"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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UPDATE: Broke things with gf trying to make me Jealous, now she's emailing me saying she's still in love with me.

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Thank you for all the help from my last post. Took the advice and blocked her and now I'm getting emails and declarations of love.

For those asking why I didn't turn her into a plate, I just wanted her out. Weak? Maybe. But I'm learning.

Onto greener pastures gentlemen.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Would have been simpler had you continued on with the original thread. I'm not searching. But it sounds like the outcome was a positive.
 
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It's good that you did so. Her behaviour was awful and I'm sure that she would bring you a lot of problems in the future. Like I said in the previous post, there are certain women that likes some certain behaviour on men. There are women that loves the "jealous Macho". This is a particularly weak position to be, because if you ever get out of your center (in this case, this false center, since being a jealous Macho is already enough proof that you are out of your male center) she will cheat on you. It would be constant testing, you'd need to sleep with one eye open.

No man wants that. You did a good choice.
 
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deadmasterx said:
It's good that you did so. Her behaviour was awful and I'm sure that she would bring you a lot of problems in the future. Like I said in the previous post, there are certain women that likes some certain behaviour on men. There are women that loves the "jealous Macho". This is a particularly weak position to be, because if you ever get out of your center (in this case, this false center, since being a jealous Macho is already enough proof that you are out of your male center) she will cheat on you. It would be constant testing, you'd need to sleep with one eye open.

No man wants that. You did a good choice.
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Thanks man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lookatu said:
Who the fvck still uses emails at that age? Besides work, I don't even know when the last time I used email for personal reasons was. lol
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No idea how she even got my email. I sure as hell did not give it to her.
 
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BackInTheGame78 said:
Not really...you would be surprised what a good google search can pull up
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True. I mean I do the same $hit and do a background and photo check on a lot of my dates. It's interesting to know what their place looks like before they even invite me over. LOL :rofl:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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