Everything is pointless here and futile.
If you aint talking about LEADERSHIP you are wasting your time, Evrything is about leadership.
Some ppl meet their partners in clubs and social gatherings. Now, if the club is not properly run and managed the couple cannot have a good time and meet each other and form relationships.
First the LEADERSHIP creates the environment, the club was just an empty building. The leadership came in and with its own energy turned that empty building into a club. There they brought a DJ, lighting, a bar, drinks, barman, security, ENERGY.
The club and its energy attracts women, like moths to a flame. Men see women in the club, and the like moths to a flame are attracted. Men go to the club and spend money buying drinks for women. The women love it, they love the energy of the club and they love the attention from men the drinks those men buy them. Here relationships can form and women and men can meet in the positive energy created by the leadership.
Without the leadership who created and managed the club nothing else can happen. If the leadership is poor the vibe is poor, the same men and women can form positive relationships in a well-run club will not be able to do so in a poorly run club.
When the women say they want a succesful man or a man on a certain level, and the men say they have game or money or whatever, it is all futile and irrelevant, for without leadership nothing else can function. If the leadership is competent everything else works and if not everything else falls apart.
For women it is simply that they want leadership. No evry man can be a leader, but evry man can influence leadership, critisize it, find another leadership or create his own leadership alone or in alliance with other men.
A team can have the best players in the world but will not perform if the manager is incompetent, while a great manager can take average players and make a great team. The total ability and contribution of the all the players is 50% and the manager alone contributes 50% to the outcome.