Agree to disagree. I’m just saying you can still overcome approach anxiety and gain calibration by going for getting laid, which is much more effective when you don’t have friendship convos like OP or “how to win friends and influence people” says. But if you want to take the long road that’s up to an individual.Your still not getting it, it isn't about results in the beginning, it is about building, if you build, results will come, without results and you still have the willpower to game, then the second you start getting results, your good... Ask any dude who actually runs day game, results do not come easy until you are able to walk the line of being abrasive enough to not get totally rejected but social enough to not look Creepy.
Looking for results out of the gate is the problem with men today, they are afraid to put the work on without results and your displaying that exact same fear here.