"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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That's an excuse.

And yet you did.

You are still hoping. Prepare to see her at this work party to arrive with a +1 or hitting on other colleagues.
She just called me twice about work today she was friendly and all and I was dry as **** lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Also man
That's an excuse.

And yet you did.

You are still hoping. Prepare to see her at this work party to arrive with a +1 or hitting on other colleagues.
also man one thing I don’t full agree with these techniques is warming up a woman. A woman knows if she would sleep with you or no, u don’t need to crack jokes annd be her clown and waste your time with that I’m 40 now I’m done with all of that. She is either in or out. Besides she knows me for 6 months already.

Guys waste too much time gaming women, being a 5% man every day , be the perfect alpha guy just to keep a woman that usually isn’t even on the top 50%. U see where I’m going with this? She likes you she likes you if she doesn’t, fack her
 

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@Bigpapa is referring to the salaries of Class of 2022 MBA graduates from Harvard Business School.

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An MBA is only worth doing from a Top 25 program like Harvard.
i did it at Boston university and was a good investment . Got a good scholarship for what is worth … but also in Europe the reputation of the Boston university ( top 50 global and like top 40 in US) is way higher than some of the top 25 mba schools

in Europe if you do not go for the Ivey league or some of the unis with really good brand awareness and higher in the rankings , just better to go to an university that has strong branding , like Boston uni or Georgia Tech has for example

for what is worth , both unis even in America are considered really good , just not elite
 
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I gave my two cents and you did not listen. Now I get joy of watching this dumpster fire.

 
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im gonna back off, avoid visits to the office and when I see her hi and bye and zero validation. She knows I want her and maybe seed is planted, she may come around when she sees I don’t give a dam anymore and didn’t cause any drama after her rejection. After all, all I did was sending 2 texts a week apart asking her out.
Just quit and find another job lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dude thought he was a literal god so I wouldn’t be shocked if did something really brash and stupid lol. Even if it’s consensual and the girl initiated I wouldn’t recommend it because the Girl will always have the upper hand in HR. I also know a manager that was fired because this situation happened at a retreat and she had 304’s remorse and told HR and used the “he got me drunk” excuse lol
That's not true. The person with the upper hand in HR is the one they feel can cost them the most money if they decided to sue them.
 

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i did it at Boston university and was a good investment . Got a good scholarship for what is worth … but also in Europe the reputation of the Boston university ( top 50 global and like top 40 in US) is way higher than some of the top 25 mba schools

in Europe if you do not go for the Ivey league or some of the unis with really good brand awareness and higher in the rankings , just better to go to an university that has strong branding , like Boston uni or Georgia Tech has for example

for what is worth , both unis even in America are considered really good , just not elite
US schooling through high school is pretty crappy compared to the rest of the world but our universities on average are far better than schools in other countries.

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US schooling through high school is pretty crappy compared to the rest of the world but our universities on average are far better than schools in other countries.

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I would say that is the same , just that you always have elite high schools in the public sector as rarely anyone goes to private ones

a lot of dumb people also in Europe . I used to think that Americans are stupider , but when I arrived there I did not see any big difference
the biggest difference is that Americans on average are more ignorant and entitled, but this comes back to being the strongest
“empire” in the world . I am quite sure that British , Spanish , Japanese , etc etc were the same at their peak
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I would say that is the same , just that you always have elite high schools in the public sector as rarely anyone goes to private ones

a lot of dumb people also in Europe . I used to think that Americans are stupider , but when I arrived there I did not see any big difference
the biggest difference is that Americans on average are more ignorant and entitled, but this comes back to being the strongest
“empire” in the world . I am quite sure that British , Spanish , Japanese , etc etc were the same at their peak
Boston and Massachusetts is a whole is one of the most educated parts of the US. However, I am assuming you stuck to mostly cities in the US which gave you one view of America. The Rural America vs Urban America divide is the biggest contrasting differences culture wise in this country...Civil War contrasting bad IMHO.
 

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I would say that is the same , just that you always have elite high schools in the public sector as rarely anyone goes to private ones

a lot of dumb people also in Europe . I used to think that Americans are stupider , but when I arrived there I did not see any big difference
the biggest difference is that Americans on average are more ignorant and entitled, but this comes back to being the strongest
“empire” in the world . I am quite sure that British , Spanish , Japanese , etc etc were the same at their peak
I think in large part it depends on where in the country you go...in the bigger cities there are lots of educated people...in the more rural areas especially in the South and Midwest areas (especially West Virginia, Tennessee and Kentucky) there are a lot of uneducated/ignorant/backwards people.
 
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Speaking of Boston, the Celtics coach is on hot water for having relations with a female staffer.
 

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I think in large part it depends on where in the country you go...in the bigger cities there are lots of educated people...in the more rural areas especially in the South and Midwest areas (especially West Virginia, Tennessee and Kentucky) there are a lot of uneducated/ignorant/backwards people.
man , for example you are not teached universal history or geography , unless yoj actually go to university to lear

and even the educated successful ones are quite ignorant from this point of view

Also , quite ignorant in picking up new languages as well

it is just not the same thing . On average an European speaks 2-3 languages quite well ( even the uneducated ones )
 

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man , for example you are not teached universal history or geography , unless yoj actually go to university to lear

and even the educated successful ones are quite ignorant from this point of view

Also , quite ignorant in picking up new languages as well

it is just not the same thing . On average an European speaks 2-3 languages quite well ( even the uneducated ones )
I speak 3 languages. English Portuguese and Finnish and I can manage Spanish
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Speaking of Boston, the Celtics coach is on hot water for having relations with a female staffer.
So ?

also a guy most likely was just rapped By a goat . This means that you will be rapped By goat too ?
 
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man , for example you are not teached universal history or geography , unless yoj actually go to university to lear

and even the educated successful ones are quite ignorant from this point of view

Also , quite ignorant in picking up new languages as well

it is just not the same thing . On average an European speaks 2-3 languages quite well ( even the uneducated ones )
The USA is huge and uniform so learning multiple languages other than Spanish is a waste of time. Why do I need to learn Dutch and Polish?
 

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I sent her a work report tonight she asked me through Facebook and we had a chat about it. I’m the end we flirted a little bit and that was it. Not sure if this is going anywhere. I probably shouldn’t have flirted.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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