Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
"I can only think of 1 girl whom I brought home the first time I slept with her, and it was late at night when my parents were asleep.
maybe you just have different definitions of what being a 'boss' is. Maybe he already thinks he's a boss. We all measure things by our own standards.
He’s the only guy posting field reports lately"I can only think of 1 girl whom I brought home the first time I slept with her, and it was late at night when my parents were asleep.
The way my house and room are laid out is not ideal...
My room is along the same hallway as my parents' room, even if it's across from it. The basement, or my dad's old office, would be more ideal, but my parents are minor hoarders and they're extremely messy.
Beyond that, my dad is an artist...so every room in the house has a theme; mine is that of a circus. It was kinda cool as a kid, but as an adult, it definitely doesn't scream "bachelor pad"."
@Dr.Suave uave lol. This is your God? Is this the leader of the forum? Gtfo.
I don't see any value in posting field reports.
I respect that.
I refuse to participate in this pathetic circle jerk. Yes I'm different.
The value of a field report is that we learn by doing and if we can’t do then we learn from others, and part of that process is observing and dissecting real situations.
This goes against what Doc Love or OGs from this forum like Pook or Anti Dump used to teach. You mean to tell us that being masculine means to basically jump on a woman and fvck her on the 1st or 2nd date? That's Andrew Tate, Rich Cooper BS masquerading as masculinity. The only kind of woman who'd go cold after 2 great dates is a ditzy bimbo/Tinder hoe no respectable guy would want anything to do with anyway. Like, c'mon man!
No.
Here, if you don't believe me, go look for yourself: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/
Doc Love's "The System" and his additional online articles were more oriented around developing longer term relationships than getting short term casual sex. A man who has a 100+ notch count at 31 has had many instances of short term sex.Want to argue the above, do it with Doc Love, the first guy in 6.000 years to understand women.
Many men experience ghosting/flaking after 1-2 dates of varying degrees of quality. There are situations where the dates appear to be good and nothing materializes.
Women don't want sex as much as men. It's a function of testosterone. Men have far more testosterone than women. Rollo Tomassi covered this topic in a 2011 article.
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I'm not saying it doesn't happen. If it happens it's either:
I think outcome #1 is more common and more influential than outcome #2. Number #2 is a relevant point.
Always be escalating is common advice in seduction.Now your advice to basically escalate as if there's no tomorrow would work for some of the women in the second category. But I think that's a very risky thing to do because you'd scare off any half decent woman for the remote chance of quickly bedding a total nutcase.
I'm not saying you HAVE to escalate.I'm not saying it doesn't happen. If it happens it's either:
1. because the guy has really misjudged the date (he sees it as great whereas the woman sees it as meh or bad - I've seen such cases on this forum with threads along the lines of ... 2-3 GREAT dates then ghosted, WTF happened ... and after a few posters analyse the info provided, OP eventually realizes the dates weren't great at all from the woman's POV and he just missed the clues).
2. the woman is a totally unreliable Tinder hoe and/or most probably on prescribed medication for mental health issues.
Now your advice to basically escalate as if there's no tomorrow would work for some of the women in the second category. But I think that's a very risky thing to do because you'd scare off any half decent woman for the remote chance of quickly bedding a total nutcase.
‘Always be escalating’ - book of pookThis goes against what Doc Love or OGs from this forum like Pook or Anti Dump used to teach. You mean to tell us that being masculine means to basically jump on a woman and fvck her on the 1st or 2nd date? That's Andrew Tate, Rich Cooper BS masquerading as masculinity. The only kind of woman who'd go cold after 2 great dates is a ditzy bimbo/Tinder hoe no respectable guy would want anything to do with anyway. Like, c'mon man!
Simply stating ''women want sex just as much as men'' is a misleading half truth. As opposed to porn fantasy, in reality, most women want sex as part of being in a relationship with a guy they love and trust. To build the trust and the love takes time, not 1-2 dates. That's why you can't go too slow with a woman who's attracted to you.
Want to argue the above, do it with Doc Love, the first guy in 6.000 years to understand women.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
