"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For you guys in sales, look here..

AureliusMaximus

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So for you guys in sales I'd like to share this with you guys.
Yesterday this popped up in my LinkedIn feed and i thought I'd might share it with all you lovely people here on SS so that it benefit you too! :)
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Bruce King; He is one of UK´s best sales trainers and if you are in sales you can now for a short time get his whole online sales training program for free.

Just to to his website https://bruceking.co.uk/sales-coaching-online/#buy and then enter the promo code in the image " LESS100PERCENT" and you will get it for free..

Enjoy guys, I hope it will benefit your personal grind to where you want to be on life. :up:

And you're welcome!
Cheers! ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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He's building his email list to sell his next product to you.

Not disagreeing though, we're all salesmen here
 

BillyPilgrim

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He's building his email list to sell his next product to you.

Not disagreeing though, we're all salesmen here
Yes, but there's a good chance 60% of the valuable info will be given away for free, in the anticipation that the remaining info in actual product will be more valuable than it is.
 

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Yes, but there's a good chance 60% of the valuable info will be given away for free, in the anticipation that the remaining info in actual product will be more valuable than it is.
I bought his sales training in the past and it was good. Just saying.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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