Buster2026
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Also 4 dinner dates but she was in my house staying over twice a week for over a year. That’s why I’m pretty upset. It was more than just meeting her 4 times
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Also 4 dinner dates but she was in my house staying over twice a week for over a year. That’s why I’m pretty upset. It was more than just meeting her 4 times
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Day 36
It's 22.49, I picked my phone.
One missed call from my Ex. One hour ago
@Barrister
Advices are welcome
@BPH
I was wrong
It's 22.49, I picked my phone.
One missed call from my Ex. One hour ago
@Barrister
Advices are welcome
@BPH
I was wrong
Barrister
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You already know my answer. Don’t call her back and stay NC. That path only leads to more pain and frustration.
Lotus Effect
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I spoke to 3 good friends of mine last night, all of them pill aware.
Some of the guys I have most admiration of.
All of them told me to be polite, and politely cut her off.
That not responding is childish behaviour, especially if I'm on a healing path, and especially from someone my age.
One of them said that the minute we ended she downgraded to someone I know, and to act accordingly.
He asked, how would you reply to someone you know?
Be polite, and that is it.
Over text, no calls.
Still, let's see.
Some of the guys I have most admiration of.
All of them told me to be polite, and politely cut her off.
That not responding is childish behaviour, especially if I'm on a healing path, and especially from someone my age.
One of them said that the minute we ended she downgraded to someone I know, and to act accordingly.
He asked, how would you reply to someone you know?
Be polite, and that is it.
Over text, no calls.
Still, let's see.
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Anywho, I replied her, told i missed her call, what was up.
She told me she called to check on me, see how I was.
I said good, rushed, she said same, and asked how is my family.
I said good hope yours is doing good as well, i'm swamped rn now, we catch up later, good to hear from you.
And she replied on the most disgusting way a human being can reply someone.
With a thumbs up reaction.
Next time, if there is a next time, which I'm pretty sure it won't be. I will just don't reply.
You can't even be polite with these ho€s.
Piece of shlt.
Damn you @Barrister
It seems I never learn.
She told me she called to check on me, see how I was.
I said good, rushed, she said same, and asked how is my family.
I said good hope yours is doing good as well, i'm swamped rn now, we catch up later, good to hear from you.
And she replied on the most disgusting way a human being can reply someone.
With a thumbs up reaction.
Next time, if there is a next time, which I'm pretty sure it won't be. I will just don't reply.
You can't even be polite with these ho€s.
Piece of shlt.
Damn you @Barrister
It seems I never learn.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Zontyy
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Day 1 - since my last crazy baby mama. I decided to turn back toward stoicism and religion.
I met a girl while traveling at a religious function we seem to hit it off, only problem was.
I was in New York and she was in Texas. We talk lots and texted. It seemed to be going really well, she even was joking around about planning her wedding with her mom. When she finally told her dad about me. He questioned my spirituality and how long it took me to get baptized and commit to god. He must of got in her head because next day after talking with her dad she wanted to know my thoughts and long term goals for church and how committed I was. She wanted to marry a man with the title and that her dad told her she was an elders wife material.
Anyways I’d like to think I am a pretty good guy and help out where I can, I try to keep that on the down low because rather store up treasures with god and not man. I told her that I was content with my position within church and if she felt the need to clout/title chase that it wasn’t for me.
She broke up with me the day after that conversations. I think she was taken back though how easy I took breakup and wished her the best for her and her family. She then asked to stay friends at least on “instagram” I stopped her and asked her why? Her rule is that she believes that women should only be friends with women and men should only be friends with men. That she going against her boundaries by doing that. That I am okay with the breakup and enjoyed the conversations and wished her well.
She stop me again and told me to wait not to hang up. That she wanted to check up on me in 2-3 months. I told her why bother she is a pretty girl and should meet someone locally in her congregation. Then she begged me to allow her to “check in”. I told her nothing will change and my mind is made up on church and how I feel about things. That I wouldn’t block her but I’m not waiting around and to enjoy her life she seemed shaken.
Anyways Day 1
I met a girl while traveling at a religious function we seem to hit it off, only problem was.
I was in New York and she was in Texas. We talk lots and texted. It seemed to be going really well, she even was joking around about planning her wedding with her mom. When she finally told her dad about me. He questioned my spirituality and how long it took me to get baptized and commit to god. He must of got in her head because next day after talking with her dad she wanted to know my thoughts and long term goals for church and how committed I was. She wanted to marry a man with the title and that her dad told her she was an elders wife material.
Anyways I’d like to think I am a pretty good guy and help out where I can, I try to keep that on the down low because rather store up treasures with god and not man. I told her that I was content with my position within church and if she felt the need to clout/title chase that it wasn’t for me.
She broke up with me the day after that conversations. I think she was taken back though how easy I took breakup and wished her the best for her and her family. She then asked to stay friends at least on “instagram” I stopped her and asked her why? Her rule is that she believes that women should only be friends with women and men should only be friends with men. That she going against her boundaries by doing that. That I am okay with the breakup and enjoyed the conversations and wished her well.
She stop me again and told me to wait not to hang up. That she wanted to check up on me in 2-3 months. I told her why bother she is a pretty girl and should meet someone locally in her congregation. Then she begged me to allow her to “check in”. I told her nothing will change and my mind is made up on church and how I feel about things. That I wouldn’t block her but I’m not waiting around and to enjoy her life she seemed shaken.
Anyways Day 1
RoadKing_Rabbit
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You got it, man. Distance is an MF.