Being unconscious is not healing dysfunctional behavior. Most relationship issues stem from being unconscious. Most people have emotional traumas that they do not address. The average person has not even began doing the internal work to be emotionally healthy. This is what " inner game" that was talked about in PUA circles really means.
Ever since I have done massive emotional healing I have learned how to talk to the feminine. You get triggered less and are able to talk to them almost like you would talk to your small daughter. You lead with love and calmness. You can also connect with them emotionally.
The trick is finding a chick that is also willing to go on the journey of healing her traumas. I asked a girl the other day " why were you out in streets when you were younger?" She basically said she was going on autopilot. She was not conscious. She was not even thinking about her behavior. Most people do not think about the root causes of their behavior.
Two emotionally healthy people can have a long lasting relationship and marriage.
Ever since I have done massive emotional healing I have learned how to talk to the feminine. You get triggered less and are able to talk to them almost like you would talk to your small daughter. You lead with love and calmness. You can also connect with them emotionally.
The trick is finding a chick that is also willing to go on the journey of healing her traumas. I asked a girl the other day " why were you out in streets when you were younger?" She basically said she was going on autopilot. She was not conscious. She was not even thinking about her behavior. Most people do not think about the root causes of their behavior.
Two emotionally healthy people can have a long lasting relationship and marriage.
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