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I have.

2003. Went back with a woman who was beautiful but a bit older (like early 30s).

what she didn’t tell me is we went back to her cousins house because she be married. She be married to a big ass man. After bumping uglies, said man turns up at 2am on the doorstep with her 14 year old kid shouting “look at what you’re doing to this family”

I never knew any of this and I told her to go, felt terrible.

so, as soon as she went, her cousin (who was about my age 23ish) immediately jumps on me and we spend the night f00king.

walked out and that was the last I saw of either of them.
hahah bro what? That was one dysfunctional family. So the man didn't try to beat you up? And the cousin knew you just smashed her older cousin but wanted seconds? Were you not afraid to stay in the house after being caught? Btw I love this story lol
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Back to original post, but those numbers don;t sound too outlandish to me. If you're devoting tens of hours to your life each week meeting women - particularly if its your main source of income, business etc. Generally the more you focus and apply yourself to something, the better you get. Couple with being half decent looking, solid 'game', personality, in the right city, I'd imagine its certainly possible.

Particularly if you live in a large city, which attracts high numbers of younger tourists who'll likely be partying - somewhere like Barcelona, which is where I believe @Bigpapa lives. Possibly if based out in certain holiday/party destinations like ibiza, majorca, certain greek islands that attract loads of young drunk women for a few months duriing the summer season. Imagine you could get through a few women each week if you're good at this kind of thing.

If you're living a fairly typical life - working 40 hours a week (outside of pua industry), have other interests outside of women, you'd have to be top tier in something to hit those numbers as your time spent out there would be much lower so you'd need to be closing women quickly, couldn't spam approach. Also would probably be compromising on quality.
 
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Yes. I totally agree that you can pull dozens a year if you are in a very lucky and specific situations like popular a frat house on a big college campus. Even this is not consistent tail year round. But these guys are claiming frat house numbers as grown men for 3+ years lol...

Also if you are pulling that much tail eventually you will get into a short term relationship which would interrupt your lays. The one time in my life I was pulling that much tail was when I was a 28yr old living on a college campus basically and even then it was max a new girl a month average for a few months.
Lmfao Pandora mate, da **** you doing on a college dorm at 28? That's straight out of my playbook. picked up a 21 yr old college girl. beat it rotten and emptied my balls on her face. The more savage I went the wetter she got. fellas need to kick dumpty off the pedestal (figuratively not literal violence lulz). I've had spells of rampage where it back to back girls. Some new prospects or something new. Dumb luck. Other dry spells to particularly when I 1st learned game. crazy hot streak followed by getting lazy with game. rotation erosion. school boy error. it taught me that importance of lead generation but man, Game is work.
 

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hahah bro what? That was one dysfunctional family. So the man didn't try to beat you up? And the cousin knew you just smashed her older cousin but wanted seconds? Were you not afraid to stay in the house after being caught? Btw I love this story lol
I 1x went back to a girls place I had originally picked up irl. Cold approach. if it had been OLD dating, I likely would have bailed. Her room and setup seemed sketchy. Porch light off. Dim light in the hallway. Every door was closed. Place had a weird vibe. like a horror movie. Like someone was going to jump out of nowhere. invited to "watch a movie." Went straight from her front door to her bedroom. Got to the bedroom and there was no tv! Lulz!
 

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Lmfao Pandora mate, da **** you doing on a college dorm at 28? That's straight out of my playbook. picked up a 21 yr old college girl. beat it rotten and emptied my balls on her face. The more savage I went the wetter she got. fellas need to kick dumpty off the pedestal (figuratively not literal violence lulz). I've had spells of rampage where it back to back girls. Some new prospects or something new. Dumb luck. Other dry spells to particularly when I 1st learned game. crazy hot streak followed by getting lazy with game. rotation erosion. school boy error. it taught me that importance of lead generation but man, Game is work.
lolol...when did you get this 21 yr old? And where did you find her? Do you live next to a university? The reason I was in college housing was because I was a grad student so I qualified for the housing lol.
 

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I 1x went back to a girls place I had originally picked up irl. Cold approach. if it had been OLD dating, I likely would have bailed. Her room and setup seemed sketchy. Porch light off. Dim light in the hallway. Every door was closed. Place had a weird vibe. like a horror movie. Like someone was going to jump out of nowhere. invited to "watch a movie." Went straight from her front door to her bedroom. Got to the bedroom and there was no tv! Lulz!
bro wtf? Was it a same day lay? I need to come to your city lol
 

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I have.

2003. Went back with a woman who was beautiful but a bit older (like early 30s).

what she didn’t tell me is we went back to her cousins house because she be married. She be married to a big ass man. After bumping uglies, said man turns up at 2am on the doorstep with her 14 year old kid shouting “look at what you’re doing to this family”

I never knew any of this and I told her to go, felt terrible.

so, as soon as she went, her cousin (who was about my age 23ish) immediately jumps on me and we spend the night f00king.

walked out and that was the last I saw of either of them.
I was with 6 girls in one day once while on vacation in Dominican Republic. (Obviously not for free in case I needed to mention that).
 

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I was with 6 girls in one day once while on vacation in Dominican Republic. (Obviously not for free in case I needed to mention that).
haha, you must have an extremely high sex drive to do that.
 

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haha, you must have an extremely high sex drive to do that.
I was drunk the whole day. Started drinking at noon.

Forgot to mention... It was a threesome, a "twosome", and a foursome.
 

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I was drunk the whole day. Started drinking at noon.

Forgot to mention... It was a threesome, a "twosome", and a foursome.
lol, a freind of mine done that in Amsterdam (banged about 6 hookers in the same day, in between beers and various drugs)
Smoking hot 18 year olds.
 

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lol, a freind of mine done that in Amsterdam (banged about 6 hookers in the same day, in between beers and various drugs)
Smoking hot 18 year olds.
I can't imagine being able to do that with "game," or even by getting involved in a girls "emotional landscape." Lol.
 

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I can't imagine being able to do that with "game," or even by getting involved in a girls "emotional landscape." Lol.
you'd be right lol
Game isn't mind control.
You can't force attraction in a girl with 'NLP' (lol) or negs or any other PUA cope. (but 'game' is useful to help not mess up with girls who tihnk you are handsome or whatever. Not necessarily required though depending on just how hot she thinks you are)
 

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I have.

2003. Went back with a woman who was beautiful but a bit older (like early 30s).

what she didn’t tell me is we went back to her cousins house because she be married. She be married to a big ass man. After bumping uglies, said man turns up at 2am on the doorstep with her 14 year old kid shouting “look at what you’re doing to this family”

I never knew any of this and I told her to go, felt terrible.

so, as soon as she went, her cousin (who was about my age 23ish) immediately jumps on me and we spend the night f00king.

walked out and that was the last I saw of either of them.
Sounds fun
 

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Back to original post, but those numbers don;t sound too outlandish to me. If you're devoting tens of hours to your life each week meeting women - particularly if its your main source of income, business etc. Generally the more you focus and apply yourself to something, the better you get. Couple with being half decent looking, solid 'game', personality, in the right city, I'd imagine its certainly possible.

Particularly if you live in a large city, which attracts high numbers of younger tourists who'll likely be partying - somewhere like Barcelona, which is where I believe @Bigpapa lives. Possibly if based out in certain holiday/party destinations like ibiza, majorca, certain greek islands that attract loads of young drunk women for a few months duriing the summer season. Imagine you could get through a few women each week if you're good at this kind of thing.

If you're living a fairly typical life - working 40 hours a week (outside of pua industry), have other interests outside of women, you'd have to be top tier in something to hit those numbers as your time spent out there would be much lower so you'd need to be closing women quickly, couldn't spam approach. Also would probably be compromising on quality.
Yes I can see that. Spam approaching is the key and being is a party city with a high turnover of women is the other key. Good point bro.
 
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So I am watching this Incel live stream from FACE LMS. He is debating a PUA who claims his ugly PUA partner is smashing 50 girls a YEAR. The PUA claims he smashed 300 to 400 girls in his lifetime of 31 yrs.

I think many of these guys greatly exaggerate how many girls they smash. I have known actual fitness models Chads who were div 1 atheletes and had fitness model contracts. They were doing maybe 5 new girls on a good month and this was not consistent. Even that was incredible. On average it was maybe 3 new girls a month. This is only 36 girls a year.

I know I have better game than most of these PUAs and I have never done anywhere close to 50 in ONE year unless I dont care about the quality of the females looks.

I bet if you were to meet these guys in real life they are good, but they are not as good as they claim. I dont know why they cant keep it real lol.

I think it depends on where all you have lived and how much time and effort you have spent on getting women.
 

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lolol...when did you get this 21 yr old? And where did you find her? Do you live next to a university? The reason I was in college housing was because I was a grad student so I qualified for the housing lol.
Grocery store. Not my first rodeo. Another was from my gym and I just recognized her while out. that is imo the TARGETED DEMOGRAPHIC.

Tbh I think a fair assessment be it pua or red pill, assume everyone is doing a con job until proven otherwise. Much of pickup is trash. A lot of red pill are boomers with busted wives or ugly overweight gfs. The roasts were telling. I can only listen to Troy or Tusk. Rsd is pretty much dead. Aaron Clarey is the only guy in red pill that says what a dumpster fire the smp is.

Nice man. I am always curious if I had to do it over. The Ls are common place just approaching and taking a shot. My ****s are on empty. I essentially give no free attention after an approach. Pull or next. Blow me or blow me out.

I will be honest and say, young blood got their work cut out for them. It was rubbish on my come up. It's a dumpster fire now.
 

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Yes I can see that. Spam approaching is the key and being is a party city with a high turnover of women is the other key. Good point bro.
I think I once coined chaining gunning pickup from Go. <--- path for noobs. High school or freshman college. Then scale back. Calibrate. Don't spend days and nights. Seek competence and then sniper approach a handful of times on the regular.

MM is dated but still has gems. 3sec rule, dhv, preselection, etc among other things. storytelling is underrated but most nattys got this down pat. modern day Robert Munch. I never met a natural who didn't have the gift of gab and storytelling down. million dollar mouth piece.
 

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bro wtf? Was it a same day lay? I need to come to your city lol
Coffee shop cafe. Leicester. did the robbery. Girl was talking to a guy coworker. Clearly into her. Very beta. Soy. Low T.

For context, I cannon balled into chat her up and it was like he wasn't even there. Dude stood their silent and finally left when it was evident she wanted me D in and around her mouth. not a SNL. met in a coffee shop. Crushed at her place.

SHE hits me up via text for a movie. Didn't have a TV in her bedroom. Lulz! Obv still run tight game. Early 20s again. Another college girl invited me in after the club at 2am for COFFEE!

HILARIOUS!

BOTH 6.5/7 range. Young, tight, banging bod.

God bless feminism for teaching women getting ran through is empowering.
 

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I'm sure a lot of it has to do with how much time and energy you're willing to put into it. Doesn't hurt to have low standards, I'm sure.
They talk about having passions, hobbies, and interests here, but the guys I've known who got laid the most really had no other interests other than getting laid. They virtually put ALL of their time into it. They were sizing up every girl they saw, and were very direct. Their next smash was always on their minds.
 

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The number of lays someone has frankly is irrelevant to me, I’m in my 50’s when I’m really juggling things I can easily do 2 quality new lays a month. Quality to me is defined as 30-50 but in athlete shape and a non neurotic personality. Sometimes you uncover gems. Over the years of in person approaches and bouts on Tinder I’ve managed to keep a harem of 5-10 decent quality gals with usually 2-3 I see more than once a week simultaneously.

As I’ve aged I like the mini relationship model, as opposed to the ONS. FNL is still important to me as proof of SMV. At most, if she’s super high quality I’ll expect a second date lay.

I’m nowhere near model quality, I’m in excellent athletic shape, I’m a polyglot, I’m traveled, excellent in the sack and passionate. I have presence and confidence. On a good day I’d say and others too that I’m solid 7.5-8. My backstory is interesting to most chicks regardless of age. And yes I’m a storyteller, which works very well for those who believe in Kino. Engage them emotionally, watch their faces and bodies and the attention your story garners then reach out for the first contact during a heightened moment of engagement. If you are a passionate man, use your hands to talk and are engaging, kino feels natural and expected to

When I started this phase of my life I was more indiscriminate about my lays, but as time has passed I won’t go for anything below 7.5, of course this is subjective as frak but I do t care what other bastards think, if they pass the big we test for me that’s what matters. Age teaches you to have the ZFG attitude.

so, in slay mode 24/year in cruise mode probably 10-12/year- but I have a number of regulars. Unfortunately this requires one to have his wits about himself, or you’ll get busted and potentially lose more than one plate.

in any case what are American so-called PUA’s charging per hour these days? Can anyone give me an average?
 
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