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Covid-19, Dating, and Society

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This has on some level kept the relationship with my GF going. She and I both work from home and even though we don't live together, she's been staying at my place. It helps put me at ease knowing she's not being stupid and going out unnecessarily. We'll see where we are once this ****'s over.
 

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I think it depends on your social circles and lifestyle. If you are a social nomad trying to talk to chicks on tinder and hiding out in your man cave, there might be some social implications that will affect you.

But I was at a cabin in the woods hunting and fishing in rural Pennsylvania this past weekend and it’s as if nothing ever happened.

For those who need a break from all this, I suggest being around nature and staying away from the mainstream media. I’ve seen entire communities and rural cities where people act oblivious like it’s 2010 and it’s just the flu.

Obviously people take precautions but there is nowhere near the panic you see in the mainstream media.

There are many “worlds” in this world. You don’t have to be plugged into the matrix and get spoon fed reality by people in power who have their own underhanded agendas.

In places I’ve been, people are still bbq’ing, kids are running around playing with their dogs, and people are still hooking up. Not much has changed.

The corona virus experienced by the main stream media and big city dwellers who are locked in watching the news everyday on tv - and how people experience it in rural America is totally different in my experience.

If you have your own property and land, the only concern you’ll really have is business and money.

If ANYTHING, if you don’t own a self sustaining property outside the city that’s surrounded by nature, I suggest you invest in one. It comes in handy during times like this where you can just unplug from the matrix.

And also, invest in social circles with women in it. This strategy would make you oblivious to the changing dynamics in the sexual market place.

You don’t have to be completely plugged into the matrix. I know many people with their own land and self sustaining lifestyles outside of big cities where unless there is a world war, it’s life as usual for them.
 
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I'm in Europe and in a large city, and I'm stuck in my apartment. There are fines for being out without a specific reason. Even if you drive to a bigger, better supermarket, the cops might stop you and fine you for not going to the closest one.

I was seeing a girl a few months and it was going well, but I wasn't sure how serious I wanted it to be. I like her and she's cool but just not sure what my headspace was. She had to fly back to her country, so we're apart. TBH I haven't missed her that much, outside of the fun conversation once in a while. Again it's not that I don't like her, I think I just am adapting to the personal time. But besides that, I didn't have any good plates spinning (I get lazy when I start dating a chick). And it would be a risk for one to come over, anyway. And would I even want that... I don't need sex that badly.

It's not that I don't miss regular human contact....I just haven't missed plate spinning or one on one time with girls. I've been knee deep in my hobbies and what work I have and just sort of appreciating my health and situation. It's funny, there are all these threads on SS about "what to do re: chicks during Coronavirus" and to me, it's just nice not having the distraction. And no I'm not MGTOW or anything, just appreciating the situation for what it is and enjoying the process.
 

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I'm in Europe and in a large city, and I'm stuck in my apartment. There are fines for being out without a specific reason. Even if you drive to a bigger, better supermarket, the cops might stop you and fine you for not going to the closest one.

I was seeing a girl a few months and it was going well, but I wasn't sure how serious I wanted it to be. I like her and she's cool but just not sure what my headspace was. She had to fly back to her country, so we're apart. TBH I haven't missed her that much, outside of the fun conversation once in a while. Again it's not that I don't like her, I think I just am adapting to the personal time. But besides that, I didn't have any good plates spinning (I get lazy when I start dating a chick). And it would be a risk for one to come over, anyway. And would I even want that... I don't need sex that badly.

It's not that I don't miss regular human contact....I just haven't missed plate spinning or one on one time with girls. I've been knee deep in my hobbies and what work I have and just sort of appreciating my health and situation. It's funny, there are all these threads on SS about "what to do re: chicks during Coronavirus" and to me, it's just nice not having the distraction. And no I'm not MGTOW or anything, just appreciating the situation for what it is and enjoying the process.
This is how I feel too. Rain, sleet, sunshine, snow, pandemic, or world war, I am still pursuing perfection in myself. Bruce Lee said "the greatest enemy is yourself, not something out there."

I hold myself accountable for my actions.
I hold myself accountable for my thoughts.
I hold myself accountable for my energy.
And I hold myself accountable for anything that shows up in my life because I created it with action, thought, and energy.

When someone holds themselves accountable for all 4 of these things, life cannot show up any other way than the way you intended whether consciously or unconsciously.
 
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There have been quite a few memes floating around and being shared by women where they're suddenly finding a newfound joy for men who can hunt, fix things and defend their partner in a potentially apocalyptic scenario.

This pandemic is going to scar our generations for years to come, it's about time we had things mixed up a bit.
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It’s an interesting time. As a woman who was taught by her father to hunt & shoot & cook what you kill it’s all good.

Have guns for birds or beasts just in case...have propane for the grill or firewood just in case...have supplies and still employed from home. Not happy about the possibility of lost rents but things could be worse.

BF and I hunkered down with my family at my rural residence. Life is more normal here than in the major metro we left a couple weeks ago. Kids are outta school likely for the year so been occupying them with chores and cleaning & getting ready to move this summer...some web based classes still occurring fortunately.

It sucks for my son who graduates this year. Oh well.

Most social venues even here are closed. The state we left is entirely shut down with a stay at home order. Been playing cards & finding out just how compatible we are. So far so good...

It’s an interesting time for sure.
 

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It sucks for my son who graduates this year. Oh well.
I was just telling my dad today that it's a bummer the kids are gonna miss out on their grads this year. He said they'll just delay them and hold them later. But still. It's a monumentous moment in any youth's life.
 

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Yeah I have a gf. Plate spinning can be too much work after awhile. Sometimes it's nice to have a great girl in your corner if she's the right one for something long-term.
What's this site coming to?
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The farm store down the road opened just for me so I could buy some cheese curds and a couple of steaks. Good folks.

Yeah I have a gf. Plate spinning can be too much work after awhile. Sometimes it's nice to have a great girl in your corner if she's the right one for something long-term.
Lol!!! During these times I have no desire to spin any plates. I’ve had so many chicks come out of the wood work. One from 4 years ago and she immediately started getting dirty. I know they are locked up and are craving attention which requires my time and energy. F that... I’m staying healthy... keeping fit... and staying safe.
 

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I was just telling my dad today that it's a bummer the kids are gonna miss out on their grads this year. He said they'll just delay them and hold them later. But still. It's a monumentous moment in any youth's life.
I didn't show up to my own graduation. Didn't see the fun in having to meet a bunch of people again, most of whom I couldn't stand.

Momentous, indeed.
 

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I didn't show up to my own graduation. Didn't see the fun in having to meet a bunch of people again, most of whom I couldn't stand.

Momentous, indeed.
Maybe if you were cool, it would have been different. ;)
 

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I absolutely love to think about action and reaction, especially when it comes to dating. I honestly believe that it has led me to become better with women. This whole COVID-19 pandemic really has the wheels turning, and here's the things I've been thinking about...

If You Have a GF/Sexual Partner...

You may want to hold onto that tramp for a bit longer. Going out and meeting new women is only really possible online, but trying to fvck a different tramp from the internet will be like trying to fvck a virgin who believes in God's command that you cannot fvck until you're married or you're going to hell. That's pretty much what you're going to get here. A woman's emotional reaction is that she might die from being social with you. Plus, there aren't much places you can take a woman on a date besides a park or your bedroom, and anything outside a coffee date is going to set alarms off in her head because she's learned that from society.

So stick with the bytch that you're currently fvcking, at least until this whole pandemic is over. She's not supposed to be hanging out with her stupid orbiters right now anyway, so you can give her 5hit when she brings up the subject. You can even tell her that if she hangs out with her orbiters, you're going to kick her to the curb because you don't want any of that life-threatening pandemic 5hit in your body.


If You DON'T Have a GF/Sexual Partner...

Well buddy, you're not going to get one anytime soon unless you can convince the virgin that God makes exceptions for your d1ck. You're either going to have to REALLY amp up your rapport with her, or you're going to get pissed off that your hours of effort are yielding no results. You're better off to make your hand your current fvck buddy and enjoy the masturbation. It's time to make yourself better! Lose weight, gain muscle, take up a new hobby, fix all that 5hit that's broken around your home, etc. You're going to have a LOT of time with yourself, because I don't see this pandemic 5hit going away anytime soon.


The Social Results of the Pandemic

I swear we're going to have a new wave of baby boomers. Those who are locked up in their house together are going to do a lot of fvcking because they won't have much else to do. However, once the pandemic is lifted and we no longer have to do this social distancing stuff, people are going to be hooking up and fvcking like rabbits because they've been so desperate and horny. There will be new babies born, I guarantee you that.

For those of you looking for a long term woman, the end of this pandemic is going to give you a very small wave of women who will be virgins in the 18-23 range. Virgins (or at least women who are close to being virgins) make the best long-term partners because they are easily influenced, they don't have any life of their own yet, and they'll take your life as their own and won't feel the need to find a different man because they haven't gone through the alpha-widow damage yet.

So pick your battles wisely while we weather the 5hit storm. Put up with your existing bytch for the sex until social distancing is done away with, and do some much-needed self-improvement if you're making love to your hand every night.
Bro... You're right. I've been playing around on OLD just to polish up my text game. It's really really hard to get these women to meet up lol.

When do you think this is gonna blow over?

My goal in 2020 was to have fvcked 17-18 women. I've only fvcked 7 now. Once this blows over, I'm gonna have to go into maximum overdrive, like 5 Approaches a day. Cause I'm losing hella approach time due to this virus lol.

Like you said, the best solution is to work on my purpose/hobbies/SMV. So when I do come back to Approaching, I'll be much improved and I'll get better results.
 

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Maybe if you were cool, it would have been different. ;)
Showing up would have been the most uncool thing of all.
 

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Covid19 is actually fighting feminism

Suddenly we've women and old plates coming out of the woodwork hitting up guys left and right. Because suddenly we've a real actual problem in the world so the women go looking for safety. So much for the strong and independent woman.

Men are usually problem solvers, knowing what to do to survive. We stock up on food and supplies, if something breaks down, we fix it, we know we're fine because we built the world up from the ground.
Women have a worthless gender studies degree working as a waitress until they find their dream job and find themselves with 200 grand in debt. They've no resources or backup plan and live for the moment through their feelings.
What's the ultimate backup plan for women? Men.
What's the ultimate backup plan for men? Ourselves.

So when sh1t is going down around us the women look for the men to give them peace of mind and protection.
When there's no real problem in the world, it's easy to make up problems and come up with ridiculous stuff like feminism.
 

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I absolutely love to think about action and reaction, especially when it comes to dating. I honestly believe that it has led me to become better with women. This whole COVID-19 pandemic really has the wheels turning, and here's the things I've been thinking about...

If You Have a GF/Sexual Partner...

You may want to hold onto that tramp for a bit longer. Going out and meeting new women is only really possible online, but trying to fvck a different tramp from the internet will be like trying to fvck a virgin who believes in God's command that you cannot fvck until you're married or you're going to hell. That's pretty much what you're going to get here. A woman's emotional reaction is that she might die from being social with you. Plus, there aren't much places you can take a woman on a date besides a park or your bedroom, and anything outside a coffee date is going to set alarms off in her head because she's learned that from society.

So stick with the bytch that you're currently fvcking, at least until this whole pandemic is over. She's not supposed to be hanging out with her stupid orbiters right now anyway, so you can give her 5hit when she brings up the subject. You can even tell her that if she hangs out with her orbiters, you're going to kick her to the curb because you don't want any of that life-threatening pandemic 5hit in your body.


If You DON'T Have a GF/Sexual Partner...

Well buddy, you're not going to get one anytime soon unless you can convince the virgin that God makes exceptions for your d1ck. You're either going to have to REALLY amp up your rapport with her, or you're going to get pissed off that your hours of effort are yielding no results. You're better off to make your hand your current fvck buddy and enjoy the masturbation. It's time to make yourself better! Lose weight, gain muscle, take up a new hobby, fix all that 5hit that's broken around your home, etc. You're going to have a LOT of time with yourself, because I don't see this pandemic 5hit going away anytime soon.


The Social Results of the Pandemic

I swear we're going to have a new wave of baby boomers. Those who are locked up in their house together are going to do a lot of fvcking because they won't have much else to do. However, once the pandemic is lifted and we no longer have to do this social distancing stuff, people are going to be hooking up and fvcking like rabbits because they've been so desperate and horny. There will be new babies born, I guarantee you that.

For those of you looking for a long term woman, the end of this pandemic is going to give you a very small wave of women who will be virgins in the 18-23 range. Virgins (or at least women who are close to being virgins) make the best long-term partners because they are easily influenced, they don't have any life of their own yet, and they'll take your life as their own and won't feel the need to find a different man because they haven't gone through the alpha-widow damage yet.

So pick your battles wisely while we weather the 5hit storm. Put up with your existing bytch for the sex until social distancing is done away with, and do some much-needed self-improvement if you're making love to your hand every night.
I'm still running game. Prior to the pandemic, new leads. Catch and release. I'd have kept more if I had been aware.

New leads, girls still come but there is a huge turn over. Hit up by old flames, past plates, and randoms.

ToddV posted about a vlog on measures to keep girls. The inevitable plates dropping off and smashing is not anything new. The pandemic is a opportunity. Women are legit scared and dumb.

And yet high interest girls are coming over still. Women will claw the eyes out of every man women and child to get to the alpha male.

I lead. She follows or next ladies and gentlemen. This pandemic is no different. It could be a zombie apocalypse or mad ****in max, and baeeee is still coming (or next set).
 

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Bro... You're right. I've been playing around on OLD just to polish up my text game. It's really really hard to get these women to meet up lol.

When do you think this is gonna blow over?

My goal in 2020 was to have fvcked 17-18 women. I've only fvcked 7 now. Once this blows over, I'm gonna have to go into maximum overdrive, like 5 Approaches a day. Cause I'm losing hella approach time due to this virus lol.

Like you said, the best solution is to work on my purpose/hobbies/SMV. So when I do come back to Approaching, I'll be much improved and I'll get better results.

Troy Francis is saying, people are gonna start humping in the street.

The separation anxiety from people and interaction will likely lead to pulling above your weight.

Study, hit the books, and busy yourself.
 

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I thought it was in my head but I had a feeling getting a chick during the pandemic is going to be difficult. Where the hell would I want her to meet if everything is closed? A chick I asked out at academy giggled and asked where we'd go I remember. Plus she(women) could be worried about catching the virus with each other we are strangers after all.

I think guys who don't have a sex partner and don't do OLD right now should accept it for the time being to not expect easy meet ups like they normally would but nothing wrong with trying of course.
 
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