The if you can does it for meWhy are you strongly sure the other guy is in a relationship?
The if you can does it for meWhy are you strongly sure the other guy is in a relationship?
"If you can find out?"The if you can does it for me
If the other guy is free to meet with her. Doesn't have to be a woman holding him up. She could be submissive towards him, which would automatically lead to her being cautious about his time."If you can find out?"
She respects that guy while disdain for her husband grows.If the other guy is free to meet with her. Doesn't have to be a woman holding him up. She could be submissive towards him, which would automatically lead to her being cautious about his time.
It's probable that's the case.She respects that guy while disdain for her husband groups.
How do u do that?"If you can find out?"
Very normal in the situations. Other guy more selfish and worried about his time and himself. Has time for fun only. Husband becomes needy yearning for her. They argue about old stuff. He tries to force it to be right which makes her try to cling onto other guy. After a few months other guy pulls back cause she thinks shes needy.It's probable that's the case.
She can respect other guy more because he respects and cares about himself. Were husband is worried more about her.Very normal in the situations. Other guy more selfish and worried about his time and himself. Has time for fun only. Husband becomes needy yearning for her. They argue about old stuff. He tries to force it to be right which makes her try to cling onto other guy. After a few months other guy pulls back cause she thinks shes needy.
Add to that the fact that most guys don't want to be entangled in this kind of situation; married woman with two children. This screams baggage man. Some guys get off on it, but most normal humans don't want this in their lives. This, in some degree, emulates a fake abundance mindset. Because he doesn't want to spend too much time f*cking around with her due to her family, he seems like he's too busy.Very normal in the situations. Other guy more selfish and worried about his time and himself. Has time for fun only. Husband becomes needy yearning for her. They argue about old stuff. He tries to force it to be right which makes her try to cling onto other guy. After a few months other guy pulls back cause she thinks shes needy.
there are many good and bad ones but to be honest the only thing thats gonna keep her ''good'' is if she feels like you are a step or 2 above herYeh. Im working on it... i know there has to be an honest girl out there....or do they all cheat and lie
That sounds like my situation... lolVery normal in the situations. Other guy more selfish and worried about his time and himself. Has time for fun only. Husband becomes needy yearning for her. They argue about old stuff. He tries to force it to be right which makes her try to cling onto other guy. After a few months other guy pulls back cause she thinks shes needy.
You'd literally have to be MORE selfish than those guys, respecting your time, energy and resources even more. AND have a rich life outside of her. It's a tough situation, which has a low success rate, because the men haven't been disciplined enough to detach, and stop desiring/stop helping her. And to start living strong outside of her. Plus it's a low rate of success situation anyways, it's more profitable and much more SANE to get the hell outta there when she's not interested enough.That sounds like my situation... lol
That is true. Im trying to figure out what is going on. Wondering why i get attitude from her. And the whole time... shes had a side squeeze. She didnt want to work on anythinh with me bc she didnt want to get fixed. It doesnt matter to her. As long as she has the other guy there. Now... shes started being sweet the last week or so... very sweet and attentive... indidnt realize how mean she had been until she started being sweet and affectionate.She can respect other guy more because he respects and cares about himself. Were husband is worried more about her.
Yeh. With kids in the mix... it makes it difficult...You'd literally have to be MORE selfish than those guys, respecting your time, energy and resources even more. AND have a rich life outside of her. It's a tough situation, which has a low success rate, because the men haven't been disciplined enough to detach, and stop desiring/stop helping her. And to start living strong outside of her. Plus it's a low rate of success situation anyways, it's more profitable and much more SANE to get the hell outta there when she's not interested enough.
Your still not there. You have to be man enough to not want anyones scraps or second affections. This is a tough situation that men would PAY for an optimal solution, and it's not going to be completely positive, you will have to take some hurtful negative actions to get there, still no guarantees.That is true. Im trying to figure out what is going on. Wondering why i get attitude from her. And the whole time... shes had a side squeeze. She didnt want to work on anythinh with me bc she didnt want to get fixed. It doesnt matter to her. As long as she has the other guy there. Now... shes started being sweet the last week or so... very sweet and attentive... indidnt realize how mean she had been until she started being sweet and affectionate.
U reco divorce?Your still not there. You have to be man enough to not want anyones scraps or second affections. This is a tough situation that men would PAY for an optimal solution, and it's not going to be completely positive, you will have to take some hurtful negative actions to get there, still no guarantees.
Very wise in your situation to divorce. To "flip" your situation is incredibly hard, but it will make you a stronger incredibly disciplined man. You have to get "ahead" of her in several categories. She has to choose you.U reco divorce?
So you think... without a doubt shes cheating?. What brings ubto the divorce conclusion? ThxVery wise in your situation to divorce. To "flip" your situation is incredibly hard, but it will make you a stronger incredibly disciplined man. You have to get "ahead" of her in several categories. She has to choose you.
Her being sweet and attentive is another red flag that something is going on I'm afraid...Now... shes started being sweet the last week or so... very sweet and attentive... indidnt realize how mean she had been until she started being sweet and affectionate.
If your not getting what you need, and your getting depleted by the interaction she may as well be cheating. You would take the same steps which we will define here.So you think... without a doubt shes cheating?. What brings ubto the divorce conclusion? Thx