A Guide to Making Interesting Conversation

[SargeMaximus]

and how is telling her about this cool ass story about this one time i fvcked this girl, directly telling her i want to fvck her?

framing me as getting transactional sex, now right?

some advice: the less red pill content you consume, and you just do your own thing (trusting yourself), the better seducer you will become. you will end up giving real advice based on your experience instead of quoting books, blogs and what other red pill guys said.

+1

 

[Velasco]

How do you feel about my question of

its a good simplification but too vague for newer guys. "what do you mean by be a sexual being?" "should i have been bolder there or did i do the right thing?" "was this disrespectful/thristy?" "i treated her like a child but then she ghosted. what did i do wrong?" as they get feedback from legit guys, and then more experience, they will know how to calibrate the 5 things on your list.

 

[Velasco]

@Pan87 there is a receipts thread where you can post your lays. (i know you won't cuz "privacy" "well its not fair to the girl" "i don't want to dox" as you larp about being dark triad player). I'll post mine then we can compare who gets hot women and who doesn't

The Receipts Thread

This might work out, or it might prove a liability. Bit like marriage. This thread is for pictures of girls you've gotten with so everyone can get a reference of each other's tastes and abilities. Reading everyone's reports it's a challenge figuring out what kinda girls y'all be messing with...

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[Young OG]

How do you feel about my question of

@Pan87 @Young OG I'd like your opinions also.

That's a pretty good list. I would also add that you should be on your purpose and that women should be a part of your life, not your entire life.

 

[Kynan]

I’ll try and explain. I found that conversationally I was decent and even got complimented by women I went on dates with or approached at how good of a conversationalist I was. But I wasn’t getting laid with these same girls.

I started to see it the same as “you’re a nice guy, but...” only it was “you’re a great conversationalist, but...”

they never said that, but the results were clear: I was having (supposedly) good conversations but not getting laid.
I then looked to guys I thought were fairly alpha and seemed to be getting girls but I noticed they weren’t taking an active interest in others through conversation or otherwise. So I switched to being more selfish and making getting laid my result, conversation be damned, and that moved things in my favor.

When you were told you were a good conversationalist, how much of the time were you listening as opposed to talking? Were you listening something like 80%? Cause then, yes, that's not going to turn a chick on. Someone telling us things they already know doesn't make anyone feel aroused. In my guide here, I advised listening and sharing equally, which means we talk about ourselves 50% of the time, if not more.

I've found that when I spend half the time learning about them and the other half showing them who I am goes over very well.

You said you became more selfish. What do you mean by that? That you'd hog the entire conversation and not listen at all? Cause I don't see that going over very well.

 

[SargeMaximus]

When you were told you were a good conversationalist, how much of the time were you listening as opposed to talking? Were you listening something like 80%? Cause then, yes, that's not going to turn a chick on. Someone telling us things they already know doesn't make anyone feel aroused. In my guide here, I advised listening and sharing equally, which means we talk about ourselves 50% of the time, if not more.

I've found that when I spend half the time learning about them and the other half showing them who I am goes over very well.

You said you became more selfish. What do you mean by that? That you'd hog the entire conversation and not listen at all? Cause I don't see that going over very well.

I don’t recall. It was exactly as how to win friends and influence people suggested. Listen and talk about them.

nowadays I do more fvcking than talking to these girls. We talk a lot
After sex but by then it doesn’t matter

 

[Kynan]

I don’t recall. It was exactly as how to win friends and influence people suggested. Listen and talk about them.

nowadays I do more fvcking than talking to these girls. We talk a lot
After sex but by then it doesn’t matter

But you have to talk to them before you fvck them, like when you first meet them. So what's your strategy for your conversations here? How do you conduct your chat?

 

[SargeMaximus]

But you have to talk to them before you fvck them, like when you first meet them. So what's your strategy for your conversations here? How do you conduct your chat?

I get direct really quick. Usually ask what they in the app for, then if they seem open I say I’m looking for fwb or sex, then if they go along we make plans to meet

 

[SargeMaximus]

Here is the convo for the 22 year old I fvcked

 

[Kynan]

I get direct really quick. Usually ask what they in the app for, then if they seem open I say I’m looking for fwb or sex, then if they go along we make plans to meet

Ah, so you only meet women online. I'm talking about approaching them in person and talking to create rapport and attraction quickly. Online versus real world are two different ball games.

Do you ever approach women out in public? And if so, what's your strategy then?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Ah, so you only meet women online. I'm talking about approaching them in person and talking to create rapport and attraction quickly. Online versus real world are two different ball games.

Do you ever approach women out in public? And if so, what's your strategy then?

I used to. I approached hundreds, maybe a thousand. I did it for a few years. Never got anywhere. And this was before I decided to go full direct sexual. I just don’t get how to go from conversation to sex. Can’t wrap my head around it. So I do online direct exclusively now.

 

[Kynan]

I used to. I approached hundreds, maybe a thousand. I did it for a few years. Never got anywhere. I just don’t get how to go from conversation to sex. Can’t wrap my head around it.

Maybe this is a good reason not to bash my approach.

So I do online direct exclusively now.

I don't see girls who respond to your direct approach for sex being high quality women. From the text snapshot you posted, she appears to be super easy to agree to something like that. But maybe you just want meaningless sex, and don't care about having quality women in your life. Because I don't see any quality woman responding positively to being asked directly for sex.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Some of us just want to bang. Don't care about their politics, their character, only their bodies.

Agreed. I’m not in this to get married. That said, I would like hotter bodies. I banged an 8 before. She put me through so many questions and I just told her what she wanted to hear. The sex was lousy. If we had just fvcked first we could have both saved a lot of time

 

[Kynan]

Some of us just want to bang. Don't care about their politics, their character, only their bodies.

Agreed. I’m not in this to get married. That said, I would like hotter bodies. I banged an 8 before. She put me through so many questions and I just told her what she wanted to hear. The sex was lousy. If we had just fvcked first we could have both saved a lot of time

I guess to each their own. For me, I just want one quality woman to make a life with. Of course, I have to become a quality man first. I'm not right now.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Bumping this thread, it's really quality advice and more should read it

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This sums it up succinctly

Stumbled across this Science Of People post on "How To Ask Someone Out" and it has some really great tips to help guys who have trouble in person..

Some really great practical advice you can pretty much use any time you are out and about anywhere and want to ask someone out. Highly recommend reading and incorporating some of this. https://www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-ask-someone-out/

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[Kynan]

I felt compelled to bump my own post.

Learning this myself revolutionized my ability to meet people, create connections and make friends, and win love and respect.

 

[member160292]

I guess to each their own. For me, I just want one quality woman to make a life with. Of course, I have to become a quality man first. I'm not right now.

Hey buddy, it's been a year. Would love to hear your progress

 

[Kynan]

Hey buddy, it's been a year. Would love to hear your progress

I've decided to start a "religion" based on my personal findings with experimenting with affirmations, visualization and prayer. It's really just a moral philosophy that recognizes that the intelligence that makes seeds turn into trees, and the right season follow the right season, responds to our requests to manifest our desires, and if we have faith, we will receive guidance and instruction. The link is in my sig.

 

[Kynan]

To those reading this thread, you may also want to check out my "invitation" thread here:

Attention: Socially Awkward Guys Who Want to Transform into Social Butterflies!

I've decided I want to start coaching guys for free on how to become social butterflies who can easily and confidently strike up conversations with strangers and turn them into friends or dates. I am incredible at doing this, as I deliberately invested years and years into discovering how it's...

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