sevbucmash
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2022
- Messages
- 1,052
- Reaction score
- 539
- Age
- 42
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Fort Lauderdale recommendations?
- Thread starter BPH
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BPH
Master Don Juan
I just looked into where my buddy says he lives. VU New River. Looks super nice...
I'm debating between saving my money and doing something local instead of spending the time and money to scout Ft. Lauderdale, but this does make it look worthwhile...
I'm debating between saving my money and doing something local instead of spending the time and money to scout Ft. Lauderdale, but this does make it look worthwhile...
BillyPilgrim
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 9, 2021
- Messages
- 6,132
- Reaction score
- 4,959
sevbucmash
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2022
- Messages
- 1,052
- Reaction score
- 539
- Age
- 42
BillyPilgrim
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 9, 2021
- Messages
- 6,132
- Reaction score
- 4,959
Hey the creepers on the roof need to read too ya know
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sevbucmash
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2022
- Messages
- 1,052
- Reaction score
- 539
- Age
- 42
intricate design
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 17, 2026
- Messages
- 131
- Reaction score
- 56
I sorta appreciate sev’s base rendition of the town. lol I mean, it’s probably sorta sad but true. Sounds like a bunch of stress and mess
Beaches are for the birds tho, not people. Too many people ruin beaches
OP why don’t you leave Florida alone and try some other tropical spot like Aruba or Acapulco?
Beaches are for the birds tho, not people. Too many people ruin beaches
OP why don’t you leave Florida alone and try some other tropical spot like Aruba or Acapulco?
intricate design
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 17, 2026
- Messages
- 131
- Reaction score
- 56
Lollll well I won’t be visiting there any time soon!
Great link tho