Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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...Just like there's no way to trick a man into thinking a fat woman is attractive. This is why the "Big is Beautiful" movement failed miserably....
Fat women could be attractive depending on how they are proportioned and if its an asset type of fat. People pay money to visit escorts that are fat, so if guys are willing to pay up to even $ 200 for a time with a woman like that, then that's really not factually correct (now I'm assuming that guys are doing that because they have a fat fetish, or expect less attitude and better service, etc...). A woman's SMV can't go lower than the lowest guys's SMV.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fat women could be attractive depending on how they are proportioned and if its an asset type of fat. People pay money to visit escorts that are fat, so if guys are willing to pay up to even $ 200 for a time with a woman like that, then that's really not factually correct (now I'm assuming that guys are doing that because they have a fat fetish, or expect less attitude and better service, etc...). A woman's SMV can't go lower than the lowest guys's SMV.
No.
 

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Fat women could be attractive depending on how they are proportioned and if its an asset type of fat. People pay money to visit escorts that are fat, so if guys are willing to pay up to even $ 200 for a time with a woman like that, then that's really not factually correct (now I'm assuming that guys are doing that because they have a fat fetish, or expect less attitude and better service, etc...). A woman's SMV can't go lower than the lowest guys's SMV.
Yo my man, please stop making a habit of playing Devil's Advocate. You get my point: there's no way to manipulate the vast majority of men into finding fat women attractive because attraction is a primal instinct....

Of course, there will always be a minority of men whom are into heavy girls just like there are a minority of men who are into grannies... but these men don't represent the vast majority.
 

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What does no mean if a question wasn't asked? You disagree with the fact I just presented or are you alarmed and saying a horrific no of the reality of how simpery has decended?
I disagree with your theory that fat women are attractive.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I disagree with your theory that fat women are attractive.
You disagree with a fact that I presented? Then you should go on escort sites and look at the ads in Toronto (cause I can't speak of other jurisdictions) and then you'll see plenty of chubby and fat escorts charging upwards of $ 200 and up with their own reviews. They even have categories for them such as "candy" in listcrawlers and obviously you can put BBW OR SBBW on a search category from leolist and they'll come up. See that proves my theory that men will pay for the company of grotesquely fat woman because they have a fetish or perceive they will have more service and less attitude especially if the guy is decent looking.

Remember, the escort catalogue is out of a choice of women. There are not just fat women escorting in Toronto, but all races, shapes and sizes across the board. So for fat escorts like that to be in business means they are attractive enough that it's profitable enough for them to be there. Otherwise, you would think that nobody would pay to be with a fat woman and they should always be a free last resort if someone is having a bad night and wants to lower his standards to get laid.
 

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You disagree with a fact that I presented? Then you should go on escort sites and look at the ads in Toronto (cause I can't speak of other jurisdictions) and then you'll see plenty of chubby and fat escorts charging upwards of $ 200 and up with their own reviews. They even have categories for them such as "candy" in listcrawlers and obviously you can put BBW OR SBBW on a search category from leolist and they'll come up. See that proves my theory that men will pay for the company of grotesquely fat woman because they have a fetish or perceive they will have more service and less attitude especially if the guy is decent looking.

Remember, the escort catalogue is out of a choice of women. There are not just fat women escorting in Toronto, but all races, shapes and sizes across the board. So for fat escorts like that to be in business means they are attractive enough that it's profitable enough for them to be there. Otherwise, you would think that nobody would pay to be with a fat woman and they should always be a free last resort if someone is having a bad night and wants to lower his standards to get laid.
Why would I care what other people find attractive? I would be the one fvcking them not someone else. Better for me...less competition for women who value staying in shape and looking their best.
 

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Why would I care what other people find attractive? I would be the one fvcking them not someone else. Better for me...less competition for women who value staying in shape and looking their best.
What are you talking about? I was referencing an escort site to make a point. There is no competition on escort sites so everyone going on there has a choice of who they want to engage with, skinny, fat, tall short, etc... you can see a skinny girl and a fat one the same day or in some cases, both together.

The bigger point is that if guys are paying for fat women and they are getting laid then it knocks down two myths that people have about incels. Their standards are too high and if they lower their standards they'll get laid. Secondly, it's underestimating how high women's SMVs where even guys are willing to pay for fat woman, pay for ONLYFANS so women are making six figure incomes, and that in turn will eventually price you out of the market as well in the next five years. There are more guys "priced out" now then there was five or ten years ago and that trend will probably continue.
 

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What are you talking about? I was referencing an escort site to make a point. There is no competition on escort sites so everyone going on there has a choice of who they want to engage with, skinny, fat, tall short, etc... you can see a skinny girl and a fat one the same day or in some cases, both together.

The bigger point is that if guys are paying for fat women and they are getting laid then it knocks down two myths that people have about incels. Their standards are too high and if they lower their standards they'll get laid. Secondly, it's underestimating how high women's SMVs where even guys are willing to pay for fat woman, pay for ONLYFANS so women are making six figure incomes, and that in turn will eventually price you out of the market as well in the next five years. There are more guys "priced out" now then there was five or ten years ago and that trend will probably continue.
You are talking nonsense.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is true. The idea is to get up out of anger as quickly as possible as it is the first level where a person becomes actionable but still the lowest of the actionable levels.
It is true that if a man can't control his anger, then he is worth less then a dog.

However moderate anger is the source of life and also a milestone for a man to reach his objectives.

If annoyance is the key to development, then anger is the driving force.

It all depends on the mindset and thus it's intentions.
 
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