I live with my parents in suburban Delaware, but still get laid a lot - Ask Me Anything

[Plinco]

Yeah like I predicted this thread gonna be a huge circle jerk. You also gonna do a AMA?

Next thread; why this site doesn't hit like it used to?

Lastly at 25 I got my first kid so your 25 and mine ain't the same. Like nothing we do in life.

Every person is different. If we were all the same, life would be boring.

 

[Gamisch]

Every person is different. If we were all the same, life would be boring.

What's your point? You think it will help the average man when he is 30+ and moves like a teenager? During these times when the bar is set ridiculously high to compete? Mafakkas better get three jobs ,at least one of them being their own business. The days of cruising are LONG GONE.

Stand for something or fall for anything.

Life moves fast. Before you know it you're 50+ with nothing to show for .

 

[Plinco]

What's your point? You think it will help the average man when he is 30+ and moves like a teenager? During these times when the bar is set ridiculously high to compete? Mafakkas better get three jobs ,at least one of them being their own business. The days of cruising are LONG GONE.

Stand for something or fall for anything.

Life moves fast. Before you know it you're 50+ with nothing to show for .

I'm all for having a purpose and working hard. I own a small business and a house, but I see no reason to act like most people do over 25+

 

[Gamisch]

I'm all for having a purpose and working hard. I own a small business and a house, but I see no reason to act like most people do over 25+

Elaborate please?

 

[Plinco]

Elaborate please?

I'm a 41 year old man

I made 57K last year. I own a lawn business which consists of 78 residential and two commercial customers.
I currently have 15K in my checking account
I have a 800+ credit score
I have no debts except the mortgage of the house I'm living in
I practice Maui Thai almost every day
I have ~150K in investments
My IQ is probably over 130

My purpose in life is to help people to develop the cognitive tools to increase their self-efficacy; to completely become their own authority.

I practice public speaking every day

With that said, I move around like I'm 20 years old and I hit on girls around the ages of 18 to 22 mostly. I look for the girls who are 7/10+ and don't take themselves seriously.

 

[jhonny9546]

I was...

Your story is interesting.

I was wondering if you'd ever considered a career in employment.

Most of them tend to have Peter Pan Syndrome, which can be annoying to deal with.

Hmm. Could you define Peter Pan Syndrome objectively?

For one culture, it might mean not being married yet, having had children, and having bought a house with a mortgage and two cars.

For another culture, it might mean not having performed the ritual of killing rabbits.

For another, something else.

Every culture might have its own rite of passage from being a Peter Pan to a mature man.
But... there's an objective thread that might make you mature, but since you still do certain things, you might still be seen as a Peter Pan on a "subjective" level by others. Because it's instilled in the culture.

 

[jhonny9546]

I've watched/listened to interviews with Neil Strauss and he outlined his seduction strategy beautifully!

It would be helpful if you remember which specific videos you liked the most, share the links here

 

[jhonny9546]

I can tell within about 3 seconds after I say 'hi' whether i'll be wasting my time or not.

It's definitely not instinct.
Can you tell us more, for example, what rules you use to determine this?
You'll have your "checkpoints."

 

[Plinco]

It's definitely not instinct.
Can you tell us more, for example, what rules you use to determine this?
You'll have your "checkpoints."

Whatever @characternote could tell you isn't going to help you. I've told you this an umpteen amount of times, to get out of your bubble and talk to people

 

[characternote]

It's definitely not instinct.
Can you tell us more, for example, what rules you use to determine this?
You'll have your "checkpoints."

Maybe it's because i'm in the UK (nowhere near and tolerant and friendly compared to Americans when it comes to uninvited, unwelcome cold approaches) or maybe it's also because I mainly do nightgame on pretty young girls (super hard mode) BUT it's really hard to NOT know for me! They usually can't make make it much more obvious lol. Can't you tell by someones eye contact (or lack of it) that they're not interested? Their facial expressions? The clearly reticent (or even hostile) way they react too and answer questions and statements etc?

And conversely, when I open a girl who is into me, it's the smile. The eyes. The body langauge and how she faces me. Actually puts in some effort so that it's not a one-sided 'convo' which by nature really can't last for long! (that's why guys always complain about 'running out of things to say', but in reality, most of the time, it's because she WANTED you to run out of things to say! It's her job when a guy opens her who she's not attracted to. She wants you to leave. If she isn't answering questions with more than a word, isn't asking you a single thing etc, then of course the guy will 'run out of things to say')

Maybe this all goes back to what I said before about how PUA books and all the stuff about 'game' is only really useful for someone who for some reason hasn't be socialised at all. E.G People aren't learning tricks and tips to MAKE a girl attracted in these books like they think they're learning! (because it doesn't exist). They're kinda learning how 'normal' people act. (and of course 'normal' people still get rejected if they're not her type)

 

[jhonny9546]

@Plinco I can recognize the signs, but that doesn't stop me from asking others how they do it.
@characternote I understand, I think the same things, in the end it comes naturally.

 

[BPH]

How long was the longest that you’ve kept a woman around without committing?

The plate whom I mentioned having re-entered the roster recently is a girl whom I'd been banging on and off for about 3-4 years now. There are several who lasted a year or 2, but she's probably lasted the longest, off the top of my head.

You make a thread flexing the fact you're 32 and still haven't figured out life. That's reversed phycology, I'm bright enough to see the complete picture . You definitely know what the fecks up.

My question is don't you realise that you just spent another 200/ 300 bucks on a woman that should've been spend on SAVING money so you can release yourself from the gribs of " mom's spaghetti "?. And your answers look rather AI generated than sincere but that's a different subject.

Don't you realise that your wasting precious time on bs?

I feel like you're completely missing the point while you simultaneously need this hard talk. I'm here for you bro...

Just because I'm not good at something (making enough money to move out of my family's house and stay out) doesn't disqualify me from being good at something else (seducing women and getting laid).

I'm not a life coach - I'm a dating coach.

If someone asks me how to properly invest their savings to plan for early retirement, I won't give an answer because I wouldn't listen to me. But if someone wants to get laid more, I think I know a thing or 2 about that...

Also, I spent $98 on that hotel room for the night. If you want to factor in gas or whatever, sure, but I'm not blowing $200-$300 on these women like you seem to think.

My answers look AI-generated because I choose my words very carefully, and I have Grammarly installed to catch spelling or grammar errors. You might benefit from it, since you don't seem to know how to properly use the word "you're".

I don't need this "hard talk", as you say. You come and say this sh** every few months when you start to get upset with your own life; you're overworked, have a kid, and your ex is trying to claw her way back into your life.

Worry about your own problems, I'm aware of mine.

 

[SW15]

You're a 30+ year old man who lives life like he is 17. What else do you have to show for n life? What did you accomplish? Nothing substantial .

if someone wants to get laid more, I think I know a thing or 2 about that...

A man who has sex with 100+ different women has an accomplishment. Some might not think that is substantial. There are many men who desire to reach a 100+ notch count.

Few men are able to have sex with 100+ women.

The typical male gets into a monogamous marriage with a notch count of less than 10. The typical male with a blue pill ideology fails to attract a lot of attention from women. When he gets a woman, he operates from a place of scarcity and does what it takes to retain her. A lot of these low notch count monogamous relationship men are pussie beggars. These are men dependent upon the whims of one woman for sex. Almost all of us know men like this.

 

[Gamisch]

The plate whom I mentioned having re-entered the roster recently is a girl whom I'd been banging on and off for about 3-4 years now. There are several who lasted a year or 2, but she's probably lasted the longest, off the top of my head.



Just because I'm not good at something (making enough money to move out of my family's house and stay out) doesn't disqualify me from being good at something else (seducing women and getting laid).

I'm not a life coach - I'm a dating coach.

If someone asks me how to properly invest their savings to plan for early retirement, I won't give an answer because I wouldn't listen to me. But if someone wants to get laid more, I think I know a thing or 2 about that...

Also, I spent $98 on that hotel room for the night. If you want to factor in gas or whatever, sure, but I'm not blowing $200-$300 on these women like you seem to think.

My answers look AI-generated because I choose my words very carefully, and I have Grammarly installed to catch spelling or grammar errors. You might benefit from it, since you don't seem to know how to properly use the word "you're".

I don't need this "hard talk", as you say. You come and say this sh** every few months when you start to get upset with your own life; you're overworked, have a kid, and your ex is trying to claw her way back into your life.

Worry about your own problems, I'm aware of mine.

Your a dating coach now? Lol. What is your USP? You know what; I might even salute that. At least you're hustling somewhat, all tough it's yet another lazy -man- hustle. Get your azz ro work on a real job/ skill!!

That's a great analysis of me. I'm working till the wheels fall of. You should wanna follow my lead and example. And amigo, I'm FAR from upset about my life LOL. I'm running bizz, making bank, am my own boss and I grow on a daily. Just today I got two new high paying jobs. I'm cruising towards some serious cash . All while having own crib that's women 'ready( 2000 € bed,2k couch, big azz tv ,crib painted like a pro, good car, no debts,wardrobe worth thousands, garden game strong, kids and family on my shoulders)

I'm a maddafakking king. I'm a BOSS. A WARRIOR. AMA.

I've worked YEARs to get here. That's why I'm AGAINST your rethoric, because it's doesn't serve (young) men trying to win in life. Been there done that. You better start TODAY if you wanna be someone in a couple of years...

The only reason you over explain those expenses is because yo KNOW you a time/ money waster. You KNOW it and I know it. I believe you said it was a 50/ 50 good idea? There you go.



And no, I'm not an native English speaker. I do however speak 7 languages and English is FAR from my top 3 best languages

 

[Gamisch]

A man who has sex with 100+ different women has an accomplishment. Some might not think that is substantial. There are many men who desire to reach a 100+ notch count.

Few men are able to have sex with 100+ women.

The typical male gets into a monogamous marriage with a notch count of less than 10. The typical male with a blue pill ideology fails to attract a lot of attention from women. When he gets a woman, he operates from a place of scarcity and does what it takes to retain her. A lot of these low notch count monogamous relationship men are pussie beggars. These are men dependent upon the whims of one woman for sex. Almost all of us know men like this.

100 women at 30 is nothing. By now I've lost count but I geuss I'm over 200 easily. And geuss what? I have nothing to show for ,just like OP. All anecdotal. All razor Rambo-esque tales.

On top of that: how many of those women were actually quality women? Believe me, no sane man gonna let a quality woman walk if she adds actual value .

AMA? How to fecking win in life and become a BOSS. Answer that ..

 

[BPH]

I'm a maddafakking king. I'm a BOSS. A WARRIOR. AMA.

I like how you waited for 24 minutes after posting that message to come and make this edit because you thought it somehow added to your message.

The only reason you over explain those expenses is because yo KNOW you a time/ money waster. You KNOW it and I know it. I believe you said it was a 50/ 50 good idea? There you go.

I explained it because you made an exaggeration and tried to blow things out of proportion.

All while having own crib that's women 'ready( 2000 € bed,2k couch, big azz tv ,crib painted like a pro, good car, no debts,wardrobe worth thousands, garden game strong, kids and family on my shoulders)

Who are you trying to impress by bragging like this? Me? Or yourself?

If your life is so great, why do you spend so much time worrying about mine?

Anyway, you're the first and only person I'd ever blocked on this forum. I prefer not to, because I don't mind having opinions that others disagree on and vice-versa, but you do this sh** every few months where you pound your chest, so I'm just gonna put a bow on things and stop responding to you after I provide you with this statement:

I do not care that MY life doesn't live up to YOUR standards.

 

[SW15]

100 women at 30 is nothing.

I don't think that's fair to say that it is nothing. Most 30 year old men are nowhere near 100 women.

By now I've lost count but I geuss I'm over 200 easily.

Very good!

how many of those women were actually quality women? Believe me, no sane man gonna let a quality woman walk if she adds actual value .

Making the case on quality is possible. There's some subjectivity there.

 

[Gamisch]

I like how you waited for 24 minutes after posting that message to come and make this edit because you thought it somehow added to your message.



I explained it because you made an exaggeration and tried to blow things out of proportion.



Who are you trying to impress by bragging like this? Me? Or yourself?

If your life is so great, why do you spend so much time worrying about mine?

Anyway, you're the first and only person I'd ever blocked on this forum. I prefer not to, because I don't mind having opinions that others disagree on and vice-versa, but you do this sh** every few months where you pound your chest, so I'm just gonna put a bow on things and stop responding to you after I provide you with this statement:

I do not care that MY life doesn't live up to YOUR standards.

Extremely important extra edit.

You blocked me lol. Running away from the harsh truth..IN YOUR OWN THREAD!!!!

oh boy, where have we seen the before? Your stock just plummeted

Anyone using this clown as an actual dating coach might as well scream:" I'm a fool and want to be scammed!!". Dude lives in mom's basement trying to get some 100 bucks via a nichesite where the REAL ONES just add for fun, and even if there are one or two suckers dumb enough to pay him he to spends that cash on hotel costs immediately

Let's have a conversation once you actually understand what it's like to be a MAN in this world, one who CARRIES instead of being carried.

The beginning of the end.

 

[Gamisch]

The plate whom I mentioned having re-entered the roster recently is a girl whom I'd been banging on and off for about 3-4 years now. There are several who lasted a year or 2, but she's probably lasted the longest, off the top of my head.



Just because I'm not good at something (making enough money to move out of my family's house and stay out) doesn't disqualify me from being good at something else (seducing women and getting laid).

I'm not a life coach - I'm a dating coach.

If someone asks me how to properly invest their savings to plan for early retirement, I won't give an answer because I wouldn't listen to me. But if someone wants to get laid more, I think I know a thing or 2 about that...

Also, I spent $98 on that hotel room for the night. If you want to factor in gas or whatever, sure, but I'm not blowing $200-$300 on these women like you seem to think.

My answers look AI-generated because I choose my words very carefully, and I have Grammarly installed to catch spelling or grammar errors. You might benefit from it, since you don't seem to know how to properly use the word "you're".

I don't need this "hard talk", as you say. You come and say this sh** every few months when you start to get upset with your own life; you're overworked, have a kid, and your ex is trying to claw her way back into your life.

Worry about your own problems, I'm aware of mine.

The math ain't mathing.

Just to highlight the economics from this " dating coach" and show it's absolutely bs;

-98 on a hotel but you also gotta GET THERE. Gas money baby.

- you may wanna have a drink or two. Or four. Or six. Times two people. Something to eat..times two people. We ALL know that's another 100 EASILY.

Assuming you ate some of that mom's spaghetti it might've been a tad cheaper...oh well..

Still around 200 bucks. Easy if you have zero responsibilities and are UNWILLING to take them on. I could literally lend you enough to move out of mama's house TODAY

 

[BPH]

I just wanna invoke @Dr.Suave for a moment since we recently had an issue with threads being derailed.

I'm not calling for @Gamisch to get in trouble, but let's get back on topic. If he wants to cry, he's welcome to do so in my DMs (an initiative he has already taken upon himself):