I think I am emitting vibes that make fatties comfortable hitting on me while 6-7 smv females don't. I am 5ft6 154lbs. Been lifting for a couple years. I am like 10lbs overweight. I should not be having just fatties hit on me. I am thinking screw it and get with them so I can start emitting better vibes to more attractive women.
Most guys don't get hit on much. In 20+ years in the mating environment, I've been approached by women in real life ~5 times. Once when I was 21, a 45 year old who had grandchildren hit on me. Female approachers don't tend to be the 6-7 range, which are cute but not spectacular looking females. The 6-7 range gets approached a ton by men so they don't feel the need to approach men.
@sangheilios is a 6'4" muscular guy who has had fatties hit on him.
Women hitting on you isn't a valuable indicator.
I've got 18 rejections and one date with a rejection after the fact. It comforts me knowing that those 19 females will probably be screaming "where are all the good men at???" when they are 32. Their egos are so inflated that they think they can ride the **** carousel forever. The wall is coming at them hard and fast! Men don't have to worry about the wall until what, 55? When men gray it looks distinguished, when women gray it looks haggard.
You might be right about those 19 females. "One date, no sex, no second date" instances are common. That most frequently occurs from website or swipe app generated dates. The idea behind doing approaches in person is to get a sense of the in-person dynamic before offering an extended date where you'll have to pay for her alcoholic drinks or the activity. The idea is to go on fewer dates but more high quality dates that lead to something beyond "one date, no sex, no second date". Ideally, these dates lead to extended relationships of 6 months or longer.
One of the best looking women at my high school had grey streaks in her hair before her 35th birthday. She had a ring and babies by then.
The wall for most women is softer than we think. A typical childless 35 year old has a long queue of potential matches on a swipe app if she uses one. She's getting DMs for dates/sex on some combination of Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. She might even be getting some real life approaches.
The wall for most men is harder than we think. Most men in their 30s and 40s fail to attract women substantially younger than they are. Most 30s/40s men are scavenging through low quality options looking for extended relationships that they hope will give them vag. While it's good to stay in shape in your 30s, 40s, and early 50s, it is mostly unrealistic to expect to be a 50 year old man with a 25-30 year old girlfriend. As a 35 year old man, I didn't see women close to my age (32-35) clamoring to get with me any more than when I was 25 and dealing with 22-25 year olds. 32-37 year old women have more options than we think they do.