Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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UPDATE: Broke things with gf trying to make me Jealous, now she's emailing me saying she's still in love with me.

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Thank you for all the help from my last post. Took the advice and blocked her and now I'm getting emails and declarations of love.

For those asking why I didn't turn her into a plate, I just wanted her out. Weak? Maybe. But I'm learning.

Onto greener pastures gentlemen.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Would have been simpler had you continued on with the original thread. I'm not searching. But it sounds like the outcome was a positive.
 
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It's good that you did so. Her behaviour was awful and I'm sure that she would bring you a lot of problems in the future. Like I said in the previous post, there are certain women that likes some certain behaviour on men. There are women that loves the "jealous Macho". This is a particularly weak position to be, because if you ever get out of your center (in this case, this false center, since being a jealous Macho is already enough proof that you are out of your male center) she will cheat on you. It would be constant testing, you'd need to sleep with one eye open.

No man wants that. You did a good choice.
 
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deadmasterx said:
It's good that you did so. Her behaviour was awful and I'm sure that she would bring you a lot of problems in the future. Like I said in the previous post, there are certain women that likes some certain behaviour on men. There are women that loves the "jealous Macho". This is a particularly weak position to be, because if you ever get out of your center (in this case, this false center, since being a jealous Macho is already enough proof that you are out of your male center) she will cheat on you. It would be constant testing, you'd need to sleep with one eye open.

No man wants that. You did a good choice.
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Thanks man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lookatu said:
Who the fvck still uses emails at that age? Besides work, I don't even know when the last time I used email for personal reasons was. lol
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No idea how she even got my email. I sure as hell did not give it to her.
 
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BackInTheGame78 said:
Not really...you would be surprised what a good google search can pull up
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True. I mean I do the same $hit and do a background and photo check on a lot of my dates. It's interesting to know what their place looks like before they even invite me over. LOL :rofl:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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