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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You’re funny…looking.I’m a 6’2 half black half white adonis you would be licking my feet old man.
The thread about body counts is older than you think:Rollo admitted his body count in the 30s which is above average but I know guys who easily do that in a year (not trying to make it sound like it's a great thing just something to think about)
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Do you mean 1, 2, & 3 are not "The quickest path to becoming a high-value man"?I disagree with 1, 2, & 3
All before 1993, the game has changed drastically the last 30 yearsThe thread about body counts is older than you think:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ah, that was too subtle of me. I actually quoted Rollo Tomassi in my post, where he stated his body count was 43. That is why I replied to your post about Rollo's body count being in the 30s, to update that to 43.All before 1993, the game has changed drastically the last 30 years
I am about to watch that video lol.Rollo just got exposed again for being a chatty patty and not fact-checking
This guy is in his 50s and reveling in arguing with youtube thots, just to look like a beta gossiper for presenting false information
This is cringe AF
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Its about time to hang em up for Rollo.Who the fucck is Brittany Venti? Why is Rollo arguing with some thot?
Rollo should've never aligned himself with the fresh and fit crowd. He is an older married man fighting against Gen Z bimbos with nothing to lose in an endless pit. These women are either political grifters or ex only fan thots that proudly wear their dirty laundry.He's having issues with both Lauren Southern and Brittany Venti.
Rollo always has been an attention-*****, Roosh fell back and Rooisy did too but Rollo wants to be relevant the main issue is Rollo should be talking about marriage and how to have happy relationships instead he's in his late 50s writing "The Players Handbook"Rollo should've never aligned himself with the fresh and fit crowd. He is an older married man fighting against Gen Z bimbos with nothing to lose in an endless pit. These women are either political grifters or ex only fan thots that proudly wear their dirty laundry.
Good point, Rollo is now 55 years old fighting against women young enough to be his daughters. Lauren Southern is a late Millennial (born 1995) and Brittany Venti is early Gen Z (born 1997). Rollo was already in the 2nd half of his 20s when both were born.Rollo should've never aligned himself with the fresh and fit crowd. He is an older married man fighting against Gen Z bimbos with nothing to lose in an endless pit. These women are either political grifters or ex only fan thots that proudly wear their dirty laundry.
Getting too big seems to have been a problem for Roosh, Rollo, Roissy, Andrew Tate, and a few others. Even Mystery and Neil Strauss had some serious personal problems.Rollo always has been an attention-*****, Roosh fell back and Rooisy did too but Rollo wants to be relevant the main issue is Rollo should be talking about marriage and how to have happy relationships instead he's in his late 50s writing "The Players Handbook"
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The first half of the 1990s is the answer to all 3 of those questions. Also, it was a lot more difficult to arrange multiple first dates in a short period in the 1990s as compared to today. With swipe apps in the 2010s, I could arrange 3-4 first dates in a week. I might have even been able to double book, which I never did. I did arrange first dates on 3 consecutive nights. Try arranging first dates on 3 consecutive nights without using swipe apps or sending a massive amount of DMs on Instagram.When was the last time Rollo was infield doing approaches back to back?
When was the last time Rollo spun "Plates"?
When was the last time Rollo got flaked on a date and he had another plate in the stash?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
We know Rollo reads the forum, and it would be better if he limits himself to mingling with the true "fans of the manosphere "like we are. Just get of your higj horse amd partake in the conversations where men respect you and are actually in need of (niche)advice.Good point, Rollo is now 55 years old fighting against women young enough to be his daughters. Lauren Southern is a late Millennial (born 1995) and Brittany Venti is early Gen Z (born 1997). Rollo was already in the 2nd half of his 20s when both were born.
Getting too big seems to have been a problem for Roosh, Rollo, Roissy, Andrew Tate, and a few others. Even Mystery and Neil Strauss had some serious personal problems.
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Why Have So Many Well Known Pickup Artists Had Major Personal Issues?
Tom Torero: Has a scandal surrounding non-consensual recordings. Dies unexpectedly. Family confirms his death was a suicide. Roosh: Sister dies of breast cancer. Leads to emotional breakdown. Has a religious conversion and condemns pickup, seduction, and all non-marital sex. Neil Strauss: Was...www.sosuave.net
The first half of the 1990s is the answer to all 3 of those questions. Also, it was a lot more difficult to arrange multiple first dates in a short period in the 1990s as compared to today. With swipe apps in the 2010s, I could arrange 3-4 first dates in a week. I might have even been able to double book, which I never did. I did arrange first dates on 3 consecutive nights. Try arranging first dates on 3 consecutive nights without using swipe apps or sending a massive amount of DMs on Instagram.
It must be pointed out that tech-based methods are excellent at producing low-quality dates, ones of the "one date, no sex, no second date" variety.
It is better to arrange fewer dates but have a higher percentage of dates result in sex and/or extended relationships.
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You're missing the point, the point is this guy been married for nearly 30 years, a lot has changed in the dating market I.E. a guy meeting women in the club in 1990 isn't qualified to give a single guy hitting the field in 2023 adviceThe first half of the 1990s is the answer to all 3 of those questions. Also, it was a lot more difficult to arrange multiple first dates in a short period in the 1990s as compared to today. With swipe apps in the 2010s, I could arrange 3-4 first dates in a week. I might have even been able to double book, which I never did. I did arrange first dates on 3 consecutive nights. Try arranging first dates on 3 consecutive nights without using swipe apps or sending a massive amount of DMs on Instagram.
It must be pointed out that tech-based methods are excellent at producing low-quality dates, ones of the "one date, no sex, no second date" variety.
It is better to arrange fewer dates but have a higher percentage of dates result in sex and/or extended relationships.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.