Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Covid-19, Dating, and Society

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This has on some level kept the relationship with my GF going. She and I both work from home and even though we don't live together, she's been staying at my place. It helps put me at ease knowing she's not being stupid and going out unnecessarily. We'll see where we are once this ****'s over.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There have been quite a few memes floating around and being shared by women where they're suddenly finding a newfound joy for men who can hunt, fix things and defend their partner in a potentially apocalyptic scenario.

This pandemic is going to scar our generations for years to come, it's about time we had things mixed up a bit.
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It’s an interesting time. As a woman who was taught by her father to hunt & shoot & cook what you kill it’s all good.

Have guns for birds or beasts just in case...have propane for the grill or firewood just in case...have supplies and still employed from home. Not happy about the possibility of lost rents but things could be worse.

BF and I hunkered down with my family at my rural residence. Life is more normal here than in the major metro we left a couple weeks ago. Kids are outta school likely for the year so been occupying them with chores and cleaning & getting ready to move this summer...some web based classes still occurring fortunately.

It sucks for my son who graduates this year. Oh well.

Most social venues even here are closed. The state we left is entirely shut down with a stay at home order. Been playing cards & finding out just how compatible we are. So far so good...

It’s an interesting time for sure.
 

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Yeah I have a gf. Plate spinning can be too much work after awhile. Sometimes it's nice to have a great girl in your corner if she's the right one for something long-term.
What's this site coming to?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The farm store down the road opened just for me so I could buy some cheese curds and a couple of steaks. Good folks.

Yeah I have a gf. Plate spinning can be too much work after awhile. Sometimes it's nice to have a great girl in your corner if she's the right one for something long-term.
Lol!!! During these times I have no desire to spin any plates. I’ve had so many chicks come out of the wood work. One from 4 years ago and she immediately started getting dirty. I know they are locked up and are craving attention which requires my time and energy. F that... I’m staying healthy... keeping fit... and staying safe.
 

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This is a long, but very detailed read for all you freaks in the US:

Covid19 in the US
 

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I was just telling my dad today that it's a bummer the kids are gonna miss out on their grads this year. He said they'll just delay them and hold them later. But still. It's a monumentous moment in any youth's life.
I didn't show up to my own graduation. Didn't see the fun in having to meet a bunch of people again, most of whom I couldn't stand.

Momentous, indeed.
 

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I absolutely love to think about action and reaction, especially when it comes to dating. I honestly believe that it has led me to become better with women. This whole COVID-19 pandemic really has the wheels turning, and here's the things I've been thinking about...

If You Have a GF/Sexual Partner...

You may want to hold onto that tramp for a bit longer. Going out and meeting new women is only really possible online, but trying to fvck a different tramp from the internet will be like trying to fvck a virgin who believes in God's command that you cannot fvck until you're married or you're going to hell. That's pretty much what you're going to get here. A woman's emotional reaction is that she might die from being social with you. Plus, there aren't much places you can take a woman on a date besides a park or your bedroom, and anything outside a coffee date is going to set alarms off in her head because she's learned that from society.

So stick with the bytch that you're currently fvcking, at least until this whole pandemic is over. She's not supposed to be hanging out with her stupid orbiters right now anyway, so you can give her 5hit when she brings up the subject. You can even tell her that if she hangs out with her orbiters, you're going to kick her to the curb because you don't want any of that life-threatening pandemic 5hit in your body.


If You DON'T Have a GF/Sexual Partner...

Well buddy, you're not going to get one anytime soon unless you can convince the virgin that God makes exceptions for your d1ck. You're either going to have to REALLY amp up your rapport with her, or you're going to get pissed off that your hours of effort are yielding no results. You're better off to make your hand your current fvck buddy and enjoy the masturbation. It's time to make yourself better! Lose weight, gain muscle, take up a new hobby, fix all that 5hit that's broken around your home, etc. You're going to have a LOT of time with yourself, because I don't see this pandemic 5hit going away anytime soon.


The Social Results of the Pandemic

I swear we're going to have a new wave of baby boomers. Those who are locked up in their house together are going to do a lot of fvcking because they won't have much else to do. However, once the pandemic is lifted and we no longer have to do this social distancing stuff, people are going to be hooking up and fvcking like rabbits because they've been so desperate and horny. There will be new babies born, I guarantee you that.

For those of you looking for a long term woman, the end of this pandemic is going to give you a very small wave of women who will be virgins in the 18-23 range. Virgins (or at least women who are close to being virgins) make the best long-term partners because they are easily influenced, they don't have any life of their own yet, and they'll take your life as their own and won't feel the need to find a different man because they haven't gone through the alpha-widow damage yet.

So pick your battles wisely while we weather the 5hit storm. Put up with your existing bytch for the sex until social distancing is done away with, and do some much-needed self-improvement if you're making love to your hand every night.
Bro... You're right. I've been playing around on OLD just to polish up my text game. It's really really hard to get these women to meet up lol.

When do you think this is gonna blow over?

My goal in 2020 was to have fvcked 17-18 women. I've only fvcked 7 now. Once this blows over, I'm gonna have to go into maximum overdrive, like 5 Approaches a day. Cause I'm losing hella approach time due to this virus lol.

Like you said, the best solution is to work on my purpose/hobbies/SMV. So when I do come back to Approaching, I'll be much improved and I'll get better results.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maybe if you were cool, it would have been different. ;)
Showing up would have been the most uncool thing of all.
 

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Covid19 is actually fighting feminism

Suddenly we've women and old plates coming out of the woodwork hitting up guys left and right. Because suddenly we've a real actual problem in the world so the women go looking for safety. So much for the strong and independent woman.

Men are usually problem solvers, knowing what to do to survive. We stock up on food and supplies, if something breaks down, we fix it, we know we're fine because we built the world up from the ground.
Women have a worthless gender studies degree working as a waitress until they find their dream job and find themselves with 200 grand in debt. They've no resources or backup plan and live for the moment through their feelings.
What's the ultimate backup plan for women? Men.
What's the ultimate backup plan for men? Ourselves.

So when sh1t is going down around us the women look for the men to give them peace of mind and protection.
When there's no real problem in the world, it's easy to make up problems and come up with ridiculous stuff like feminism.
 

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I absolutely love to think about action and reaction, especially when it comes to dating. I honestly believe that it has led me to become better with women. This whole COVID-19 pandemic really has the wheels turning, and here's the things I've been thinking about...

If You Have a GF/Sexual Partner...

You may want to hold onto that tramp for a bit longer. Going out and meeting new women is only really possible online, but trying to fvck a different tramp from the internet will be like trying to fvck a virgin who believes in God's command that you cannot fvck until you're married or you're going to hell. That's pretty much what you're going to get here. A woman's emotional reaction is that she might die from being social with you. Plus, there aren't much places you can take a woman on a date besides a park or your bedroom, and anything outside a coffee date is going to set alarms off in her head because she's learned that from society.

So stick with the bytch that you're currently fvcking, at least until this whole pandemic is over. She's not supposed to be hanging out with her stupid orbiters right now anyway, so you can give her 5hit when she brings up the subject. You can even tell her that if she hangs out with her orbiters, you're going to kick her to the curb because you don't want any of that life-threatening pandemic 5hit in your body.


If You DON'T Have a GF/Sexual Partner...

Well buddy, you're not going to get one anytime soon unless you can convince the virgin that God makes exceptions for your d1ck. You're either going to have to REALLY amp up your rapport with her, or you're going to get pissed off that your hours of effort are yielding no results. You're better off to make your hand your current fvck buddy and enjoy the masturbation. It's time to make yourself better! Lose weight, gain muscle, take up a new hobby, fix all that 5hit that's broken around your home, etc. You're going to have a LOT of time with yourself, because I don't see this pandemic 5hit going away anytime soon.


The Social Results of the Pandemic

I swear we're going to have a new wave of baby boomers. Those who are locked up in their house together are going to do a lot of fvcking because they won't have much else to do. However, once the pandemic is lifted and we no longer have to do this social distancing stuff, people are going to be hooking up and fvcking like rabbits because they've been so desperate and horny. There will be new babies born, I guarantee you that.

For those of you looking for a long term woman, the end of this pandemic is going to give you a very small wave of women who will be virgins in the 18-23 range. Virgins (or at least women who are close to being virgins) make the best long-term partners because they are easily influenced, they don't have any life of their own yet, and they'll take your life as their own and won't feel the need to find a different man because they haven't gone through the alpha-widow damage yet.

So pick your battles wisely while we weather the 5hit storm. Put up with your existing bytch for the sex until social distancing is done away with, and do some much-needed self-improvement if you're making love to your hand every night.
I'm still running game. Prior to the pandemic, new leads. Catch and release. I'd have kept more if I had been aware.

New leads, girls still come but there is a huge turn over. Hit up by old flames, past plates, and randoms.

ToddV posted about a vlog on measures to keep girls. The inevitable plates dropping off and smashing is not anything new. The pandemic is a opportunity. Women are legit scared and dumb.

And yet high interest girls are coming over still. Women will claw the eyes out of every man women and child to get to the alpha male.

I lead. She follows or next ladies and gentlemen. This pandemic is no different. It could be a zombie apocalypse or mad ****in max, and baeeee is still coming (or next set).
 

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Bro... You're right. I've been playing around on OLD just to polish up my text game. It's really really hard to get these women to meet up lol.

When do you think this is gonna blow over?

My goal in 2020 was to have fvcked 17-18 women. I've only fvcked 7 now. Once this blows over, I'm gonna have to go into maximum overdrive, like 5 Approaches a day. Cause I'm losing hella approach time due to this virus lol.

Like you said, the best solution is to work on my purpose/hobbies/SMV. So when I do come back to Approaching, I'll be much improved and I'll get better results.

Troy Francis is saying, people are gonna start humping in the street.

The separation anxiety from people and interaction will likely lead to pulling above your weight.

Study, hit the books, and busy yourself.
 

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I thought it was in my head but I had a feeling getting a chick during the pandemic is going to be difficult. Where the hell would I want her to meet if everything is closed? A chick I asked out at academy giggled and asked where we'd go I remember. Plus she(women) could be worried about catching the virus with each other we are strangers after all.

I think guys who don't have a sex partner and don't do OLD right now should accept it for the time being to not expect easy meet ups like they normally would but nothing wrong with trying of course.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This sounds like a great thing if you want to use zoom or skype to have interactions with women across the world. It eliminates allot of barriers if it's not convenient to meet women anyway, if you are insecure about your SMV value, and if the end-game is some cyber-relationship where you'll never actually meet.
 

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It’s weird. I haven’t used OLD in at least 6 months, maybe 8, and all of the sudden in the last month I’ve had at least 3 women I probably ghosted and haven’t talked to since want to meet up.

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I don’t even remember a Stacey. The isolation must be driving them mad.
I see women on my IG timeline(whom I know personally) posting bikini pics---these are conservative women mind you
The liberal ones are posting twerking videos from TIK TOK
Right now for some guys it's easy money, for others guys there gonna have to pay on onlyFans
 

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I see women on my IG timeline(whom I know personally) posting bikini pics---these are conservative women mind you
The liberal ones are posting twerking videos from TIK TOK
Right now for some guys it's easy money, for others guys there gonna have to pay on onlyFans
That's not conservative. That's fraudin.
 

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I'm noticing more AW's than usual on OLD
A lot of women willing to sent naughty pictures (some even unsolicited)
However women are still flakey, I've met a couple.
One whom had major issues $$$ wise and another who admitted to being bi-polar (explains why she drove 2.5 hours)
If this continues I'm expecting in the next month for the floodgates to open but I'm not worried
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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