Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
R.I.P
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Apparently he got of hold of fentanyl. My guess they wont make it "official" until all his family members get confirm knowledge of it.
That sounds credible. Lifestyle + drugs + strange woman + his 2-3 Red Bull’s per show.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Murder?
I don't agree with all of his points. I also don't necessarily believe how he treated his guests, but he talked about topics that needed to be addressed. Some time ago none of these topics were discussed.
I'm not stanning him but he might not have been the best messenger(better then any-other youtube out their) but the message was true and he actually gave good advice.
I think people took his “advice” a bit too seriously. The show was informative but mostly just entertaining. The women that called in were train wrecks. Unfortunately, they actually were a good representation of a lot of black American women.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You do not change people's minds by attacking them... attacking people just gets them to dig in... then your argument becomes emotional at rational. Another conservative pundent that IMO is just terrible is Ben Shapero. Shapero doesn't change anyone's mind, he just reinforces what others already believe. Debating Shapero is like arguing with a chick... if you start pinning him down he just launches off and emotionally attacks you. He is a piece of garbage.
Hes representative of a good percentage of youtube.com. also keep in mind even many printed magazines are mostly trash.
We can't say it's all or most BW, but it's that good percentage of BW that guys to complain about. I did find a few youtube channels with the hidden women who don't get alot of attention who aren't of a gold digger or exploiter mindset. Many have a bright and positive energy who would tend to set in a supporter position to their man. Some of them think they "aren't enough" as they go back and forth thinking they need to compete with the gold digger types for attention and men. Either that or competing for men that would only exploit and or not be grateful for them. Anyways it was cool to see it still existed. So if one is complaining, they just might be fishing in the polluted pond or river only with oily and polluted fish in it and instead of moving they stay fishing in it and complaining about fish.
Almost all the women I have dated are black. The broads that called into his show are indeed representative of black women as a whole. 99% of them possess at least one of the following to some degree:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.