"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

personal development

  1. AureliusMaximus

    For you guys in sales, look here..

    So for you guys in sales I'd like to share this with you guys. Yesterday this popped up in my LinkedIn feed and i thought I'd might share it with all you lovely people here on SS so that it benefit you too! :) Bruce King; He is one of UK´s best sales trainers and if you are in sales you can...
  2. BorisBeef

    Do you consume personal development content?

    There is one called Hamza, I watched a couple of videos and even though he has knowledge that is applicable, I think we have to be careful what kind of information we receive. Would you recommend any youtuber?
  3. BorisBeef

    consult for glossary, and [why would a man be with an ugly woman?]

    As I am new there are many terms that I do not understand, I would appreciate if someone has a link or a post with the abbreviations. I usually spend more than 9 hours on the street a day for my work, I take the liberty of observing all the people, I have realized that it is my favorite pastime...
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top