Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
At the start of nearly every interaction, a woman is likely going on dates with multiple men. The number of dates she's going on depends on if she's a user of swipe apps. If she's a swipe app user and a swipe app was the reason for the first date, that's a scenario where there will be the most competition.
It's a bad idea is she has orbiters while she's a committed relationship.
That’s really the foundation of the whole “spinning plates” concept. Men are encouraged to talk to multiple women to level the playing field, especially since the old blue pill mindset was all about focusing on one woman, even though she might be talking to several men. When a guy only talks to one woman, it often leads to “oneitis,” driven by a scarcity mentality.
You should never become exclusive with a woman who sleeps around with multiple men. Such women are for recreational use only.
You end up with lots of chicks who turn out to be the neighborhood bike, hoss? May be wise to acquire your lays in places outside of dive bars and trailer parks
Every women you ever dated was likely dating more than just you when you began a relationship.
This is pretty much my philosophy.
I've always thought it was funny about this forum and other manosphere sites that guys here expect to be able to be out banging five HB9s at a time, but none of them should be allowed to even have any orbiters. I mean, I get it, but if you're not exclusive with her, you don't really have the right to make such demands of her. Unless you're like the king of Babylon or something.
I don't have a problem with a chick only sexing one man at a time - in fact, that's the way it should be. The thing is, if I'm not on the path to take the spot, I lose the verve to continue to pursue.
Yes, but was it that the men she was "dating" just men that paid for her dinner, etc.? The frustrated chump buying meals for her might be thinking he's dating her, but really he's not.
Lol is this scenario any better? I'd take a ho over a dinner ho personally.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
