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[Gamisch]

I just wanna invoke @Dr.Suave for a moment since we recently had an issue with threads being derailed.

I'm not calling for @Gamisch to get in trouble, but let's get back on topic. If he wants to cry, he's welcome to do so in my DMs (an initiative he has already taken upon himself):

You're pathetic . What's your USP as a dating by the way?

I'm not derailing anything. I ask you two things.
- how to be a BOSS
- what's your USP

I can ask much more. Like :

- why don't you get your azz to work ,man up and move out so you can welcome ladies in a proper environment?
- do you think you are 20? Don't you know time waits for no man?

 

[Gamisch]

I just wanna invoke @Dr.Suave for a moment since we recently had an issue with threads being derailed.

I'm not calling for @Gamisch to get in trouble, but let's get back on topic. If he wants to cry, he's welcome to do so in my DMs (an initiative he has already taken upon himself):

"I can only think of 1 girl whom I brought home the first time I slept with her, and it was late at night when my parents were asleep.

The way my house and room are laid out is not ideal...

My room is along the same hallway as my parents' room, even if it's across from it. The basement, or my dad's old office, would be more ideal, but my parents are minor hoarders and they're extremely messy.

Beyond that, my dad is an artist...so every room in the house has a theme; mine is that of a circus. It was kinda cool as a kid, but as an adult, it definitely doesn't scream "bachelor pad"."



@Dr.Suave uave lol. This is your God? Is this the leader of the forum? Gtfo.

 

[characternote]

how to be a BOSS

maybe you just have different definitions of what being a 'boss' is. Maybe he already thinks he's a boss. We all measure things by our own standards.
We don't all want the same lives. I don't want kids for example and that seems to really upset some men lol
Just try not to worry about it too much. He seems pretty happy with his life and it doesn't sound like he's asking for help so people probably don't need to be telling him how he should be living his life according to them

 

[Divorced w 3]

"I can only think of 1 girl whom I brought home the first time I slept with her, and it was late at night when my parents were asleep.

The way my house and room are laid out is not ideal...

My room is along the same hallway as my parents' room, even if it's across from it. The basement, or my dad's old office, would be more ideal, but my parents are minor hoarders and they're extremely messy.

Beyond that, my dad is an artist...so every room in the house has a theme; mine is that of a circus. It was kinda cool as a kid, but as an adult, it definitely doesn't scream "bachelor pad"."



@Dr.Suave uave lol. This is your God? Is this the leader of the forum? Gtfo.

He’s the only guy posting field reports lately

Why don’t you go post a field report?

otherwise, pipe down

 

[Gamisch]

He’s the only guy posting field reports lately

Why don’t you go post a field report?

otherwise, pipe down

I don't see any value in posting field reports.

There are different types of ways to " be here". Some,like me, are here for the long run. To win in life. I want high level conversation about game and the dynamics between men and women. Women are a byproduct not the main course.

Some are here apparently for the field report and that small bs. Some are incels and need that step up, it's all good..

I can write 200+ field reports if I have to. 2000 or many more if I talk about women I didn't feck. No need nor do I have time for that. Let me just say this: it's a repeating process..if a woman likes you you'll know within let's say one date .

Be carefully who you worship my friend. You'll become who you worship.

 

[Gamisch]

maybe you just have different definitions of what being a 'boss' is. Maybe he already thinks he's a boss. We all measure things by our own standards.
We don't all want the same lives. I don't want kids for example and that seems to really upset some men lol
Just try not to worry about it too much. He seems pretty happy with his life and it doesn't sound like he's asking for help so people probably don't need to be telling him how he should be living his life according to them

I respect that.

Yet I'm also free to voice my opinion just like everyone else. I don't think he should be playing Mr tough guy when he hasn't even figured out how to get out of his" clown like decorated child hood room".

I believe the thread is a AMA. Not a AMAETQ( ask me anything except tough questions).

If you step inside the ring expect to get punched.

Beside that he's a big boy. He can defend himself ,no need for yall to protect his fragile ego.

 

[BPH]

@Gamisch you're derailing a thread by trying to start arguments rather than asking questions.

As I've said before, you're welcome to DM me, but you've stopped responding and seem intent on throwing your fit in public. At this point, if the mods take action against you, I don't feel bad.

If anybody else has questions they'd like me to answer, feel free to post them and I'll sort through this recent mess to find them. I'm done showing this guy any attention outside of my DMs.

 

[Gamisch]

@Gamisch you're derailing a thread by trying to start arguments rather than asking questions.

As I've said before, you're welcome to DM me, but you've stopped responding and seem intent on throwing your fit in public. At this point, if the mods take action against you, I don't feel bad.

If anybody else has questions they'd like me to answer, feel free to post them and I'll sort through this recent mess to find them. I'm done showing this guy any attention outside of my DMs.

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I refuse to participate in this pathetic circle jerk. Yes I'm different.

I'll repeat my previous post:

You're pathetic . What's your USP as a dating (coach) by the way?

I'm not derailing anything. I asked you two things.
- how to be a BOSS
- what's your USP

I can ask much more. Like :

- why don't you get your azz to work ,man up and move out so you can welcome ladies in a proper environment?
- do you think you are 20? Don't you know time waits for no man?

 

[Sega Genesis]

A bit of humor lol and @BPH I hope you take it that way...

Guy had superman sheets!

 

[Divorced w 3]

I don't see any value in posting field reports.

There are different types of ways to " be here". Some,like me, are here for the long run. To win in life. I want high level conversation about game and the dynamics between men and women. Women are a byproduct not the main course.

Some are here apparently for the field report and that small bs. Some are incels and need that step up, it's all good..

I can write 200+ field reports if I have to. 2000 or many more if I talk about women I didn't feck. No need nor do I have time for that. Let me just say this: it's a repeating process..if a woman likes you you'll know within let's say one date .

Be carefully who you worship my friend. You'll become who you worship.

The value of a field report is that we learn by doing and if we can’t do then we learn from others, and part of that process is observing and dissecting real situations.

nobody is worshipping anyone.

your life blows, we get it, you vent about it all the time on here. You use this place like a journal of your personal struggles. That is not what it’s for. Yes lives suck around here that are looking to get better. Not stay that way constantly.

you’re entitled, fvck boy bytch attitude, and lack of contribution other than your obvious jealousy of someone who is out there actually doing it, is what’s wrong with this current situation on this forum

You think you’re helping, but you’re shooting down and discouraging what should be promoted here

if you don’t like it, go out and do better - otherwise shut the fvck up

 

[pipeman84]

Lead and Escalate - I've been spending a lot of time lately on dating-related subreddits, offering advice to people who ask questions about their dating lives. There are a ton of guys who will say something along the lines of "we went on 2 great dates and had an amazing time and great chemistry, but now she's going cold, why?" The first question I'll ask is whether they f***ed, or even kissed, to which the answer is almost always "no". Modern men are becoming pus*ies because most of us live in a society where taking on a masculine role is seen as "toxic". Guys are offering their Snapchats instead of asking for a phone number. Guys are asking girls if they want to hang out, rather than planning the date. Guys are waiting until date 2, 3, 4+ to go for the kiss or try to have sex, because they feel they'd otherwise be moving too fast. Understanding that women want sex just as much as men is not common knowledge these days.

This goes against what Doc Love or OGs from this forum like Pook or Anti Dump used to teach. You mean to tell us that being masculine means to basically jump on a woman and fvck her on the 1st or 2nd date? That's Andrew Tate, Rich Cooper BS masquerading as masculinity. The only kind of woman who'd go cold after 2 great dates is a ditzy bimbo/Tinder hoe no respectable guy would want anything to do with anyway. Like, c'mon man!

Simply stating ''women want sex just as much as men'' is a misleading half truth. As opposed to porn fantasy, in reality, most women want sex as part of being in a relationship with a guy they love and trust. To build the trust and the love takes time, not 1-2 dates. That's why you can't go too slow with a woman who's attracted to you.

Want to argue the above, do it with Doc Love, the first guy in 6.000 years to understand women.

 

[Gamisch]

The value of a field report is that we learn by doing and if we can’t do then we learn from others, and part of that process is observing and dissecting real situations.

nobody is worshipping anyone.

your life blows, we get it, you vent about it all the time on here. You use this place like a journal of your personal struggles. That is not what it’s for. Yes lives suck around here that are looking to get better. Not stay that way constantly.

you’re entitled, fvck boy bytch attitude, and lack of contribution other than your obvious jealousy of someone who is out there actually doing it, is what’s wrong with this current situation on this forum

You think you’re helping, but you’re shooting down and discouraging what should be promoted here

if you don’t like it, go out and do better - otherwise shut the fvck up

Yes it's a person journal. Watch how I go to the top. If you REALLY followed me you'd know I'm consistently climbing up. Came from zero and doing it all by myself. No hand outs no help..just 7 days grind 12 hours a day at least
And haters are a part of becoming " that guy " so thank you.

I recommend you re-read the OP and see how ridiculous this is lol. Show me where on the forum it said that field reports are mandatory?

And I won't repeat my stance on field reports. I got field reports for DAYS lol.

By the way you ain't all that neither. You're a blue pilled beta bytch with anger issues . A bitter man that's " here to learn", yet you picking the wrong teacher you fool.

I geuss you got a bromance with OP and that's fine. Yet I will keep voicing my opinion. You like this kinda bs? Cool. I don't

I don't respect a man living like a teenager, period.

And yes I'm definitely helping. I make OP think twice about his life. He'll thank me eventually
I ain't sugar coating shyte. It's sink or swim. Those are the words that men REALLY need nowadays in this p00sy-fied era.

 

[BPH]

You mean to tell us that being masculine means to basically jump on a woman and fvck her on the 1st or 2nd date?

No.

I mean to tell you that if you want to move things forward with a woman, it is YOU who has to do it.

The only kind of woman who'd go cold after 2 great dates is a ditzy bimbo/Tinder hoe no respectable guy would want anything to do with anyway. Like, c'mon man!

Here, if you don't believe me, go look for yourself: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/

See how long it takes for you to find guys asking where they went wrong after X number of "amazing" dates because they didn't make a move.

 

[SW15]

Want to argue the above, do it with Doc Love, the first guy in 6.000 years to understand women.

Doc Love's "The System" and his additional online articles were more oriented around developing longer term relationships than getting short term casual sex. A man who has a 100+ notch count at 31 has had many instances of short term sex.

The only kind of woman who'd go cold after 2 great dates is a ditzy bimbo/Tinder hoe no respectable guy would want anything to do with anyway.

Many men experience ghosting/flaking after 1-2 dates of varying degrees of quality. There are situations where the dates appear to be good and nothing materializes.

It's more common for those dates to be sexless.

There are 1st or 2nd dates where sex happens, the man wants to continue the interaction, and the woman ghosts/flakes.

Simply stating ''women want sex just as much as men'' is a misleading half truth. As opposed to porn fantasy, in reality, most women want sex as part of being in a relationship with a guy they love and trust.

Women don't want sex as much as men. It's a function of testosterone. Men have far more testosterone than women. Rollo Tomassi covered this topic in a 2011 article.

Women & Sex

“Booty is so strong that there are dudes willing to blow themselves up for the highly unlikely possibility of booty in an other dimension. There are no chicks willing to blow themselves up fo…

therationalmale.com

 

[pipeman84]

Here, if you don't believe me, go look for yourself: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/

See how long it takes for you to find guys asking where they went wrong after X number of "amazing" dates because they didn't make a move.

I'm not saying it doesn't happen. If it happens it's either:
1. because the guy has really misjudged the date (he sees it as great whereas the woman sees it as meh or bad - I've seen such cases on this forum with threads along the lines of ... 2-3 GREAT dates then ghosted, WTF happened ... and after a few posters analyse the info provided, OP eventually realizes the dates weren't great at all from the woman's POV and he just missed the clues).
2. the woman is a totally unreliable Tinder hoe and/or most probably on prescribed medication for mental health issues.

Now your advice to basically escalate as if there's no tomorrow would work for some of the women in the second category. But I think that's a very risky thing to do because you'd scare off any half decent woman for the remote chance of quickly bedding a total nutcase.

 

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[SW15]

I'm not saying it doesn't happen. If it happens it's either:
1. because the guy has really misjudged the date (he sees it as great whereas the woman sees it as meh or bad - I've seen such cases on this forum with threads along the lines of ... 2-3 GREAT dates then ghosted, WTF happened ... and after a few posters analyse the info provided, OP eventually realizes the dates weren't great at all from the woman's POV and he just missed the clues).
2. the woman is a totally unreliable Tinder hoe and/or most probably on prescribed medication for mental health issues.

I think outcome #1 is more common and more influential than outcome #2. Number #2 is a relevant point.

Now your advice to basically escalate as if there's no tomorrow would work for some of the women in the second category. But I think that's a very risky thing to do because you'd scare off any half decent woman for the remote chance of quickly bedding a total nutcase.

Always be escalating is common advice in seduction.

 

[BPH]

I'm not saying it doesn't happen. If it happens it's either:
1. because the guy has really misjudged the date (he sees it as great whereas the woman sees it as meh or bad - I've seen such cases on this forum with threads along the lines of ... 2-3 GREAT dates then ghosted, WTF happened ... and after a few posters analyse the info provided, OP eventually realizes the dates weren't great at all from the woman's POV and he just missed the clues).
2. the woman is a totally unreliable Tinder hoe and/or most probably on prescribed medication for mental health issues.

Now your advice to basically escalate as if there's no tomorrow would work for some of the women in the second category. But I think that's a very risky thing to do because you'd scare off any half decent woman for the remote chance of quickly bedding a total nutcase.

I'm not saying you HAVE to escalate.

I'm saying YOU have to escalate.

I've been with a lot of women. The number of times the woman was the one to initiate the date, kiss, or sex (outside of a relationship), I could count on one hand.

Now, you can disagree with that approach, but I'll use a sales analogy:

You can spend 5 minutes on the phone with a prospect, or 55. Eventually, you're going to need to ask for the sale to get what you want. Very rarely will somebody offer payment.

So can find out whether a woman is interested enough to fully invest in you sooner, or later, but the risk with later is that she may find somebody else who will give her what she wants sooner.

Hopefully that makes sense.

 

[Divorced w 3]

This goes against what Doc Love or OGs from this forum like Pook or Anti Dump used to teach. You mean to tell us that being masculine means to basically jump on a woman and fvck her on the 1st or 2nd date? That's Andrew Tate, Rich Cooper BS masquerading as masculinity. The only kind of woman who'd go cold after 2 great dates is a ditzy bimbo/Tinder hoe no respectable guy would want anything to do with anyway. Like, c'mon man!

Simply stating ''women want sex just as much as men'' is a misleading half truth. As opposed to porn fantasy, in reality, most women want sex as part of being in a relationship with a guy they love and trust. To build the trust and the love takes time, not 1-2 dates. That's why you can't go too slow with a woman who's attracted to you.

Want to argue the above, do it with Doc Love, the first guy in 6.000 years to understand women.

‘Always be escalating’ - book of pook

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I'm not saying you HAVE to escalate.

I'm saying YOU have to escalate.

I've been with a lot of women. The number of times the woman was the one to initiate the date, kiss, or sex (outside of a relationship), I could count on one hand.

Now, you can disagree with that approach, but I'll use a sales analogy:

You can spend 5 minutes on the phone with a prospect, or 55. Eventually, you're going to need to ask for the sale to get what you want. Very rarely will somebody offer payment.

So can find out whether a woman is interested enough to fully invest in you sooner, or later, but the risk with later is that she may find somebody else who will give her what she wants sooner.

Hopefully that makes sense.

Not to put words in OP's mouth, but it seems like he's saying you have to show the girl you are desirous of and trying to get physical with her, without forcing anything.