Yes my job now is quite sedentary. When my job required a lot of walking I did not have as much trouble. Good point.do you have a sedentary job? ie a sit down all day office type job?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yes my job now is quite sedentary. When my job required a lot of walking I did not have as much trouble. Good point.do you have a sedentary job? ie a sit down all day office type job?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Nope. I try to keep things simple. I'm also testing out some other recipes. I will report back after my findings through trial and error.Ever try a basque cheesecake? Great tasting variation I’ll make sometimes. Super easy to make low-carb & high protein
Adding chia seeds to water (or almond/coconut milk) is also a great way to get the morning going. Just remember to soak the chia seeds for at least 20 minutes; longer is recommended.Yes water fills you up so you don't feel hungry
I make something I call a protein paste with chia seeds, black sesame seeds, coconut milk and protein powder along with berries...Adding chia seeds to water (or almond/coconut milk) is also a great way to get the morning going. Just remember to soak the chia seeds for at least 20 minutes; longer is recommended.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Diet.It is so frustrating. I could lose weight so easily in my 20's and early 30's. Now that I am 40 it is so difficult to even lose 5 lbs. No matter how much I exercise I can not do it. I have to eat perfectly now and do high intensity cardio to even lose 5lbs. I hate it.
You should budget yourself at least 30 minutes a day for a walk or jog on a treadmill. Is the sedentary lifestyle that's killing people.Yes my job now is quite sedentary. When my job required a lot of walking I did not have as much trouble. Good point.
100%...the number one predictor of "any cause mortality" is the amount of time you spend seated during a day.You should budget yourself at least 30 minutes a day for a walk or jog on a treadmill. Is the sedentary lifestyle that's killing people.
The thing is I work out a lot. I do 2 days a week Ju Jitsu and 2 days at the regular gym. The issue is that I eat too much and have a bad diet. You cant out work a bad diet.You should budget yourself at least 30 minutes a day for a walk or jog on a treadmill. Is the sedentary lifestyle that's killing people.
Oh wow this is very interesting. This makes a lot of sense too.100%...the number one predictor of "any cause mortality" is the amount of time you spend seated during a day.
They found the shins have something called a Gravitostat, which essentially is the body's version of an internal scale that gives feedback to the body effecting metabolism, food intake, etc.
When you stay seated for long periods of time, the body believes it is lighter than it actually is which then slows metabolism and increases food intake to try and keep the body weight stable.
This has deleterious effects on virtually every bodily function over time.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Stop eating sh it. Problem solved.The thing is I work out a lot. I do 2 days a week Ju Jitsu and 2 days at the regular gym. The issue is that I eat too much and have a bad diet. You cant out work a bad diet.
The Sh it tastes the bestStop eating sh it. Problem solved.
You can never out walk, out meditate or out train a bad diet.Zazen meditation, yoga and tai chi mixed with brisk walking are good activities to have for weight loss. The meditations gets rid of the bloatedness anytime quickly
yeah really, every overweight/fat person i've ever known seems to think they can continue eating cakes and ice cream multiple nights a week and just burn it off with exercise. it's mind boggling to me.You can never out walk, out meditate or out train a bad diet.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Also high cortisol. Those who work late at night, sit a lot, don't exercise. All of them have: low T, insulin resistance as you mentioned, high cortisol, and some issues with thyroid gland too since it handles metabolism.That's a sign of insulin Resistance and low T levels
Use MyFitnessPalAny tips for calorie counting? I’ve written down a list of my main food items with all nutritional data for each one. Anyone else think menu planning is just too big of a math project?
I’ve calculated:
My ideal body weight
How many calories I can have daily
How many grams of protein I should have daily
How many grams of fat daily
I’m going crazy with all these numbers and creating a food plan. My guess is I’m rarely below my daily calorie requirements. The exercise I do is not strenuous but I’m consistent. But then I’m not very good about resting properly.
no kidding this was an easier ball game when I was in my 20’s. I think I eat too much and have a drinking problem when I get cravings and then get sloshed about once per week and that’s not helping much
My list:It is so frustrating. I could lose weight so easily in my 20's and early 30's. Now that I am 40 it is so difficult to even lose 5 lbs. No matter how much I exercise I can not do it. I have to eat perfectly now and do high intensity cardio to even lose 5lbs. I hate it.
True. Light jog + weight lifting + rope skipping + calisthenics(light) were my go to since my work forces me to be seated 8-10 hours per day.100%...the number one predictor of "any cause mortality" is the amount of time you spend seated during a day.
They found the shins have something called a Gravitostat, which essentially is the body's version of an internal scale that gives feedback to the body effecting metabolism, food intake, etc.
When you stay seated for long periods of time, the body believes it is lighter than it actually is which then slows metabolism and increases food intake to try and keep the body weight stable.
This has deleterious effects on virtually every bodily function over time.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.