Plinco's cold approach journal

[Plinco]

I'm making a note to myself. I need to pay attention to my emotional state and my behavior. I believe I'm making people feel uncomfortable around me without realizing it. I don't have this problem when I'm around people whom I'm close to, but when I'm by myself I'm somehow putting off a bad vibe. I don't know why I'm doing that either.

The solution is to work through it. I might not be liked but I am respected.

Yeah, if you’re running into the same girls then you should move to a bigger city ASAP, that means your city is too small for cold approach. A bigger city is life changing.

How many people are in your current city?

I'm drawing up plans to go to Orlando. That way I'm not sh!tting where I eat. I like dancing at this local spot so I don't want to ruin it anymore. I want to do Thursday night to hit on the girls I really like give Friday night a shot too.

To answer your question, I technically live within the city of Melbourne, but a bit outside of it (it is sprawling to around my area though), a good number or retirees, with a total population of 84,678 as of 2020. There are some residential areas around that, and to the south and west, rural.

I have my roots planted here. Not easy for me to move.

 

[Plinco]

First off, I'm tagging these two threads

I made 24 direct cold approaches in one night

I made a total of 33 in two days. Thursday night: there were a ton of approach worthy women in Orlando, I'd say I saw about 44 or so whom I wanted to approach, but approached 24. 24/44 Friday during the day: I saw 6 approach worthy, and approached 3. 3/6 Friday night: 7 were approach...

www.sosuave.net

Feel Free To Criticize My Texting Game

Have at it!

www.sosuave.net

I had an opportunity to make a cold approach with a gorgeous young lady today. For reasons that I'm not going to post on here I decided to do an indirect approach. After a very short exchange I got blown off and had to walk away like a moron. I should have just went direct and been done with it. I'm mad at myself as I type this.

 

[Plinco]

Just came back from Orlando. Wasn't as crowded as it was two weeks ago. Did 19 approaches. 19/26

 

[eli77]

My observations:

The goth scene is back with college aged girls. I saw a lot of hunched postures, probably from excessive device use. Many of these girls do not put in the effort to look nice as they did even as of a few years ago.

My motives: I'm 38 and I'm looking at the 18 to 22 crowd. I'm going for pretty faces, high energy, physically fit girls, etc. I estimate that these girls are at the top 1% of the female population.

I've approached nine girls in the last few days, and here are the results


5/9 were underage (I'm guessing 15 to 17)

3/9 cold shoulders

1/9 had a short conversation, but her interest level was about a 2/10


So far, so good

Do you prefer younger women my cut off is twenty two the youngest!I prefer my women older.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Just came back from Orlando. Wasn't as crowded as it was two weeks ago. Did 19 approaches. 19/26

Hell yeah man. That’s great. How’d it go?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

First off, I'm tagging these two threads

I made 24 direct cold approaches in one night

I made a total of 33 in two days. Thursday night: there were a ton of approach worthy women in Orlando, I'd say I saw about 44 or so whom I wanted to approach, but approached 24. 24/44 Friday during the day: I saw 6 approach worthy, and approached 3. 3/6 Friday night: 7 were approach...

www.sosuave.net

Feel Free To Criticize My Texting Game

Have at it!

www.sosuave.net

I had an opportunity to make a cold approach with a gorgeous young lady today. For reasons that I'm not going to post on here I decided to do an indirect approach. After a very short exchange I got blown off and had to walk away like a moron. I should have just went direct and been done with it. I'm mad at myself as I type this.

Why? She clearly wasn't interested. You could have done the best approach of your life and it wouldn't have mattered.

 

[Plinco]

Hell yeah man. That’s great. How’d it go?

Pulling it from memory

I didn't have any lengthy conversations like I did two weeks prior. I was more successful at bantering and felt more confident; I was being less conscious while conversing. That means that I'm recognizing patterns and I'm more comfortable.

I went to that line dancing place and made a few approaches there. Almost all of the women I wanted to approach were on the dance floor, so I tried approaching in between dances but it wasn't easy dancing and trying to spot women whom I wanted to approach, and the dance floor was getting pretty crowded. I left there and headed downtown where I did most of my approaches. I ran into the same problem I had before, I opened with a girl and started having a bit of conversation only to have her friends intervene. I'll introduce myself to her friends when I recognize that they are with her, but even then either she doesn't like me or her friends don't.

I'm getting better at it though.

 

[Plinco]

I went out dancing for about an hour. I was in no mood to do any approaches but to my surprise some of the women were attractive. None of the places downtown were crowded for a Friday night. I wanted to practice the aspect of my conversation skills of making it an emotional experience. I talked to a couple of people in there, and I think I was evoking emotion in my speaking, so I suppose I can call tonight a little bit of a gain.

I had resting a**hole face; I felt that I didn't need to prove anything to anyone. I was completely comfortable in there, and to be honest, didn't feel impressed with the people in there either. I like Thursday nights better.