"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Covid-19, Dating, and Society

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AttackFormation

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This is the only way to "Date" in 2020 no point of taking a chick on dates, after this women are gonna be in heat like a 3 hookers in a sweatshop
All my experience of doing anything except escalating asap with women tells me they think something is wrong with you if you arent being rough, sexual and escalating with them pretty much from the get go. All the BS you hear about the contrary is just that.

I have to make myself act according to those 3 aforementioned things or they get confused and it runs out in the sand. There is little to no room for platonic behavior.
 

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All my experience of doing anything except escalating asap with women tells me they think something is wrong with you if you arent being rough, sexual and escalating with them pretty much from the get go. All the BS you hear about the contrary is just that.

I have to make myself act according to those 3 aforementioned things or they get confused and it runs out in the sand. There is little to no room for platonic behavior.
I would go as far to say that, now a days women know right away if they are attracted to you or not
Maybe it's me or not but getting sex has never been easier if a girl is into you
I find that taking girls on "Dates" usually 50% of the time puts you in the provider position which means no coochice
 

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Dating has to die if there is nowhere to go on a date. People will just meet and fvck.
Matched a woman a few weeks ago who is probably an age-adjusted "7". Claims to be an actual sapiosexual and is excited to have found someone who fills that bill. She's coming over Thursday evening, and unless the IRL chemistry is way off, she is totally DTF.

That or she is the most convincing catfish ever. I shall see...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Matched a woman a few weeks ago who is probably an age-adjusted "7". Claims to be an actual sapiosexual and is excited to have found someone who fills that bill. She's coming over Thursday evening, and unless the IRL chemistry is way off, she is totally DTF.

That or she is the most convincing catfish ever. I shall see...
Keep us updated bro...May 4th Lockdown from my state is lifting if bars/restaurant open it's gonna be a **** fest in the clubs lol
 
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Bumble is going ape****. Either the algorithm is feeding women's egos, or women themselves are changing their search preferences. I'm getting contacts from attention seeking women from far south Texas all the way to northern Illinois. I'm thinking algorithm since my results come from an area much larger north to south, than east to west. But maybe women east and west of me aren't as needy as those north and south of me.
 

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Bumble is going ape****. Either the algorithm is feeding women's egos, or women themselves are changing their search preferences. I'm getting contacts from attention seeking women from far south Texas all the way to northern Illinois. I'm thinking algorithm since my results come from an area much larger north to south, than east to west. But maybe women east and west of me aren't as needy as those north and south of me.
Bumble is allowing you to match for free with the whole country if you max out your distance. If you're from the east coast, with some east coast style you're gonna stand out to southern and midwestern girls.

I love midwestern girls, you get some of them hot but low maintenance unlike east coast girls
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Went r/ bumble yesterday. There were a number of posts of women complaining about men asking to meet up. Why the fvck would you be on bumble if you didn't want men to ask to get together?
 

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I absolutely love to think about action and reaction, especially when it comes to dating. I honestly believe that it has led me to become better with women. This whole COVID-19 pandemic really has the wheels turning, and here's the things I've been thinking about...

If You Have a GF/Sexual Partner...

You may want to hold onto that tramp for a bit longer. Going out and meeting new women is only really possible online, but trying to fvck a different tramp from the internet will be like trying to fvck a virgin who believes in God's command that you cannot fvck until you're married or you're going to hell. That's pretty much what you're going to get here. A woman's emotional reaction is that she might die from being social with you. Plus, there aren't much places you can take a woman on a date besides a park or your bedroom, and anything outside a coffee date is going to set alarms off in her head because she's learned that from society.

So stick with the bytch that you're currently fvcking, at least until this whole pandemic is over. She's not supposed to be hanging out with her stupid orbiters right now anyway, so you can give her 5hit when she brings up the subject. You can even tell her that if she hangs out with her orbiters, you're going to kick her to the curb because you don't want any of that life-threatening pandemic 5hit in your body.


If You DON'T Have a GF/Sexual Partner...

Well buddy, you're not going to get one anytime soon unless you can convince the virgin that God makes exceptions for your d1ck. You're either going to have to REALLY amp up your rapport with her, or you're going to get pissed off that your hours of effort are yielding no results. You're better off to make your hand your current fvck buddy and enjoy the masturbation. It's time to make yourself better! Lose weight, gain muscle, take up a new hobby, fix all that 5hit that's broken around your home, etc. You're going to have a LOT of time with yourself, because I don't see this pandemic 5hit going away anytime soon.


The Social Results of the Pandemic

I swear we're going to have a new wave of baby boomers. Those who are locked up in their house together are going to do a lot of fvcking because they won't have much else to do. However, once the pandemic is lifted and we no longer have to do this social distancing stuff, people are going to be hooking up and fvcking like rabbits because they've been so desperate and horny. There will be new babies born, I guarantee you that.

For those of you looking for a long term woman, the end of this pandemic is going to give you a very small wave of women who will be virgins in the 18-23 range. Virgins (or at least women who are close to being virgins) make the best long-term partners because they are easily influenced, they don't have any life of their own yet, and they'll take your life as their own and won't feel the need to find a different man because they haven't gone through the alpha-widow damage yet.

So pick your battles wisely while we weather the 5hit storm. Put up with your existing bytch for the sex until social distancing is done away with, and do some much-needed self-improvement if you're making love to your hand every night.
Disagree. It’s just harder now to get a woman. By no means impossible though.
 

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There will always be lonely horny guys that will throw money at puzzy. The internet just makes that a hell of a lot easier. must be enticing as hell for some of these women, if what the guys says in the video is correct, if they can make $50k a month.
 

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I'm noticing more AW's than usual on OLD
A lot of women willing to sent naughty pictures (some even unsolicited)
However women are still flakey, I've met a couple.
One whom had major issues $$$ wise and another who admitted to being bi-polar (explains why she drove 2.5 hours)
If this continues I'm expecting in the next month for the floodgates to open but I'm not worried
Next @ crazy.

Out before false accusations. There's far too many hotter and younger girls newly 18.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There will always be lonely horny guys that will throw money at puzzy. The internet just makes that a hell of a lot easier. must be enticing as hell for some of these women, if what the guys says in the video is correct, if they can make $50k a month.
I don't disagree. btT podcast Monday was trolling these SIMPs.quite honestly, I enjoy it. It makes standing out far easier.
 

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Fetlife is full of women wh0ring it up, selling their dirty underwear (yuck), selling a paid snapchat, and my favorite, "send me lingerie for free." LOL how pathetic of a loser must a guy be to buy sh1t for a women he will never meet?
 

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Fetlife is full of women wh0ring it up, selling their dirty underwear (yuck), selling a paid snapchat, and my favorite, "send me lingerie for free." LOL how pathetic of a loser must a guy be to buy sh1t for a women he will never meet?
I've heard of that. If you are willing to pay you can buy underwear a woman wore for a week straight. Wtf are guys doing?
 

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She can buy my old gym shorts... I got two pairs. 25 bucks each or she can have them both for 40 bucks.

And no I don't want her sending me pictures of her wearing them round her head.
 

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Is FEtlife like a hookup site? a few girls who were into kinkz have been on it but not gonna lie they were filthy broken hores
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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