"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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your thought on mike tyson coming back

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Who the hell would have the balls to mess with Mike Tyson's girl? Especially when he was in his prime..
You heard the reports. People have security and friends. And Robin Givens wasn't exactly to be stopped... She encouraged all that bull.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You heard the reports. People have security and friends. And Robin Givens wasn't exactly to be stopped... She encouraged all that bull.
I don't doubt she definitely tied it. She was a maniuplative ****. Did you hear the story of when Brad Pitt dated her? He was scared svhit lol

 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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he hit up other women b4 marriage? like cheating? I don't follow.
"Hit it" means sex. My estimate is she hooked him first. Then got him to marry. It was done to "outsmart" and "outclass" him. He probably got little to no sex after she suckered him into the marriage. And none after the affairs started shortly after. It was all part of the domination. Cruel intentions.
 

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"Hit it" means sex. My estimate is she hooked him first. Then got him to marry. It was done to "outsmart" and "outclass" him. He probably got little to no sex after she suckered him into the marriage. And none after the affairs started shortly after. It was all part of the domination. Cruel intentions.
for the money in divorce settlement?
I think no.
Just like that internet meme that Yoko Ono brags about breaking up the Beatles and Megan M. says 'hold my beer'

The takeover is the reward in itself? Yes.

What a thing to be famous for. It'd be better if these women invented a product or service and started an industry rather than be known for taking a man's power.
These broads didn't get the memo that a supportive woman is rarely heard of or seen behind her successful husband's back but of course, she's always well taken care of and protected.
Its why they take the last name of the man in marriage.
Come to think of it, none of these did that, did they? ono, mark le and givens. There's your tell(poker tic) that shows the red flag these broads are about to try to take power instead of support.
That's the pattern I see.
 

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for the money in divorce settlement?
I think no.
Just like that internet meme that Yoko Ono brags about breaking up the Beatles and Megan M. says 'hold my beer'

The takeover is the reward in itself? Yes.

What a thing to be famous for. It'd be better if these women invented a product or service and started an industry rather than be known for taking a man's power.
These broads didn't get the memo that a supportive woman is rarely heard of or seen behind her successful husband's back but of course, she's always well taken care of and protected.
Its why they take the last name of the man in marriage.
Come to think of it, none of these did that, did they? ono, mark le and givens. There's your tell(poker tic) that shows the red flag these broads are about to try to take power instead of support.
That's the pattern I see.
Usually these women had a "mean" streak so even if the man got good sex there was a clue. Men gotta stop being stupid behind women. It can get you and those around you hurt and killed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Usually these women had a "mean" streak so even if the man got good sex there was a clue. Men gotta stop being stupid behind women. It can get you and those around you hurt and killed.
ok.
So be hypervigilant for the mean streak. Found a meme similar to the one I saw before. Someone should put givens in there too. screenshot_2020-01-13-guinness-hashtag-on-instagram-e280a2-photos-and-videos1.png
 

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These aren't stupid men either.
They are all talented, powerful and athletic men.
Just how freakin good was this sex these 3 women gave?

Once again, we come full circle to how important it is for men to be polyamorous(spinning plates) as there's mean women out there.
Just pick a more normal woman who has your back. Plate spinners are also prone to disillusionment.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Exactly. Same as choosing men.
Imagine a woman spinning plates? Not likely.
So first, she should control her own mean streak, second, make sure she's claimed a positive/productive space where only she has power(kitchen/food prep/absolute food decisions) then thirdly, I don't know what to do to get a man to commit so I don't know what third is....do without I guess.



I hope Harry and Tyson don't have same fate as Lennon. This garbage behaviour really can cost lives
 

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Givens and a long list.
I really haven't seen this pattern before hanging out in Sosuave forum. My eyes have never been more open to men's experiences and I've been working for decades with men.

I'm going to google Tyson now to see what he's doing. I still haven't seen another boxer yet like him.
 

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I really haven't seen this pattern before hanging out in Sosuave forum. My eyes have never been more open to men's experiences and I've been working for decades with men.

I'm going to google Tyson now to see what he's doing. I still haven't seen another boxer yet like him.
Probably your around a good group of people. Other groups are treacherous.
 

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Probably your around a good group of people. Other groups are treacherous.
yes you're all my friends here, I'm as fond of you all as if I grew up with you all. I don't care that I'm an outlier. I prattle on here just like the lonely old ladies do in the grocery store, lol. Unusually healthy growth that I get from here, I always did prefer the truth.

If you meant my work experiences, yes they're all golden too. I'd only hear so much before being shut out of the conversations. Probably to protect me. I've actually had guys say "earmuffs" (whatever movie that was from)before continuing to talk about women.
I didn't know it was because the women were evil.


I hope to be in environments part time soon where I'm exposed to men like Tyson's talent. Join a coed boxing gym finally, get into another coed sport....something soon.
 

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yes you're all my friends here, I'm as fond of you all as if I grew up with you all. I don't care that I'm an outlier. I prattle on here just like the lonely old ladies do in the grocery store, lol. Unusually healthy growth that I get from here, I always did prefer the truth.

If you meant my work experiences, yes they're all golden too. I'd only hear so much before being shut out of the conversations. Probably to protect me. I've actually had guys say "earmuffs" (whatever movie that was from)before continuing to talk about women.
I didn't know it was because the women were evil.


I hope to be in environments part time soon where I'm exposed to men like Tyson's talent. Join a coed boxing gym finally, get into another coed sport....something soon.
I was talking about real life. The treacherous groups number far greater than you think. We described a very normal viewpoint to them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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