Epicwinguy
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This way you don't have to hide anything? But this question especially goes if she is religious.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How do you get your wife to agree to let you see escorts?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dustmuffin
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That will go over like a fart in a space suit.
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You've a got wife now? or is this a hypothetical.
I bet
Epicwinguy
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Hypothetical
Stanley
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I guess if you are super high value with lots of money and status she might let it slide? But I doubt it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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You Get divorced
Yes, that proposal to her while still married is a good way for her to screw him financially and file against him first when she gets infidelity proof…
Slippery slope there
EyeBRollin
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The misguided assumption here is that women are worthy and capable of having “agreements” with. Women are not men. They do not look at “honor” the same way we do. So I’m not sure why the question is even about making some pact with a wife about banging an escort. Is this about permission?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Macadellic
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Look for girls that are super messed up
- daddy issues
- bipolar
- polyamorous
- cam girl/onlyfans
I wouldn’t suggest marry her.
Good luck player
- daddy issues
- bipolar
- polyamorous
- cam girl/onlyfans
I wouldn’t suggest marry her.
Good luck player
devilkingx2
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You'd either need to screen for a girl who supports open relationships, polyamory, sex work, etc.
Or you'd need to be so far above her in value like a male 9/10 dating a female 6/10 that you can get her to agree to almost anything.
Or you'd need to be so far above her in value like a male 9/10 dating a female 6/10 that you can get her to agree to almost anything.
Gedmun
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Ask you wife to choose the escort.
bat soup
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Tell her that if she agrees to that you'll let her out of her cage.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BackInTheGame78
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Throughout history I think you'd find a lot of men don't either.
RickTheToad
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Can this be nominated for the stupidest question of the year?
Pierce Manhammer
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Weird question. You’ve been here long enough to know the answer to this one.
Furthermore why worry about it?
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Furthermore why worry about it?
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Epicwinguy
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All marriages are dead bedroom situations
taiyuu_otoko
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Try asking your future wife on your first date.
"So, let me ask you a question. I think we're compatible and I think we may go all the way. But because all marriages end up sexless, I'm going to need to see an escort say, once a week. You'd be OK with that, right?"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.