How often does an average looking woman get approached by men looking for a relationship or sex?

[Josh Davidson]

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[firstbornunicorn]

Are you sure you want to know? It hits you like a freight train.

 

[Josh Davidson]

@firstbornunicorn Yes. I'm positive I want to know!

 

[characternote]

Firstly, I think it massively depends on location. Literally everything under the umbrella of 'game' seems to be effected so much by it.

But in general, I guess 'online', the answer is literally non-stop. If she has an insta she'll get dm'd most days, and tinder she will match with 100% of the guys she swipes on

But 'in person', I think it's way less common than people think. At least where i live in the UK. When I first got into cold approach I had convo's about this with both the actual girls I was hitting on and also female friends etc and it literally almost never happened to them that a random guy would walk up too her and start a convo/hit on her. Even in bars it was somewhat rare!!! The closest too an 'approach' most girls could relate too would be a random guy grinding up behind her on the dancefloor in a club. It simply doesn't really seem to happen here

Reddit used to tell me that this was a good thing and that in approaching i'd stand out of the pack in a positive way, but honestly, I'd much rather approach in a culture where it's more normalised like the US. Otherwise It often almost felt like your value was instantly knocked down a few pegs as you were now a guy doing something that some hot 19 year old Brit girl thinks of as unusual since it hasn't ever happened to her lol. 'Normal' would be a handsome dude sliding into her DM's

 

[Josh Davidson]

That's interesting. I would have thought it to be many times a day.

 

[SirBigBell]

That's interesting. I would have thought it to be many times a day.

Approaches are one thing and choosing signals are another.
Most women dont get approached everyday but they get many choosing signals from men who are too scared to approach. A stare, a smile, a nod, a wolf whistle, a shout from inside a moving car, that sort of thing.

 

[logicallefty]

Approaches are one thing and choosing signals are another.
Most women dont get approached everyday but they get many choosing signals from men who are too scared to approach. A stare, a smile, a nod, a wolf whistle, a shout from inside a moving car, that sort of thing.

Approached per se? I agree with the above 100%.

That being said, what I have seen happen many zillion times is that women will be trying to take care of business or do something in a public place and they get treated differently by men who interact with them in the course of what's going on. For example, a hot woman in a grocery store might ask a male employee "Where is the frozen pizza isle?" Rather than the dude just say "Isle 6, left side", the guy will walk her there. Stare at her with bug eyes the whole time. Tell her how much he likes pizza too. If another coworker comes up he might nit pick the coworker in order to try and impress her.. All of this rather than just say "Isle 6, left side", like he would have to a male customer or fugly woman.

 

[SirBigBell]

Approached per se? I agree with the above 100%.

That being said, what I have seen happen many zillion times is that women will be trying to take care of business or do something in a public place and they get treated differently by men who interact with them in the course of what's going on. For example, a hot woman in a grocery store might ask a male employee "Where is the frozen pizza isle?" Rather than the dude just say "Isle 6, left side", the guy will walk her there. Stare at her with bug eyes the whole time. Tell her how much he likes pizza too. If another coworker comes up he might nit pick the coworker in order to try and impress her.. All of this rather than just say "Isle 6, left side", like he would have to a male customer or fugly woman.

You’re absolutely correct.
Thats pvssy power in action right there.
Power of any kind is very difficult to give up once tasted. Thats why dictators hang on to it by any means necessary. Women too enjoy maximum pvssy power from the age of around 16 to about 30. With that power they can get men to do anything they want:
-Being walked to the pizza isle,
-being given a man’s jacket on a cold night,
-men buying them drinks in the club,
-some men even pay their household bills,

From the age of 30 however, that pvssy power starts to wane each year as the aging process wears their beauty down. Losing this power is painful, thats why many start having cosmetic procedures and hating on younger and fresher-looking women.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I have a female family friend since childhood. She is a solid 7 & fit. She made an OkCupid profile in 2018. In NYC Metro (online dating Mecca), she got over 200 messages in her first 24 hours on the app.

 

[RickTheToad]

Approached per se? I agree with the above 100%.

That being said, what I have seen happen many zillion times is that women will be trying to take care of business or do something in a public place and they get treated differently by men who interact with them in the course of what's going on. For example, a hot woman in a grocery store might ask a male employee "Where is the frozen pizza isle?" Rather than the dude just say "Isle 6, left side", the guy will walk her there. Stare at her with bug eyes the whole time. Tell her how much he likes pizza too. If another coworker comes up he might nit pick the coworker in order to try and impress her.. All of this rather than just say "Isle 6, left side", like he would have to a male customer or fugly woman.

I think you're over generalizing a bit. I've done this countless times. Dudes and females show me rather than just tell me.

 

[logicallefty]

I think you're over generalizing a bit. I've done this countless times. Dudes and females show me rather than just tell me.

Yeah but they don’t stare at your tits with bug eyes and a stiffie.

 

[RickTheToad]

Yeah but they don’t stare at your tits with bug eyes and a stiffie.

Pecks, not tits.

 

[Bandolero]

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