I know there's a lot of nuance to these situations, but here's the details I got...
a. First date solid
b. Texting
c. Second date and time set
d. SF sends random text Wednesday, not to confirm date, just chatting
e. Plate doesn't respond till Friday
f. SF has made other plans
It sounded like she was texting to confirm, possibly to flake, but who knows. The fact remains that you did have a date set.
I may have responded with..
Her "I haven't heard from you in 3 days"
Me "Hey sexy, see you at 8"
Her "some random flake excuse"
Me "Lame", then silence...
Or maybe she still comes. Who knows at this point? Even if I made other plans, I would have waited for her to "tip her hand".
Your approach is still solid, but I am merely suggesting a different approach if you didn't have plans or actually chose to stay in for the night.
I'm not sure missing one text in a woman you have only fvcked once and talked to for a week or so warrants disrespect.
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I maybe old fashioned man.. I usually ask someone a question by text, they message me back. I think that's how it works
The girl ghosted me... Not heard a word in 3 days..
Late in the evening one hour before the date time, she messages me with an extremely ****y attitude and victim playing.
She even stated MY LOSS, when I didn't immediately drop everything and immediately text her back.
No disrespect here? Honestly.
I understand your point though man. Thanks