The Professor
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How do you deal with flaky women?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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You drop them or revise your strategy. Are you cold approaching or OLD?
BackInTheGame78
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Drop them.
If it's something that happens routinely then you probably need to determine what it is you are doing/not doing prior to the date that is causing it.
If it's something that happens routinely then you probably need to determine what it is you are doing/not doing prior to the date that is causing it.
Doctor Europeo
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Triple booke em
Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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what if none of them flake?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Doctor Europeo
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This happened to me all the time back in my single days. I would go out with the youngest/hottest one and cancel on the other girls.
CoandaEffect
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Don’t get nasty with them like a lot of men do. Just say something like “No problem, have a nice evening”. Then move on and don’t contact them again. If they reach out to you then setup another date in a week or so. If they suddenly want to keep the original date, tell them you already have something else to do.
Gamisch
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Basic modern dating knowledge.
There should not ever be anything more communicated then what you said.
Also important is you don't reach out. Flake= end of whatever was going on.
CoandaEffect
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I had three dates arranged this week. First date flaked and l sensed it was BS. No problem, I sent my “have a nice evening” text. I doubt I will ever hear from her again.
Second one flaked, but I got a sense it was legit. I will attach the conversation. I could have been nasty to her, but I was not and she came back. I will arrange another date with her. Maybe she was testing me, I don’t know, but if she was I passed.
Third date is this evening. I don’t think she will flake but she might.
Second one flaked, but I got a sense it was legit. I will attach the conversation. I could have been nasty to her, but I was not and she came back. I will arrange another date with her. Maybe she was testing me, I don’t know, but if she was I passed.
Third date is this evening. I don’t think she will flake but she might.
Bethatsocialguy
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Women flake if they lose interest or find a better option. You have to reflect. Are you a worthy option? Why pick you out of 10 other guys? Did you portray needy behaviour?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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FAIAP covid is a new flake excuse. She wouldn't use this with Drake or Lebron James.
I never knew about flaking being a test, but I really don't buy it. More than likely, why a woman will flake on you, is because Tyrone or her ex hit her up.
This is why I now tell women that if you cancel out, I'm never speaking to you again. The one strike rule works wonders.