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Fort Lauderdale recommendations?

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Birthday coming up at the end of the month.

Went to check out Arizona last December, have been to Miami and other parts of Florida a few times, and wanted to see what Fort Lauderdale is like.

I've got a buddy who lives down there and travels for work a lot, said I could use his place. He may or may not be around when I'm there to visit, so if he isn't, I'd appreciate some recommendations in terms of nightlife.
 

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In Miami ghetto is far away from the beach, past I-95. In Ft. Lauderdale ghetto starts near US-1, some 2 miles away from the beach you got public housing, shootings, robberies and ****. So you will see a lot more blacks. A lot more crime. Police? Police hang out around sinagogues and jewish community centers. You won't see them too active at the beach, unless it's some sort of event.

Basically, it's a beach. But unlike Miami Beach, right next to the beach you have active and pretty well congested A1A. Less bars. But better, more accessible bars. No stupid service fee on top of mandatory and already calculated tips.

Try visiting The Elbo Room. You can get the vibe on youtube reviews.

Other than that, **** that place. All the live is in Miami Design District and Wynwood. Try North Miami Avenue around 42nd street and down. You should have seen girls there during Ultra Music Festival. Next year make it a must to buy ticket for that event and visit it.

The further up north you go the more jews and blacks you get. If Miami Beach is full of jews, just imagine what Delray Beach is like. Surprisingly you get blacks in West Palm Beach, I always imagined it to be rich town, but no, it's a ghetto. Wherever you have jews you have progressive trash, gay and woke garbage and blacks. Blacks seems to follow the jews.

Videos you saw from this years spring break shootings and chaos are from Ft. lauderdale.

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Though, it used to be a nice place
 
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@sevbucmash to be fair, these shootings happened during spring break, where there's a massive influx of EVERYBODY.

My friend living there says he really enjoys the place, and he has a similar headspace as I do when it comes to being single and getting around with new women.
They've got the Pine Rocklands out in the Everglades, similar to the Pine Barrens in Jersey. Might be good for picking up hillbilly chicks or gators.
 

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really enjoys the place
Easy, simple explanation, your friend has the blinders on.

That still don't change the fact that they have ghetto near US-1 and bus going directly from the ghetto to the beach. Here is beach cam. Do check it out at night, on weekends, https://www.ftlauderdalebeachcam.com/

Thinking back, this year alone, since january there was several reports of shootings from around that ghetto, and someone tried to steal or shoot a bus. They have mini Los Angeles there.
 

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Easy, simple explanation, your friend has the blinders on.

That still don't change the fact that they have ghetto near US-1 and bus going directly from the ghetto to the beach. Here is beach cam. Do check it out at night, on weekends, https://www.ftlauderdalebeachcam.com/

Thinking back, this year alone, since january there was several reports of shootings from around that ghetto, and someone tried to steal or shoot a bus. They have mini Los Angeles there.
Well, what would be your recommendation? Miami?

I've been there twice now, and both times it was super expensive to basically spend the entire night watching girls go straight to VIP sections, or have strippers try to sell me on a lap dance...
 

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@sevbucmash any thoughts on St. Petersburg?
Tampa! Imagine driving from Miami to near Tampa to get your driver license! You leave at 5 in the morning, and come there at 9:30 am. In Miami, line to DMV begins day before, you have to wait all night to be able to get in. So instead you drive to Plant City, that's near Tampa, and do everything within an hour without any waiting. lol

Tampa and Ft. Myers areas are the best. Especially Tampa. You got college students there. Vibe is totally different.
 

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Tampa! Imagine driving from Miami to near Tampa to get your driver license! You leave at 5 in the morning, and come there at 9:30 am. In Miami, line to DMV begins day before, you have to wait all night to be able to get in. So instead you drive to Plant City, that's near Tampa, and do everything within an hour without any waiting. lol
I'm not sure what going to the DMV has to do with me looking for a vacation alternative to Fort Lauderdale...
 

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Birthday coming up at the end of the month.

Went to check out Arizona last December, have been to Miami and other parts of Florida a few times, and wanted to see what Fort Lauderdale is like.

I've got a buddy who lives down there and travels for work a lot, said I could use his place. He may or may not be around when I'm there to visit, so if he isn't, I'd appreciate some recommendations in terms of nightlife.
Brother DM me.
 

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@sevbucmash any thoughts on St. Petersburg?
I used to live there. St Pete has a decent beach, Fort DeSoto especially, but it is geriatric. If you want just a beach and no nightlife, go to Sarasota. If you want nightlife, it's ybor city in Tampa. Stay within a block of the main drag, as it quickly turns to ghetto.
 
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You know...the more responses I read, the less I want to take a trip out there...

Yeah, I want to have a fun birthday somewhere other than Delaware, but I'm also looking at places I'd want to potentially move long-term. That's why I visited Arizona at the end of last year. But there doesn't seem to be a shared consensus on where I should go in Florida...

Everywhere sounds unsafe, or borders somewhere unsafe.
 

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Back in the day. Now it is not, neither is Miami. Because rent is through the roof, $2500 in Miami. You own condo, you pay maintenance, and that is like paying rent. You own house, you paying property tax. You have to be highly accomplished geriatric to live in Florida. Old people sell and move out.


Tampa nowadays is young people. Because of all the colleges and universities.
 

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Back in the day. Now it is not, neither is Miami. Because rent is through the roof, $2500 in Miami. You own condo, you pay maintenance, and that is like paying rent. You own house, you paying property tax. You have to be highly accomplished geriatric to live in Florida. Old people sell and move out.


Tampa nowadays is young people. Because of all the colleges and universities.
In the nice areas, maybe, but there's trailer parks and ghettos all over, especially Pinellas County. St Pete Beach is a separate municipality. As of the last census, median age was 62. Clearwater is the party beach where the Tampa college kids go. Ironically, the water is the least clear of any beach I ever went to.
 

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@BHP are you in Miami yet? There is a building implosion tomorrow in Brickell.
 

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Sev, you sound like a closet Nazi with your disregards towards Jews and Black people. I suggest you make some Jewish and Black friends to raise up your consciousness my friend and make a documentary about it too lol
 

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