lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
No on both. 48 years old, 32" waist, visible abs and pecs I can jiggle.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
beer?
- Thread starter forcerecon01
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
Minimum of 4 pints a day. I'm on #3 now since getting home from work an hour ago and I'm off tomorrow
so I stopped at the shop on my way home and got a dozen cans in.
so I stopped at the shop on my way home and got a dozen cans in.
Titties.
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
Yeah, check out my huge mamms....
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Again, men who drink lots of beer tend to have guts and tits. You are an exception, because you clearly work out. Most men who drink heavily don't.
Case in point, I drank probably 6+ pints of beer last night and night-capped with bourbon. I do not feel like going to the gym right now. I have the discipline to go anyways. Most men don't. Most men would sit around on the couch all day watching TV and eating food out of plastic wrappers.
Kotaix
Master Don Juan
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I'm personally incapable of being an alcoholic, i puke if I get drunk, so I don't like being drunk. and I usually
Getting drinks with a woman is a necessary step in vetting her. If she drinks like a fish around booze, next. If she's an angry or obnoxious drunk, next.
Getting drinks with a woman is a necessary step in vetting her. If she drinks like a fish around booze, next. If she's an angry or obnoxious drunk, next.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
I'm not much of a drinker.
But when I was in the Military, when I went to the commissary to get some snacks, I'd get Mike's hard lemonade, sometimes a budlight chilada, sometimes a large can of Fosters to go with my junk food.
Other than that, I didn't go to parties and bar hopping with the guys or anything like I should have...probably would have met a party girl to chill with.....who the heck knows what could have happened if I were more extroverted and drank more.
But when I was in the Military, when I went to the commissary to get some snacks, I'd get Mike's hard lemonade, sometimes a budlight chilada, sometimes a large can of Fosters to go with my junk food.
Other than that, I didn't go to parties and bar hopping with the guys or anything like I should have...probably would have met a party girl to chill with.....who the heck knows what could have happened if I were more extroverted and drank more.
mjb3617
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I don't typically drink beer unless I'm with my friends. Dates I'll have a gin martini or Manhattan depending on my whims. One of those and it's enough to relax and feel good but not get sloppy. If the date isn't going well, I'll order up a second one.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.