Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Wow!!!B.S.......I wish. 6 hours 1 way in trip.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Wow!!!B.S.......I wish. 6 hours 1 way in trip.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why????? If she is a fine puss; then, she is worth it. Driving is a tourisim for me. I enjoy it. The antidump machine does not talk about this. It does not discriminate on the basis of distance, only interest level. The machine also does not mentioned beauty levels. It is a black and white machine. Chick or no chick. That is all.Wow!!!
I wouldn’t drive more than an hour, myself.Why????? If she is a fine puss; then, she is worth it. Driving is a tourisim for me. I enjoy it. The antidump machine does not talk about this. It does not discriminate on the basis of distance, only interest level. The machine also does not mentioned beauty levels. It is a black and white machine. Chick or no chick. That is all.
I understand. I told her I was on my way to see my family 3 hours away from her. I said I am picking some tools I left behind, then, I added and on my way back, I was going to come by and hang out with her. I think I will go to a Chinese wok or something. It is indirect approach you know. In this way, she is not giving too much and I maintain my frame. The distance makes me look desperate or in need, but in my youth, I slacked and beated the bush around a lot. This caused me to lose fine pieces of A$$s, not anymore. When she breaks the rules, I go in. After the first meeting, I will call her back 3 days later and ask her out. I will see what she says. I will tell her lets go to the acuarium or the zoo.I wouldn’t drive more than an hour, myself.
6 hour drive would put me in Santa Barbara! But, if you can tolerate that, more power to you. Best of luck!!!I understand. I told her I was on my way to see my family 3 hours away from her. I said I am picking some tools I left behind, then, I added and on my way back, I was going to come by and hang out with her. I think I will go to a Chinese wok or something. It is indirect approach you know. In this way, she is not giving too much and I maintain my frame. The distance makes me look desperate or in need, but in my youth, I slacked and beated the bush around a lot. This caused me to lose fine pieces of A$$s, not anymore. When she breaks the rules, I go in. After the first meeting, I will call her back 3 days later and ask her out. I will see what she says. I will tell her lets go to the acuarium or the zoo.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I will keep you posted.6 hour drive would put me in Santa Barbara! But, if you can tolerate that, more power to you. Best of luck!!!
It did not happened.6 hour drive would put me in Santa Barbara! But, if you can tolerate that, more power to you. Best of luck!!!
. Sorry brother.It did not happened.
You need a lot of work man, and it starts with yourself.She sent me a PM this morning after I asked her for her number the day before at noon. I do not know if she provided me with her number in her last message. I have not opened it. She tipically texts late at night, but she didn't do it this time. I believe she is into trying to figure out if I come up online the minute she PMs me. I get emails and I know when she PMs me, but I cannot read anything unless I log in to Facebook. I am folliwing antidump. If there is a number, then I should wait 5 days and call her to set up a date. 5 days is next Monday. I hope she did send her number. Bitsh $@!#&÷€!!!!
Says a Don Juan who is not a Don Jaun. Somebody is always pretending to coach somebody...... Like in prison, the first MF who shows up to help is the one who is wants to rape you and make you his *****.You need a lot of work man, and it starts with yourself.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Who's bullying? You are acting like a little kid finding presents under the Christmas tree over some chick messaging you and maybe getting a number.Says a Don Juan who is not a Don Jaun. Somebody is always pretending to coach somebody...... Like in prison, the first MF who shows up to help is the one who is wants to rape you and make you his *****.
Boy, this is not my first rodeo. Go find some1 else to bully.
I left @ 7:00 AM this morning and started driving. An hour later into the drive, decided to check messanger. She was online 4 hours ago, so if I am checking 1 hour later that means 8:00AM, and she was last online at 04:00 AM. This is kind of odd. This woman does not sleep or cannot sleep for X reason. So I drove for 2 more hours and I PMed her. There is no answer. Then, I called her at 11:30, it is then, 8 hours since she has been online last. She answered and sounds tire. She claimed that she is deadtired, went out last night to a party with her daughter or to her daughter's party, and came back late. She says she has not slept and is stressed out. She said she does not feel safe driving without sleep and asked when I am coming back into town, my reply is I dont know, then, she says that she hates to reschedule, but is tired. I am all the time saying ok, ok, no, no, ok, ok..... Sorry brother.
You ever read the story of the Donkey , Tiger, and Leon about the grass is blue???? If not, then read it. Now, please. Do me a favor and lose this post. Thank you.Who's bullying? You are acting like a little kid finding presents under the Christmas tree over some chick messaging you and maybe getting a number.
Oddly enough, some girls actually are night owls. But yeah. Seems like she’s not making enough effort. NEXT her.I left @ 7:00 AM this morning and started driving. An hour later into the drive, decided to check messanger. She was online 4 hours ago, so if I am checking 1 hour later that means 8:00AM, and she was last online at 04:00 AM. This is kind of odd. This woman does not sleep or cannot sleep for X reason. So I drove for 2 more hours and I PMed her. There is no answer. Then, I called her at 11:30, it is then, 8 hours since she has been online last. She answered and sounds tire. She claimed that she is deadtired, went out last night to a party with her daughter or to her daughter's party, and came back late. She says she has not slept and is stressed out. She said she does not feel safe driving without sleep and asked when I am coming back into town, my reply is I dont know, then, she says that she hates to reschedule, but is tired. I am all the time saying ok, ok, no, no, ok, ok....
Then, I can hear voices. Some1 who is a younger female speaks in the background. She has a short dialogue with the younger voice and then restarted to chat with me. At this moment she says call me sometime next week, but I am hanging up because I do not care. Also, I am hanging up because I am supposed to hang up first. I did not agree to reschedule and I did not tell her when I am back in town. So, I deleted her number and erased her Facebook messages.
Pfft. Please.You ever read the story of the Donkey , Tiger, and Leon about the grass is blue???? If not, then read it. Now, please. Do me a favor and lose this post. Thank you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yep.Oddly enough, some girls actually are night owls. But yeah. Seems like she’s not making enough effort. NEXT her.
She just sent me a load of.... apologizing to me. WTF am I supposed to do now? She just did it and it is 12:19 AM. I am not texting anyone this late....Oddly enough, some girls actually are night owls. But yeah. Seems like she’s not making enough effort. NEXT her.