Asked my boss out

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Another personal wonderful story I have. At my previous boiler room sales job, my coworker was the top sales guy in the company. This dude was literally a god in the company and was worshipped during every monthly company meeting and just in general. Dude was 28, owned a house in the nice part of the city, made 400k plus a year, wife, and kids...life was pretty good for him. He had an untouchable monopoly in his territory, so it wasn't just like he could go somewhere else and recreate the same thing easily. We had a retreat in Cancun and he decided to make a pass at this other manager that he thought fancied him. Idk any of the details, but he got fired right after that retreat and lost everything lol.

 

[Bigpapa]

That also brings up the point, never discount a woman weaponizing this kind of stuff against you.

yes , that is a totally different thing

if he got the promotion , she wanted to f8ck him so went on with this loop hole

most likely she also invented stuff too

I also went through something similar , where I wanted to fire some people and one of them retaliated by saying that I told her that I fire her because she is a lesbian

was a bit of a sh1t show for the company , but she did not had any proof either ( never talked with her personally ) . She just wanted to squish as much money as possible for her severance package

initially HR wanted to f8ck me , as I had my beef with the HR Director , but other directors backed me and nothing happened

in this type of situations it is always about who has your back , that it is key to build your social circle at work to be as strong as possible

 

[Bigpapa]

Another personal wonderful story I have. At my previous boiler room sales job, my coworker was the top sales guy in the company. This dude was literally a god in the company and was worshipped during every monthly company meeting and just in general. Dude was 28, owned a house in the nice part of the city, made 400k plus a year, wife, and kids...life was pretty good for him. He had an untouchable monopoly in his territory, so it wasn't just like he could go somewhere else and recreate the same thing easily. We had a retreat in Cancun and he decided to make a pass at this other manager that he thought fancied him. Idk any of the details, but he got fired right after that retreat and lost everything lol.

400k per year for a boiler salesman / sales manager ?

what types of drugs you do to hallucinate at this level ?

it is even more shocking that the mods did not ban you for being a troll all this time

 

[devilkingx2]

I'd say that to avoid sexual harassment, just don't sexually harass anybody. Run safe game at work, and leave anyone alone who rejects you one time or otherwise doesn't seem to like you. Don't say unnecessary things to people who aren't cool or around people who aren't cool.

If your job would fire you over any tiny little thing, you should be looking for a new job at a good company anyway. Or gaining skills/education to make yourself less disposable.

 

[RicBoy]

You never send messages to your coworkers you say that in person where there is no evidence, also never date in your workplace, that's just pathetic and a train wreck waiting to happen.

spot on man

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

400k per year for a boiler salesman / sales manager ?

what types of drugs you do to hallucinate at this level ?

it is even more shocking that the mods did not ban you for being a troll all this time

he was the top at the company and came in early at a time before the company changed structure

 

[devilkingx2]

400k per year for a boiler salesman / sales manager ?

what types of drugs you do to hallucinate at this level ?

it is even more shocking that the mods did not ban you for being a troll all this time

It's theoretically possible depending on the pay structure. Apparently you can make six figures selling furniture.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

It's theoretically possible depending on the pay structure. Apparently you can make six figures selling furniture.

This was in insurance. Boiler room refers to a type of sales environment that comes from a good movie about Wall Street sales called the Boiler Room.

 

[Bigpapa]

It's theoretically possible depending on the pay structure. Apparently you can make six figures selling furniture.

The median salary for the 2022 Harvard MBA cohort was 150k . And this guys have the highest salaries and worker in the big companies and go now to get management positio

It's theoretically possible depending on the pay structure. Apparently you can make six figures selling furniture.

By national measures, those making $400,000 or more in income belong to a rarified group. They represent the top 1.8%of taxpayers, earning about 25% of the nation's income.Oct 6, 2020

This is the late 2020

most likely 5 years back there were 1% ( as we had the inflation spike in 2020 )

if you also add the probability of a troll like @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 knowing someone in the top 1%

and that guy being 28

and that guy getting also a serious leadership position by that age in a super big company

and that guy chilling in Cancun with an early 20s @Jake_Gyllenhaal69, that somehow managed to sit at the same table with the big guys ( despite him being a newbie )

you would just realize that is just him having hallucinations and that his medic should give him stronger meds . If not , maybe the mods could do their job properly and ban the troll

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

The median salary for the 2022 Harvard MBA cohort was 150k . And this guys have the highest salaries and worker in the big companies and go now to get management positio

wtf is a Harvard cohort? Salesmen and sales managers make the most money and reap the most benefits because they bring in revenue to the company.

 

[thermodynamic]

Another personal wonderful story I have. At my previous boiler room sales job, my coworker was the top sales guy in the company. This dude was literally a god in the company and was worshipped during every monthly company meeting and just in general. Dude was 28, owned a house in the nice part of the city, made 400k plus a year, wife, and kids...life was pretty good for him. He had an untouchable monopoly in his territory, so it wasn't just like he could go somewhere else and recreate the same thing easily. We had a retreat in Cancun and he decided to make a pass at this other manager that he thought fancied him. Idk any of the details, but he got fired right after that retreat and lost everything lol.

I still don't understand how making a move on a girl can result in so much drama and trouble. How far do you have to go to get in trouble ? Did he try to make out with her ? I usually make a solid educated guess before making a move (and the girls are simultaneously making moves on me in their way). I assume if everything I did was consensual, then I did nothing wrong. I will admit I have never worked in a conventional workplace. At one of my workplaces, I had a blatant ok to go ahead and get at the customers. My co-wokers have always been male.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I still don't understand how making a move on a girl can result in so much drama and trouble. How far do you have to go to get in trouble ? Did he try to make out with her ? I usually make a solid educated guess before making a move (and the girls are simultaneously making moves on me in their way). I assume if everything I did was consensual, then I did nothing wrong. I will admit I have never worked in a conventional workplace. At one of my workplaces, I had a blatant ok to go ahead and get at the customers. My co-wokers have always been male.

Dude thought he was a literal god so I wouldn’t be shocked if did something really brash and stupid lol. Even if it’s consensual and the girl initiated I wouldn’t recommend it because the Girl will always have the upper hand in HR. I also know a manager that was fired because this situation happened at a retreat and she had 304’s remorse and told HR and used the “he got me drunk” excuse lol

 

[SW15]

The median salary for the 2022 Harvard MBA cohort was 150k .

wtf is a Harvard cohort?

@Bigpapa is referring to the salaries of Class of 2022 MBA graduates from Harvard Business School.

A Harvard MBA is worth more than ever—just look at their 2021 grads’ salaries

Graduates of Harvard Business School have seen salaries rise more than 14% in the past five years.

fortune.com

.

An MBA is only worth doing from a Top 25 program like Harvard.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

@Bigpapa is referring to the salaries of Class of 2022 MBA graduates from Harvard Business School.

A Harvard MBA is worth more than ever—just look at their 2021 grads’ salaries

Graduates of Harvard Business School have seen salaries rise more than 14% in the past five years.

fortune.com

.

An MBA is only worth doing from a Top 25 program like Harvard.

oh lol. I considered UNC Chapel Hill’s program, but corporate America and Grad School were not my thing at all!!!

 

[devilkingx2]

The median salary for the 2022 Harvard MBA cohort was 150k . And this guys have the highest salaries and worker in the big companies and go now to get management positio


By national measures, those making $400,000 or more in income belong to a rarified group. They represent the top 1.8%of taxpayers, earning about 25% of the nation's income.Oct 6, 2020

This is the late 2020

most likely 5 years back there were 1% ( as we had the inflation spike in 2020 )

if you also add the probability of a troll like @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 knowing someone in the top 1%

and that guy being 28

and that guy getting also a serious leadership position by that age in a super big company

and that guy chilling in Cancun with an early 20s @Jake_Gyllenhaal69, that somehow managed to sit at the same table with the big guys ( despite him being a newbie )

you would just realize that is just him having hallucinations and that his medic should give him stronger meds . If not , maybe the mods could do their job properly and ban the troll

To be fair, I acknowledge the possibility that Jake is just making up fake stories on the internet, people do that all the time on Reddit and 4chan.

But let me play devil's advocate for a minute here

1. The top 1.8% of taxpayers means that if Jake has met 100 taxpayers, he has met 1-2 people who make $400,000 a year.

2. Sales jobs with commission like to tell you about insane top end figures, according to the manager of my local T-Mobile you can make $6k-20k a month working there. assuming they're not blatantly lying, I think that means one person who has worked there at some point sold that many phones.

I did an interview for some kind of furniture store, Raymour and Flannigan or Sleepy's or something. They said the good salesmen make 100k-200k

This was in insurance. Boiler room refers to a type of sales environment that comes from a good movie about Wall Street sales called the Boiler Room.

Oh that means insurance? I thought it was literal boiler rooms like they have at schools.

Well insurance can be profitable I think but for some reason I have it in my mind associated with working hard for barely any sales.

 

[devilkingx2]

I still don't understand how making a move on a girl can result in so much drama and trouble. How far do you have to go to get in trouble ? Did he try to make out with her ? I usually make a solid educated guess before making a move (and the girls are simultaneously making moves on me in their way). I assume if everything I did was consensual, then I did nothing wrong. I will admit I have never worked in a conventional workplace. At one of my workplaces, I had a blatant ok to go ahead and get at the customers. My co-wokers have always been male.

If the guy actually does something wrong it's usually:

1. He's too uncalibrated and creeps out a woman who is obviously uninterested by not leaving her alone.

2. He's too aggressive and says some wild **** that isn't PG-13 to women who aren't cool.

If the guy doesn't do anything wrong:

1. The woman hates him and will do anything to throw him under a bus

2. The company is spineless and sees its employees as totally disposable.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Oh that means insurance? I thought it was literal boiler rooms like they have at schools.

Well insurance can be profitable I think but for some reason I have it in my mind associated with working hard for barely any sales.

Im trying to be anonymous but he had a territory monopoly in a large/lucrative area that basically worked for him. He was also exceptionally intelligent and not a normie. If you want to make a lot of money without risking in a mba or investing in STEM then do sales.

 

[member160292]

This thread should be stickied, not because he is oblivious…more so quite the opposite. Dude knows what he’s doing and pretty good at it.

 

[RicBoy]

To recap the situation, I asked twice my boss out, one time she said she was busy other time she wrote me she is in a happy relationship. I didn’t see any pics of guys in her Facebook, she probably has a fudk buddy and is playing the field.

there are many variables here, maybe she is not attracted to me , maybe she wants to keep distance because she is my boss, maybe she really has a guy in the back ground.

I heard what other people saying , I could have warmed her up a bit better but it’s too hard to do so when I don’t see her that often at the office and approach by texts small talk is like a mine field, one wrong step and I can get in trouble at work, so dirty flirting is off the table. That’s why I opted to ask her out straight.
Also I don’t want to waste my time seducing someone that one I’m not super interested and two something I know long run wouldn’t work because she has 3 kids and is my boss.

I think I probably got her by surprise when she sent me the last msg explaining she is happy with someone and all is good between us but she doesn’t want to go on a date with me. All I said was Good luck and she answered thanks. She probably thought I was gonna write her a novel explaining why we should date.

im gonna back off, avoid visits to the office and when I see her hi and bye and zero validation. She knows I want her and maybe seed is planted, she may come around when she sees I don’t give a dam anymore and didn’t cause any drama after her rejection. After all, all I did was sending 2 texts a week apart asking her out.

 

[MtmVaott]

but it’s too hard to do so when I don’t see her that often at the office and approach by texts small talk is like a mine field, one wrong step and I can get in trouble at work, so dirty flirting is off the table.

That's an excuse.

Also I don’t want to waste my time seducing someone that one I’m not super interested and two something I know long run wouldn’t work because she has 3 kids and is my boss.

And yet you did.

She knows I want her and maybe seed is planted, she may come around when she sees I don’t give a dam anymore and didn’t cause any drama after her rejection. After all, all I did was sending 2 texts a week apart asking her out.

You are still hoping. Prepare to see her at this work party to arrive with a +1 or hitting on other colleagues.