“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Any 5ft8 Guys Doing Well With Woman?

soulforge

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I know having some height is definitely an advantage.. However we have to make the best of what the creator has given us.

I am 5ft8 in height, jacked up muscular & with a nicely shaped beard.. I dress sharp too.


Other men often refer to me as "Big Man" even though realisticly I am not that big 5ft8.. However the muscular frame definitely adds to the image.

I seem to do better with females in person rather than online.. Females tend to pick up on that masculine energy around me, I carry myself in a very confident & sure way.

However there will definitely be a group of woman who will write me off simply based on my height.

I would like to hear from other 5ft7 5ft8 5ft9 guys, how are you doing with the ladies?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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I know having some height is definitely an advantage.. However we have to make the best of what the creator has given us.

I am 5ft8 in height, jacked up muscular & with a nicely shaped beard.. I dress sharp too.


Other men often refer to me as "Big Man" even though realisticly I am not that big 5ft8.. However the muscular frame definitely adds to the image.

I seem to do better with females in person rather than online.. Females tend to pick up on that masculine energy around me, I carry myself in a very confident & sure way.

However there will definitely be a group of woman who will write me off simply based on my height.

I would like to hear from other 5ft7 5ft8 5ft9 guys, how are you doing with the ladies?
im 5 foot 9 and im doing pretty well , i think my strong points is decent looking face, my beard is really starting to come in , i have tattoos and i dress pretty well , that has helped me out alot, also my attitude about height is that i dont care about it.
2 more things body composition and preselection will push you even further up the latter
cheers mate
 

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I'm a hair under 5'7 and I definitely tend to avoid women taller than me. That ends up being a lot of women even here in south Italy where some women are tiny. Women wear heels too which means most of them end up being taller than me. All my friends are much taller than me and I avoid group photos as a result, even standing on tiptoes sometimes to gain an inch or two for a photo. I brush my hair upwards to appear a bit taller but I don't bother with trick insoles or anything like that.

My shoe size is larger than many of my taller friends (US size 12) and I can win most shoving matches despite being out of shape. My shortness is a result of being stocky. I also haven't met a good looking woman I couldn't easily lift off her feet and carry around, however tall she is.
 

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I'm a hair under 5'7 and I definitely tend to avoid women taller than me. That ends up being a lot of women even here in south Italy where some women are tiny. Women wear heels too which means most of them end up being taller than me. All my friends are much taller than me and I avoid group photos as a result, even standing on tiptoes sometimes to gain an inch or two for a photo. I brush my hair upwards to appear a bit taller but I don't bother with trick insoles or anything like that.

My shoe size is larger than many of my taller friends (US size 12) and I can win most shoving matches despite being out of shape. My shortness is a result of being stocky. I also haven't met a good looking woman I couldn't easily lift off her feet and carry around, however tall she is.
respect from me for not fockin with the trick insoles , i think it would just make you feel worse , plus cant wear em forever.
the fact you're strong i would think makes up for the height.
bet those chicks in italy are FIRE tho
 

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They're all about social proof here, and they're big on style. Style starts with fitness, so that's my first port of call.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah I am doing good and have been for about 5 years now. Longest dry spell in that time is about 3 weeks or so. My biggest strength is getting women out in person after meeting online. I am money in that department. Almost no flakes and I get a lot of numbers. I succeed through volume. I wouldn't say I am hugely successful in person...maybe bang 1 out of every 6 or 7 women I meet. Part of that is me not being ultra good looking(I am not bad looking snd have a nice build, just not what I would consider really good looking), part of that is me probably not being as good as I could be in person. Always trying to improve in that area.

However, I keep my pipeline full which helps to ensure a steady stream of new prospects.
 
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5'9 here, yeah we might have to work harder compared to a 6'5 guy but we can still get really good results.

I've even dated a woman that was 5'11 before, she did not care at all even when she wore heals.
have a friend he is 5 11 , and his gf is 6 and quite good looking overall ( great body + nice face )

I would not say that being under 6 is necessary a big barrier , but for sure the closer you are to 5 than to 6 , the more it will matter
 

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I think about 50% of women write me off immediately due to height. Luckily, those are not necessarily the most attractive 50% by any means. With the other 50% I do fine, I have longer dry spells if I keep standards but the women I date are mostly attractive. I usually date women close in height to me, not short women.
How tall are you? Are you jacked?
 

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Yeah I am doing good and have been for about 5 years now. Longest dry spell in that time is about 3 weeks or so. My biggest strength is getting women out in person after meeting online. I am money in that department. Almost no flakes and I get a lot of numbers. I succeed through volume. I wouldn't say I am hugely successful in person...maybe bang 1 out of every 6 or 7 women I meet. Part of that is me not being ultra good looking(I am not bad looking snd have a nice build, just not what I would consider really good looking), part of that is me probably not being as good as I could be in person. Always trying to improve in that area.

However, I keep my pipeline full which helps to ensure a steady stream of new prospects.
How do you manage to get that many meets online if your not that attractive in the face?
 

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5'9 here, yeah we might have to work harder compared to a 6'5 guy but we can still get really good results.

I've even dated a woman that was 5'11 before, she did not care at all even when she wore heals.
Yeh I was fukin a 5'11 girl too for around a year
 

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I’m 5’7 170. I have a friendly handsome face and strong fit physique. Height hasn’t been much of an issue. However, I lately avoid women taller than me mostly because it feels awkward on my end. I’m more ectomorphic than stocky so it really doesn’t look or feel good when she is taller. I have banged a few 6 footers in my life but I’m looking for long term compatibility rather than hookups.
 

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Let's say you are 5' 11 but skinny or just chubby... Compared to 5' 8 but jacked muscular, who has the advantage with chicks?? Both have good game.
 

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It might surprise some people to know that the slayer friend of mine who i've mentioned the most (I have 2, but the one i've mentioned many times in my FR's) is actually on the short side. I think he's about 5ft 8. I just think he's facially handsome enough that it's not an issue. I think there's a cut off point where his good looks wouldn't save him, though. Probably under 5'7'' at a guess. At that point I think he wouldn't get the outrageous success he has lol

(I think I even shared the FR here once where a group of hot Eastern European girls were basically trying to rape him, and they were all a fair bit taller haha)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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Oh, here we go with another height thread! I'm 6 feet and don't have women throwing themselves at me! Stop whining about your slightly below average height.....you are not 5'2!
My post is actually rather positive.. My height & muscular frame combined are actually working from me in regards to woman. I am doing quite well.

So do tell me where I am whining in my post? The only person coming across angry & emotionally triggered right now is... YOU!!
 

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I have a friend who is about 5'7" I think..... Korean.... with a really think accent, he's in good shape a blackbelt in TKD, which is how we met. But he isn't buff... just fit. He does great with women. He just owns it and doesn't let it stop him.

I've told this story before when he and I were at a party and he was hitting on this tall attractive chick. Man... she said right there in front of the group we were with "I don't like Asian guys because they are too small... if you know what I mean." Without missing a beat, or showing any shock or upset or anything her just looked right at her and said. "Small c0cks are great, I'm not going to beat up your cervix, much easier to fit in your mouth, and since I'm Asian I eat lots of ginger which makes the cvm taste great, or so I am told." And then he just kept going... ignoring what happened and kept running his game.

It was hilarious... he totally caught her off guard, she spanked him down, and it don't phase him at all.

BTW... he went home with her.
 

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Let's say you are 5' 11 but skinny or just chubby... Compared to 5' 8 but jacked muscular, who has the advantage with chicks?? Both have good game.
Whichever one SHE finds the most attractive. Women have different taste, there is no set standard answer. Beauty is subjective/in the eye of the beholder.
 
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