fruit juices!
My mother side is messed up in a lot of things: Acidity, bone issues, diabetes and what not.
Lately I have changed my diet so much. I feel more alive, more energetic, and no lethargy. Also, I sleep 8-10 hours.
Fruit juice is essentially sugar water.
 

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Sorta confused about polyunsaturated fats

i heard some say all fat is basically equal

i like the idea of eating mostly pescatarian (fish and seafood) diet with eggs added and some low carb veggies, and nuts
 

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Alternatively, do HIIT sprints at 100% effort, ideally with a mile or two walk as a warmup. I don't think jogging has a place personally, sprints+walks are way better in every way.
Really? Surprised you guys don’t recommend jogging

the running groups have some of the hottest women. I’ve never been much of a runner but may join running groups because some of the women in them have stellar bodies

not necessarily to try picking them up but because they’re doing something right if they have great bodies, physic

when I go to the gym I’m not as into women with big muscle builds lol I like women petite and skinny
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i like the idea of eating mostly pescatarian (fish and seafood) diet with eggs added and some low carb veggies, and nuts
Honestly whatever works for you. My diet is light and more towards boiled eggs, pasta, meat, fruit juices, salt and honey. I feel energetic, the bloating doesn't happen and no inflammation either. Still learning.
 

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It is so frustrating. I could lose weight so easily in my 20's and early 30's. Now that I am 40 it is so difficult to even lose 5 lbs. No matter how much I exercise I can not do it. I have to eat perfectly now and do high intensity cardio to even lose 5lbs. I hate it.
Quit doing the 12 ounce curls. :rolleyes:
 

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The biggest problem is most people claim they are "eating healthy foods" but when they actually break down what they are eating on a daily basis, too often it's still is not very good.

If 90% of what you are eating aren't one ingredient foods, then you have no basis for claiming what you are eating is "healthy" and you are only fooling yourself as to wondering why you can't lose weight.
 

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The biggest problem is most people claim they are "eating healthy foods" but when they actually break down what they are eating on a daily basis, too often it's still is not very good.

If 90% of what you are eating aren't one ingredient foods, then you have no basis for claiming what you are eating is "healthy" and you are only fooling yourself as to wondering why you can't lose weight.
Bro you are right. I hardly eat 1 ingredient food. I need to address this. The food I eat is often processed like crazy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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