You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No, Lamar is a huge idiot. Jalen was paid the market rate for a top tier QB.Is it racist to say Lamar Jackson is being an idiot, Eye?
It is just market inflation. We can say Mahomes has the best contract. He really would be $75 million per year today.Josh Allen's contract keeps looking better and better
It's wasn't market rate though, it was above market for a guy who's not a top 5 QB. This is like what the 49ers did with Jimmy Garroppolo after 5 games in 2017, making him the highest paid QB in league history, and he wasn't buoyed by his team like Hurts has been. We all know how that turned out, and the Russell Wilson and DeShaun Watson contracts have both been complete disasters so far.No, Lamar is a huge idiot. Jalen was paid the market rate for a top tier QB.
Yes, QB salaries are nuts.
It is just market inflation. We can say Mahomes has the best contract. He really would be $75 million per year today.
That's why Beane was smart to lock Allen up prior to the crazy QB contracts that were coming. If people think Hurts contract is crazy wait til they see what Burrow and Herbert get.No, Lamar is a huge idiot. Jalen was paid the market rate for a top tier QB.
Yes, QB salaries are nuts.
It is just market inflation. We can say Mahomes has the best contract. He really would be $75 million per year today.
I think it's still up in the air. GM's will want to see what return the huge Hurts, Watson, and Wilson contracts give back in 2023. I hope it comes back down. Burrow is good but Herbert is overrated and really only great at deep throws.That's why Beane was smart to lock Allen up prior to the crazy QB contracts that were coming. If people think Hurts contract is crazy wait til they see what Burrow and Herbert get.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's never coming down for QBs. Unless the position gets marginalized like RBs did, but there is no way...the league is becoming more and more of a passing league with all the rule changes and protections afforded to them.I think it's still up in the air. GM's will want to see what return the huge Hurts, Watson, and Wilson contracts give back in 2023. I hope it comes back down. Herbert is overrated and really only great at deep throws.
Yeah, you can expect QB salaries to go up, but there is a practical ceiling to the percentage of the salary cap a QB can take up. Imo we've already gone past that and are due for an adjustment.It's never coming down for QBs. Unless the position gets marginalized like RBs did, but there is no way...the league is becoming more and more of a passing league with all the rule changes and protections afforded to them.
With the salary cap climbing to north of $300 million within the next 3-4 years as the new TV contracts kick in fully, QB salaries will continue to climb. I mean a freaking offensive tackle just signed a 3 year $75 million dollar contract with $60 million guaranteed.
The teams only leverage is to try and franchise them a few times and then lose them after the 2nd tag. Meanwhile a desperate team will pay whatever they need to for a QB, it's the most important position in all of sports. The adjustment downward is never happening.Yeah, you can expect QB salaries to go up, but there is a practical ceiling to the percentage of the salary cap a QB can take up. Imo we've already gone past that and are due for an adjustment.
It's really no different than the Fear of Mission Out (FOMO) syndrome that plagues the investing world. They don't learn until they get burned.
On his best day Hurts is a 70% version of Allen that can't stiff arm DLineman to the ground, run over LBs or hurdle DBs.
Hurts was MVP runner up. He is a top 4 QB.It's wasn't market rate though, it was above market for a guy who's not a top 5 QB.
We will see if the QB salary cap % adjusts down or not. Desperate teams are disadvantaged by being desperate (meaning they suck and won't get the QB a ring if they give him the bag).The teams only leverage is to try and franchise them a few times and then lose them after the 2nd tag. Meanwhile a desperate team will pay whatever they need to for a QB, it's the most important position in all of sports. The adjustment downward is never happening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
There is no way Burrow is ahead of Allen. No QB is asked to do more than Allen does for his offense, not even Mahomes. Burrow has 3 top WR targets and Mixon. Allen has Diggs and a bunch of dudes, and often times the playcall is for Allen to just make something happen off schedule since his OLine was atrocious last year and he was dodging DLineman fairly quickly after most snaps.Hurts was MVP runner up. He is a top 4 QB.
Mahomes, Burrow, Allen, Hurts.
Lamar Jackson was the 2019 mvp and he's currently ranked outside the top 10. One year wonders abound in the NFL. Especially if you're a running QB (Vick with the Eagles, RGIII with Washington, Kaepernick with the 49ers).Hurts was MVP runner up. He is a top 4 QB.
Mahomes, Burrow, Allen, Hurts.
Funny how NFL.com (from your article) the top 4 QBs:Lamar Jackson was the 2019 mvp and he's currently ranked outside the top 10. One year wonders abound in the NFL. Especially if you're a running QB (Vick with the Eagles, RGIII with Washington, Kaepernick with the 49ers).
I rank Hurts at 4, just behind Burrow and Allen. He earned this contract.The top four quarterbacks on the list are Patrick Mahomes, Jalen Hurts, Joe Burrow and Josh Allen.
That's the point though, where will Hurts be ranked in years 3 and 4 of that contract? I imagine Lamar was ranked pretty damn high after 2019 too.Funny how NFL.com (from your article) the top 4 QBs:
I rank Hurts at 4, just behind Burrow and Allen. He earned this contract.
No, it’s not absurd. You have to pay the quarterback now, as there are about 28 other teams for which he would be an upgrade from their current QB.That's the point though, where will Hurts be ranked in years 3 and 4 of that contract? I imagine Lamar was ranked pretty damn high after 2019 too.
He has not earned this contract with only *one* year of elite performance. That's absurd.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Idk, I'd almost rather have Geno Smith at 3yrs/$75 than Hurts at 5/$255. Adjusted for oline, they performed at about the same level last year and they both have only one year of excellent play. (#1 vs #27 oline).No, it’s not absurd. You have to pay the quarterback now, as there are about 28 other teams for which he would be an upgrade from their current QB.
And the Saints almost got him in the draft.No, Lamar is a huge idiot. Jalen was paid the market rate for a top tier QB.
Yes, QB salaries are nuts.
It is just market inflation. We can say Mahomes has the best contract. He really would be $75 million per year today.
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Actually, I think a case could be made that a good policy would be to simply draft a few QBs in every draft until one hits, and then getting him for 5 years on a rookie contract; he could be traded for an arm and a leg in year 5, rinse & repeat.No, it’s not absurd. You have to pay the quarterback now, as there are about 28 other teams for which he would be an upgrade from their current QB.
There is an existential problem with running QBs: what makes them good is their running ability, as their straight-up passing ability is generally not elite, and eventually they are going to get injured and lose a step, and DCs will be able to figure out how to beat them; it's only the QBs that are elite passers that stay good throughout their careers.Lamar Jackson was the 2019 mvp and he's currently ranked outside the top 10. One year wonders abound in the NFL. Especially if you're a running QB (Vick with the Eagles, RGIII with Washington, Kaepernick with the 49ers).
The only good running QB who was good for a long time was Randall Cunningham, and that's because he changed his style to not run so much. We'll see if Hurts can do the same, but he only has one year at an elite level. You need more of a track record for this kind of contract.
The best QB's are multiple-read QB's who are good at evading pressure.
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Ravens QB Lamar Jackson ranked outside of top 10 QBs by NFL.com
Now that the 2022 season has come to end with the Kansas City Chiefs winning the Super Bowl, NFL.com has ranked all 68 starting quarterbacks who started at least one game. Baltimore Ravens QB Lamar Jackson, despite playing in only 12 games this season, came in at…ravenswire.usatoday.com
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.