"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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True. Light jog + weight lifting + rope skipping + calisthenics(light) were my go to since my work forces me to be seated 8-10 hours per day.
You'd probably find walking to be better. Jogging has a negative effect on cortisol/anabolic hormones, walking does not.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You'd probably find walking to be better. Jogging has a negative effect on cortisol/anabolic hormones, walking does not.
True, read so. Walking burns more fat, than running does because body hates burning fat but not carbs.
 

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True, read so. Walking burns more fat, than running does because body hates burning fat but not carbs.
Alternatively, do HIIT sprints at 100% effort, ideally with a mile or two walk as a warmup. I don't think jogging has a place personally, sprints+walks are way better in every way.
 

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Alternatively, do HIIT sprints at 100% effort, ideally with a mile or two walk as a warmup. I don't think jogging has a place personally, sprints+walks are way better in every way.
To a point. It's very easy to put your body in a place where it's hard to recover properly if you try and do this too often tho.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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To a point. It's very easy to put your body in a place where it's hard to recover properly if you try and do this too often tho.
I would only do sprints of that intensity like once a week or twice a week at most. But you can go on long walks almost every day.
 

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My list:
1.No PUFA.
2. Healthy sugar + salt.
3. Eggs + lots of dairy
4. Exercising
5. Fruit juices!
My mother side is messed up in a lot of things: Acidity, bone issues, diabetes and what not.
Lately I have changed my diet so much. I feel more alive, more energetic, and no lethargy. Also, I sleep 8-10 hours.
Fruit juice is essentially sugar water.
 

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Sorta confused about polyunsaturated fats

i heard some say all fat is basically equal

i like the idea of eating mostly pescatarian (fish and seafood) diet with eggs added and some low carb veggies, and nuts
 

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Alternatively, do HIIT sprints at 100% effort, ideally with a mile or two walk as a warmup. I don't think jogging has a place personally, sprints+walks are way better in every way.
Really? Surprised you guys don’t recommend jogging

the running groups have some of the hottest women. I’ve never been much of a runner but may join running groups because some of the women in them have stellar bodies

not necessarily to try picking them up but because they’re doing something right if they have great bodies, physic

when I go to the gym I’m not as into women with big muscle builds lol I like women petite and skinny
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i like the idea of eating mostly pescatarian (fish and seafood) diet with eggs added and some low carb veggies, and nuts
Honestly whatever works for you. My diet is light and more towards boiled eggs, pasta, meat, fruit juices, salt and honey. I feel energetic, the bloating doesn't happen and no inflammation either. Still learning.
 

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It is so frustrating. I could lose weight so easily in my 20's and early 30's. Now that I am 40 it is so difficult to even lose 5 lbs. No matter how much I exercise I can not do it. I have to eat perfectly now and do high intensity cardio to even lose 5lbs. I hate it.
Quit doing the 12 ounce curls. :rolleyes:
 

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The biggest problem is most people claim they are "eating healthy foods" but when they actually break down what they are eating on a daily basis, too often it's still is not very good.

If 90% of what you are eating aren't one ingredient foods, then you have no basis for claiming what you are eating is "healthy" and you are only fooling yourself as to wondering why you can't lose weight.
 

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The biggest problem is most people claim they are "eating healthy foods" but when they actually break down what they are eating on a daily basis, too often it's still is not very good.

If 90% of what you are eating aren't one ingredient foods, then you have no basis for claiming what you are eating is "healthy" and you are only fooling yourself as to wondering why you can't lose weight.
Bro you are right. I hardly eat 1 ingredient food. I need to address this. The food I eat is often processed like crazy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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