"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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By today's standards, this will not appear "scary" but it's one of the most fun horror movies to watch.

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By the way.... I've been a collector of rare offbeat, camp, exploitation cinema since the 1980's. If anyone else is into collecting and trading, here's my website.

 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Guys do yourself a favour & watch The Wailing in the original Korean language with subtitles...

Then you can stop going on about these other mediocre horror movies

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cabin In The Woods
House
Carrie (the original)
The Thing
Also the War of the Worlds movie from '05 was pretty freaky, more sci than horror
These are all good but I should clarify that they had The Thing original and remake versions. Both were good but I preferred the original.
War of the Worlds reminded me of the Invasion of the Body Snatchers which was also good(Donald Sutherland version).
 

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OMG, not a horror film but since this is SoSuave afterall...
I Spit on Your Grave parts 1 and 2 uncut version
 

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Doctor Sleep, the sequel to The Shining, is pretty good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Horror films, like porn, and LGBTQ, and every other form of degeneracy in western culture is designed to debase and dehumanize anyone who comes into contact with it.

It's basically satanic in intent and origin. If you choose to turn your mind into pudding (perhaps it already is), be my guest.

I know you guys don't like to hear this, but basically ALL mass media is satanic propaganda. You are effectively poisoning your mind a little or a lot but you are NEVER becoming healthier or better from consuming sh-t.

Better off spending your time reading quality books (tough to find admittedly), exercising, enjoying a real life hobby, and interacting with friends and family wherever possible.

Consuming poison through your eyes and ears (and soul) is just as devastating in impact as consuming toxic foods and drink.
 
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Doctor Sleep, the sequel to The Shining, is pretty good.
I enjoyed Dr Sleep. The director is the same director for Oculus which is a fantastic movie that can't seem to get any love from the horror community.....

Btw, Rebecca Ferguson who plays Rose the Hat is absolutely gorgeous...... she's what I imagine the "girl next door" type would look like when they're grown into womanhood.....

The way she says "welllll..... hi there........" is sexy.....
 

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Good God, this woman is sexy......

I like the way they gave her an Irish Traveler vibe.....

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good God, this woman is sexy......

I like the way they gave her an Irish Traveler vibe.....
She is an attractive woman. She's 36, by the way.
I like the iconic look they gave her, helped make her a memorable villain.
 

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I'm on a horror movie binge. I'd like suggestions for the absolute scariest horror movies you've seen. I'm talking about movies that made you afraid to sleep in the dark, movies that give you nightmares...

My top:

1) Hereditary - easily the scariest horror movie I've ever seen. It dethroned The Exorcist as the greatest horror movie ever made. I had this movie on my mind even 2 weeks after seeing it. It's the imagery, the music, and the genuine feeling of dread that writer/director Ari Aster masterfully crafted in the film. BTW, for the film theorists that hypothesize that the film was psychological and that the events took place in the minds of the mentally ill characters, director/writer Ari Aster dispels this theory: it's literal, the events that took place in the film literally happens, it wasn't sleepwalking or delusions. Go into the movie blind, don't read reviews or read the wikipedia page, don't let anything spoil the movie for you. Go into it with a blank slate.

But fair warning: If you're going to watch Hereditary, be prepared to be disturbed. This movie haunted my mind and caused me some sleepless nights.


2) The Conjuring 2 - incredible cinematography. There's a reveal scene that I found very creepy and effective - I won't spoil it for you though.

3) The Witch - not quite scary, it's disturbing....

4) The Exorcist - the opening scene in Iraq is still a cinematic masterpiece even today....

5) The Ring/ Ringu - The Ring was okay. Ringu capture the creep vibe through its music. Ringu has elements of "Butoh" which is creepy...... Generally I don't find Asian horror scary. Even Japanese horror movies I don't find scary, but rather I find J-Horror creepy.

As a long time horror fan, it's becoming a challenge to find anything genuinely scary - I've seen it all. I guess I'm jaded at this point. Horror relies on elements of the unknown, but I've pretty much seen all clichés, tropes and gimmicks now...

Jump scares are retarded. Gore is gratuitous and cheap. The only way for a movie to be scary is to craft an dreadful atmosphere through music, imagery and psychological tinkering....
The First Conjuring disturbed me more than any horror movie. I've seen the 5 you mentioned.

Midsommar is extremely disturbing. EXTREMELY


Lights Out made me slightly paranoid when turning out lights.

The Babadook was interesting
 

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The First Conjuring disturbed me more than any horror movie. I've seen the 5 you mentioned.

Midsommar is extremely disturbing. EXTREMELY


Lights Out made me slightly paranoid when turning out lights.

The Babadook was interesting
He just doesn't get it. It's basically like swallowing arsenic. It desensitizes people to evil in the guise of "entertainment."
 

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He just doesn't get it. It's basically like swallowing arsenic. It desensitizes people to evil in the guise of "entertainment."
You ARE onto something here new member, be bold and start a new thread on it.

Important to not insult(i saw in one or two other threads) or you'll lessen the impact of your message.

Make it a good thread on the toxicity of mainstream media.
 

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The only way for a movie to be scary is to craft an dreadful atmosphere through music, imagery and psychological tinkering....
That's the reason I love Ridley Scott's 1979 Alien. Seems like I don't have to tell you anything about it.

Sinister with Ethan Hawke is one of the best horror movies, I've watched over the last years. Nothing really new, more of classic horror with tense atmosphere intensified by music and disturbing scenes instead of heavy visual voilence.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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