Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Just ordered 40,50,60 kg all set of dumbells i used to had at my gym.. See how it goes..quite a hefty price to pay but hey keeping your hard earn muscle definately worth it, beside i bet the gym would be closed for few years to come.
What prices and where did you order your dbells from?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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More "alpha" than him means what? Most women do have greater leverages available to them than men that they can use to position themselves over their men. The only people who would have a chance would be people who can "bend the laws", such as a police man, local liked politician or a gangster who will kill you.

Does more "Alpha" mean always having to be in charge or trying to get control? Because if Bill Gates was my boss when microsoft started, I'd be a multi millionare many times over. If 99.999% of us where able to power our way over the top of him, to strip and marginalize him to feel better about ourselves and be his boss instead, we'd both by making a regular paycheck. Your not supposed to be the "head" of everything.



And you know many men are forgoing true relationships.



Alot of this site has evolved into self improvement and understanding true social dynamics.




Day 1, Day 2 like Nick does is useful. After a certain amount of time it may prove useful to not talk here or anywhere else like it. An experienced person doing well enough may post occasionally to provide guidance to newer members or members who have gotten stuck into a bad position.
alpha=in charge leader

Yes, I see how relationships are no longer popular with some men.
Thank you again for reading, that energised me. Have a great day.
 

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Yes, I see how relationships are no longer popular with some men.
Thank you again for reading, that energised me. Have a great day.
Do you see my example of how you or 99.99% of us being "in charge" of a brilliant visionary such as Gates or Steve Jobs, would lead to us both just making a paycheck 20-30 years from now, vs if they were our bosses when the companies were just starting we would be multi millionares?
 

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They were from my country here popular e-commerce lazada in myr currency all would be RM1193. 00 = usd280.

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All for USD $290? In US the prices are jacked up so that a 50kg set is $200 or so. Can you give me the link so I can see if they do international shipping?

I found this https://www.lazada.com.my/shop-weig...ducts&spm=a2o4k.10415192.cutImages_21377978.0

These prices are incredible. This is a legit company not a scam? Can I buy with US dollars and ship to US?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you see my example of how you or 99.99% of us being "in charge" of a brilliant visionary such as Gates or Steve Jobs, would lead to us both just making a paycheck 20-30 years from now, vs if they were our bosses when the companies were just starting we would be multi millionares?
Yes, I actually do.

How do I prove it to you?
ok.
When each relationship started faltering and I instructed Him to completely take the reins, enough of this equality/partners shyt.....
we would have better sleeps, better activity, better mundane interactions(for example: instead of those annoying back and forths about where are we going to eat what are we ordering((2ex's were the type to like dining out)) when He just decided everything, ordered for me, drove us, controlled every aspect....we never argued!)
Everything flowed so smoothly.
Eventually 'He' would need a break and would ask me to take over. Wait, what?

Pisspoor example and it doesn't address what I think you want me to verbalise and its probably this.

Genius flourishes with support, not competition.
 

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Yes, I actually do.

How do I prove it to you?
ok.
When each relationship started faltering and I instructed Him to completely take the reins, enough of this equality/partners shyt.....
we would have better sleeps, better activity, better mundane interactions(for example: instead of those annoying back and forths about where are we going to eat what are we ordering((2ex's were the type to like dining out)) when He just decided everything, ordered for me, drove us, controlled every aspect....we never argued!)
Everything flowed so smoothly.
Eventually 'He' would need a break and would ask me to take over. Wait, what?
My mom and dad do this. Switch up leadership every few yrs cause they don't care and they like and trust each other.
 

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My mom and dad do this. Switch up leadership every few yrs cause they don't care and they like and trust each other.
Hmm, that's cool. that they like and trust each other. I wonder how that dynamic plays out. I couldn't achieve it and knew things went smoother with 'Him' in control.

Didn't expect you had that background. I'm slightly off again in my comprehension.
I'm slow and edit after people quote my unedited posts. I'm a hunt-and-peck typer on a mobile browser, lol
 

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All for USD $290? In US the prices are jacked up so that a 50kg set is $200 or so. Can you give me the link so I can see if they do international shipping?

I found this https://www.lazada.com.my/shop-weig...ducts&spm=a2o4k.10415192.cutImages_21377978.0

These prices are incredible. This is a legit company not a scam? Can I buy with US dollars and ship to US?
No its legit.. The links you sent me were the correct ones.. 100% refund guaranteed.. Not sure about international shipping tho obviously im not in the u.s the option wont appeared for me.
 

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No its legit.. The links you sent me were the correct ones.. 100% refund guaranteed.. Not sure about international shipping tho obviously im not in the u.s the option wont appeared for me.
Its trying to force me to use non us country for destination. Is it possible you can buy and ship to me if i get you the $ upfront?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No its legit.. The links you sent me were the correct ones.. 100% refund guaranteed.. Not sure about international shipping tho obviously im not in the u.s the option wont appeared for me.
All for USD $290? In US the prices are jacked up so that a 50kg set is $200 or so. Can you give me the link so I can see if they do international shipping?

I found this https://www.lazada.com.my/shop-weig...ducts&spm=a2o4k.10415192.cutImages_21377978.0

These prices are incredible. This is a legit company not a scam? Can I buy with US dollars and ship to US?
You can install the app from playstore/iphone app to check it out.
 

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Its trying to force me to use non us country for destination. Is it possible you can buy and ship to me if i get you the $ upfront?
Im so sorry @mrgoodstuff, the nearest international logistics arent inaccessible for me at this moment due to the MCO, i could go to jail for violations lol. Maybe you can contact the company directly.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you want to keep costs low you can buy a barbell with weights and adjustable dumbells. Do full body workouts with them
Already been thought about. There are olympic dumbbell handles which allow the use of Olympic plates you can stack 2-3 plates per side depending on the handle. I found a company that sells for $69.00 for the set.
 

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Already been thought about. There are olympic dumbbell handles which allow the use of Olympic plates you can stack 2-3 plates per side depending on the handle. I found a company that sells for $69.00 for the set.
Doesnt have that options in here, or ive already bought it.. Most comes under 30kg max. 200usd per set for dumbell just insane. I could get a long range drone for that same anount of items.. 200x3 =600
 

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Doesnt have that options in here, or ive already bought it.. Most comes under 30kg max. 200usd per set for dumbell just insane. I could get a long range drone for that.
Im already checking with my friend with family in Malaysia to see if they can purchase for me.
 

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Hmm, that's cool. that they like and trust each other. I wonder how that dynamic plays out. I couldn't achieve it and knew things went smoother with 'Him' in control.

Didn't expect you had that background. I'm slightly off again in my comprehension.
I'm slow and edit after people quote my unedited posts. I'm a hunt-and-peck typer on a mobile browser, lol
SOmetimes they get "tired" and don't want to worry about it so they let the other "drive". They've always been intimate, so it didn't mess up their romance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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