Tinder girl wants to come to my house to smash right now!

[soulforge]

Advice needed.

So I want to keep this chick around as a plate..

When she left my house, she asked me to message her later. However she ended up messaging me first before she got to her house.

Her - Nearly home, last nice was fun I enjoyed it (kiss heart emoji)

Me - Yeh it was good fun, enjoyed it (horny emoji)

Last night after I finished banging her, she did ask me to take her on a proper date.. Maybe that was just the alcohol talking.

Soo do I simply let her make a move & suggest meeting up again? Or do I ask her to come over for a bang again soon?

 

[soulforge]

Really...? How old are you?
2 or 3 hours is about standard for me - but yes, that does include multiple 'rounds' with kissing and oral in between.
I've also found that since getting back into shape these last few yrs, I don't need any 'downtime' in between - which has been a very nice surprise to any women I've been involved with.
Basically, once I'm ready, it stays ready until I either stop and go do something else, or go to sleep (if she's staying over)

Don't know if it's just the way I am now, or if it's a side-effect of a blood-pressure pill I now take - Either way, I ain't complaining - LOL

I've always been good at holding back my orgasm.. Also my cardio is pretty brilliant, so a 3 hour session isn't that tasking for me.

I banger in morning too, before she left.. After just 3 hours sleep

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Your right man.. I did wrap up, however after a few drinks she sucked me off a few times without a condom.

A guy can't get anything too bad from unprotected oral. Nothing that can't be cured easily.

 

[Bigpapa]

Your right man.. I did wrap up, however after a few drinks she sucked me off a few times without a condom.

I got something bad after bj without condom .

not trying to make you scare or something , but if you notice something on the bad boy or hurts when pissing , then go to see a doctor ASAP

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

nearly 40 but never at any age could I go that long. I suppose if you want to impress the girl.

my friend said similar, he was very into being “the perfect lover” type thing but sadly I have to say I’m fairly selfish and definitely couldn’t be bothered.

at my age you can’t go one time after another, need probably at least a couple of hours in between, I think that’s fairly normal for men of my age.

I kind of had the image of penetration lasting 3 hours. That can’t actually be pleasant for either party.

including the full set menu of foreplay etc, then yes, comfortably 45 mins many times, usually prob 30. Rarely beyond an hour.

just find after 10 mins of thrusting, it gets boring and you need to alternate activities. I mean, it’s only one event for guys. Fair play if you’re doing it for the kudos of bringing a girl to multiples, I’ve just never been that interested in being a tantric lover man.

never had a girl tell me it was too quick, I know some guys kind of come very quickly. I never had that problem, for me it’s kind of boredom. I lose interest in it if it isn’t passionate, and just going in and out for an hour at a time is boring. Foreplay can last a long time and I actually enjoy it.

most women I’ve been with come within about 10 mins or oral anyway, so I just don’t see how massively long sex sessionsimprove the experience.

another point - if 2-3 hours is average, that’s almost half a day in work! How on Earth can you fit that around your life?

I don’t get 2-3 hours to myself on a weekday. Only a weekend. That means if you start at 6pm you’re done at 9? That seems a bit weird to be honest.

first time with a girl maybe when it’s new, surely that can’t be right if you’re doing it 3 times a week? That’s more than a working day having sex.

Any guy these days can use pills and sprays so they last as long as they want...

But I agree that it's BORING after 10-15 minutes and I think many girls agree.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

how in Christ’s name can you have sex for 3 hours? I presume you mean this includes time for foreplay and multiple fvcks?

15 minutes actual banging is probably my record lol. Same as guys above, it gets boring unless it’s at some kind of pace. I’d definitely lose my boner if it went on that long lol

congrats by the way. You may feel dirty but I bet you are glad it happened. You will now walk around today with that little glow we always get from a new conquest, not that my married a$$ can really remember it

I do that pretty regularly... I have gotten to the point where I have trained my body not to Cvm quickly and once you get past a certain point and don't Cvm it becomes really hard for you to blow a load and you can go for a long time...

Obviously there are short breaks in there from time to time and that probably includes 2 or 3 loads blown...

It leaves women stunned for the most part...they are like "How can you last so long???" But when they tell you how sore they are the next morning I take it as a win... that's called beating the pvssy up haha

 

[BackInTheGame78]

hiw do you hold an erection for 3 hours. I don’t think that’s possible without at least some moments of droop. Even when I was 16 that wpukd happen occasionally.

Yeah it goes down for a while here and there and I need to take breaks because I fvck pretty hard and it doubles as a workout for me haha...

I'd say there might be 3 or 4 minute breaks a few times an hour

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I do that pretty regularly... I have gotten to the point where I have trained my body not to Cvm quickly and once you get past a certain point and don't Cvm it becomes really hard for you to blow a load and you can go for a long time...

Obviously there are short breaks in there from time to time and that probably includes 2 or 3 loads blown...

It leaves women stunned for the most part...they are like "How can you last so long???" But when they tell you how sore they are the next morning I take it as a win... that's called beating the pvssy up haha

If I know I'm not going to cvm quickly (or at all) from sex, I'll prefer to be finished with mouth, or even a hand, than to sit there pounding for eternity

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If I know I'm not going to cvm quickly (or at all) from sex, I'll prefer to be finished with mouth, or even a hand, than to sit there pounding for eternity

Not me...I want to punish her and get first place on her best fvck of my life list

 

[soulforge]

So who reaches out to who for round two?

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Not me...I want to punish her and get first place on her best fvck of my life list

I used to think that way. Now I don't care.

 

[9-3enthusiast]

.......at my age you can’t go one time after another, need probably at least a couple of hours in between, I think that’s fairly normal for men of my age.

......I know some guys kind of come very quickly. I never had that problem, for me it’s kind of boredom. I lose interest in it if it isn’t passionate, and just going in and out for an hour at a time is boring. Foreplay can last a long time and I actually enjoy it.

another point - if 2-3 hours is average, that’s almost half a day in work! How on Earth can you fit that around your life?

When I was married, and working 9-5, then yes, sex didn't last anywhere near as long as it does now.
But being single now, and only really having one 'plate' (I hate that word) on the go at any one time, it happens much less frequently.
Weeks sometimes go by between one woman and the next, and thanks to Covid there's been a couple of dry spells that lasted a few months.
When I'm seeing a woman, it usually averages a couple of times a week - so spending more time on each occasion isn't really a time drain on my daily life.
I'm a photographer now, so my working hours aren't a problem - Some days I'll be working all day long (Shooting/processing/organising/uploading/etc) - some days only a couple of hours, but most weeks I'll have at least half the week to myself.

As far as erections go - that blood-pressure pill I mentioned, is a calcium channel inhibitor, it works by relaxing blood vessels so blood can flow easier - very similar to the way ED pills work.
Not as dramatic as the likes of Viagra, but it does mean that as long as I'm aroused, the guy down below will stay interested - so I can go multiple times over a longer session.
Certainly not hammering away for extended time periods - but because it doesn't subside straight after finishing.... a little bit of oral etc. and we can easily be 'on-and-off' for 2 or more hours... constantly switching positions to avoid it getting monotonous.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

So who reaches out to who for round two?

My advice (and this is just my opinion)...

If you actually definitely want to have round 2 (and presumably 3, 4, 5, etc.)...

At first, wait to see if she reaches out (within first week or so). Only after that first week should you reach out if she doesn't first.

My reasoning... Don't contact her right away because she may feel you'll be clingy cause she gave you some pu$$y... So avoid her thinking that. But after 1 week, if she doesn't contact, then it may be because she's wanting to know if it even "mattered" or "meant anything" to you. So that's why it's up to you.

I could be wrong, so take my advice with a grain of salt.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Ive penetrated for 3 hours before. Only stopping we did was to change positions. It’s my record. Also done several 2 hours before too. But it’s rare. Usually 30
Mins

 

[bat soup]

Your right man.. I did wrap up, however after a few drinks she sucked me off a few times without a condom.

Maybe she was just thirsty.

 

[9-3enthusiast]

It leaves women stunned for the most part...they are like "How can you last so long???" But when they tell you how sore they are the next morning I take it as a win... that's called beating the pvssy up haha

LOL - yeah.
I've had quite a bit of 'repeat-business' from friends/etc. after a woman has told others.

One that I heard was telling friends etc.... I saw her in a pub a few weeks later in a group of 4, one of them basically came after me that night... (I let her catch me) - Turned out it was the other one's aunt.

 

[SargeMaximus]

LOL - yeah.
I've had quite a bit of 'repeat-business' from friends/etc. after a woman has told others.

One that I heard was telling friends etc.... I saw her in a pub a few weeks later in a group of 4, one of them basically came after me that night... (I let her catch me) - Turned out it was the other one's aunt.

I’ve never had this. I always feel like
Women are keeping me a secret for themselves

 

[9-3enthusiast]

I’ve never had this. I always feel like
Women are keeping me a secret for themselves

Well they'll rarely tell YOU - but they do talk among themselves - and when a friend of a previous woman makes it easy for you..... You know they've talked.

Also - after I divorced, my daughter's circle of friends became a good source of quite a lot of 'fun'.
I would see them socially, and I already knew who were the single ones, and the 'easy' ones - LOL. They mostly knew each other, so I know for sure that notes were being compared....
The aunt and niece I mentioned came from that source - The niece was at my daughter's birthday BBQ a couple of summers ago, we got to chatting (and flirting) then I gave her a lift home and was asked in 'for coffee'
The aunt was only 6 yrs older (mid 40s) and if anything, a little better looking than the niece.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Well they'll rarely tell YOU - but they do talk among themselves - and when a friend of a previous woman makes it easy for you..... You know they've talked.

Also - after I divorced, my daughter's circle of friends became a good source of quite a lot of 'fun'.
I would see them socially, and I already knew who were the single ones, and the 'easy' ones - LOL. They mostly knew each other, so I know for sure that notes were being compared....
The aunt and niece I mentioned came from that source - The niece was at my daughter's birthday BBQ a couple of summers ago, we got to chatting (and flirting) then I gave her a lift home and was asked in 'for coffee'
The aunt was only 6 yrs older (mid 40s) and if anything, a little better looking than the niece.

Wow. Yeah I never experienced that. Even when I was living with a poly girl who preferred to fvck me
Over her husband. She had a hot sister who was with a guy who couldn’t last a minute let alone the hours me and poly girl did. I was always hoping the sister would look me up but she never did. Strange

 

[soulforge]

My advice (and this is just my opinion)...

If you actually definitely want to have round 2 (and presumably 3, 4, 5, etc.)...

At first, wait to see if she reaches out (within first week or so). Only after that first week should you reach out if she doesn't first.

My reasoning... Don't contact her right away because she may feel you'll be clingy cause she gave you some pu$$y... So avoid her thinking that. But after 1 week, if she doesn't contact, then it may be because she's wanting to know if it even "mattered" or "meant anything" to you. So that's why it's up to you.

I could be wrong, so take my advice with a grain of salt.

When she left my house this morning and got in her car, she asked me to message her, I said I would do.

However on her way home she messaged me first..

Her - I enjoyed last night, it was fun (kiss heart enoji)

Me - Yeh It was good fun (horny devil emoji)


Also last night she asked me when I was going to take her on a proper date.. I reckon she was quite drunk, so could have just been talking nonsense.

So does the fact that she asked me to text her, but then ended up texting me first, change the dynamics?

I reckon this girl makes good plate material.. She knows it is only sex I am after & she feels the same way.