"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women Don't Want a Semi-Successful Man

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I have observed the same thing as well. The guys who don't have a pot to piss in are often attracting-seducing much different types of women than the rich guys.
There’s really only 2 types of women for the most part. Those that chase the losers and those who chase the ultra rich guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media is telling them. Get a man who accepts you for you are OR "you deserve better queen!"

Yes, I am posting this out of frustration. I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.
Depends on where you live, in the midwest a guy making 75K-125K in decent shape if he lives in a great part of town will clean up very very easily. Having great logistics gives you access to another tier of women
 

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Depends on where you live, in the midwest a guy making 75K-125K in decent shape if he lives in a great part of town will clean up very very easily. Having great logistics gives you access to another tier of women
Where in the Midwest USA? A mid-sized city like Des Moines, Iowa? $75k-125k in decent shape in Dallas, Texas means essentially nothing. Dallas, Texas isn't the Midwest but it is somewhere in the middle of the USA.

 

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Where in the Midwest USA? A mid-sized city like Des Moines, Iowa? $75k-125k in decent shape in Dallas, Texas means essentially nothing. Dallas, Texas isn't the Midwest but it is somewhere in the middle of the USA.

Iowa (75K you living like a King)
Wisconsin (75K you in the top 10% for men)
Minnesota (100K and a great location easy)
North dakota (100K would be rockstar status but good luck finding chicks that are 6+'s)
South dakota (slept on college town if you live near campus making 75K you gonna clean up)
Ohio (depneding on where in Ohio a 100K and being in decent shape will have you smashing all types of blondes lol)

Heck even in Chicago if you make over 95K a year as a single guy with logicitcs in shape you gonna smash some bad eastern europeans or Habesha girls. Cost of livingis diffrent 90K in NYC ain't shyt. in LA aint shyt. And not surprised in Dallas it ain't **** either Different strokes for different folks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.
This might be part of the problem, I run into much fewer issues with younger women compared to the ones I meet out at the bars in the more "young professional" part of my city.
 

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I run into much fewer issues with younger women compared to the ones I meet out at the bars in the more "young professional" part of my city.
You seem more focused on 21-25, which will naturally have fewer issues than 26-35 year olds. The older women get, the more issues and baggage that makes the whole interaction process less fun.
 

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You seem more focused on 21-25, which will naturally have fewer issues than 26-35 year olds. The older women get, the more issues and baggage that makes the whole interaction process less fun.
Agreed. And the fact they're older my theory is they're thinking more long-term, so they want to see how many boxes you can check off.
 

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Agreed. And the fact they're older my theory is they're thinking more long-term, so they want to see how many boxes you can check off.
And how much you're willing to grind (not on their pants, but groveling)
 
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Full collapse inbound to you. We'll see how these lazy ass women fare without ANY dudes to provide. Inflation and illegal aliens thru the ROOF! LMFAO. I don't want no bum ass females.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Full collapse inbound to you. We'll see how these lazy ass women fare without ANY dudes to provide. Inflation and illegal aliens thru the ROOF! LMFAO. I don't want no bum ass females.
They rage they will feel when they find witchcraft can only go so far...
 

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the fact they're older my theory is they're thinking more long-term, so they want to see how many boxes you can check off.
Your theory is valid. Women do tend to get a bit fussier when they want to date longer term, so the checklist of boxes gets longer. That's something that guys who tend to prefer some sort of longer term relationship dislike about that. It goes back to Iron Rule of Tomassi #1. Control the frame and make her enter your frame. If she doesn't want to enter your frame, then she can GTFO.
 

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Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want.
I just saw this today. I am in this category and have a wife and children.

i also (regrettably) had what I call “porn come to life” moments in my life while unemployed.


How did you come to your conclusion?
 

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I just saw this today. I am in this category and have a wife and children.

i also (regrettably) had what I call “porn come to life” moments in my life while unemployed.


How did you come to your conclusion?
Hold up. What do you mean by "saw this today"?.

You're married with kids= settled. Your wife doesn't respect you or what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media is telling them. Get a man who accepts you for you are OR "you deserve better queen!"

Yes I am posting this out of frustration. I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.
It took me a while to understand that, but for some type of woman they just want you accept all their BS. If you try to hold them accountable or try to talk about something both committed and she is not doing, this happens.

Most times I end breaking up, but it seems those kind of women want a stupid guy that doesnt have any kind of self-respect. Its pure manipulation.
 

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Hold up. What do you mean by "saw this today"?.

You're married with kids= settled. Your wife doesn't respect you or what?
I just saw the post.
 

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On the apps at least, a lot of women who approach do so because they're desperate from being too difficult. So they have to put in more effort (via approaching) to compensate, which is something they don't want to have to do to being with. A good recipe for a vicious cycle.
It's OVER for ViciouslyCycledCels.
Because the guys that drop out were already invisible and weren't good for most of these women barring simp beta roles i.e. pic liking, IG following, free meals at Salt Bae's, being Onlyfans subscribers, etc. Chad and Tyrone aren't dropping out, Bob and John are.
It hasn't even STARTED for InvisibleCels.
 
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Exactly.

I think some MGTOWs had this fantasy that they were going to spite women by dropping out of dating. Or guys would drop out of dating in sufficient numbers (which they have), but women would start to panic. Or a dropped out MGTOW would suddenly turn into a puzzy magnet because he DGAF.

It doesn’t work that way.
The TFL legend explains the truth about MGTOW:

 

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Theres tons of women who dont care about how much you earn as long as you can afford a dinner and arent struggling..

Dense individuals put so much emphasis on superfixialities and career thinking all women care about that sht so much.

But the truth is you lead with what youre strong in.. if you arent sexually confident and also dont have much money rhen ur pretty much at a loss.

Confidence still reigns supreme. Most women are justlooking to have fun these days...sucks some.of you dudes are missing out. Only.you know what issues u really havem.and im willing to bet one of the bigger pictures is just low self esteem

Ask yourself this. Would a woman ask anf wonder about a mans career when dealing with a hot rock n roll type rebel character? No her vibe would be more concerned about what hes gonna do with her when theyre alone. Dont be a square and women wont treat you like one

No offense to you OP bht you sound like you lack game. Why is it called Game? Because you are essentially.finessing the women to.use her for.sexual gratification.. good game u can be a broke pothead and still get pu55y.. it really boils down to this sexual energy and confidence.

You might just not be sexually.prime enough to know how to game women. I know it can hurt to hear that but it is what it is
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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